Long Distance Relationships

[mar_cebu08]

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I have been in a long distance relationship with my gf for about 2 years now. I am working here in Cebu and she was on the other Island we just keep in touch other by calling emails etc...I cant even believe that I could survive this kind of set -up. Love really moves in mysterious ways...trust is a big factor on this kind of relationship..

She is coming to cebu this december for she has graduated already and plans to work here.
Perhaps one thing I could advice for those who have this kind of relationship "Love understands and therefore waits".

So much drama..hehehe...Basta make your relationship God centric...

[jutai]

mao jud trust lang jud. ayaw dala sa imong huna2x. kay di jud ma likayan nga mag huna2x ka ug bati sa imong partner.

[jLuspoc]

paeta ani oi nag antos ko karun sa LDR 3 months na lisod kau oi maka huna2x man tah dli mao alang naa sxay cell then dual pa jud sun ug smart. . . . . . mangutana ko why man naa kay smart cumunicate daw nya sa iyang mga cousin then why man naa kay sun basin naa ka daghan callmyt . .ingun pod sxa ako raman daw . . wat f wala ko load. . . ?? diba

then nag bantay pod sxa ug internet shoop lahus kada adlaw me mag chat pero who knows mu sulod jud nako sa akong huna2x ang mga bad thngs. . .

perteng lisoda oi kulbaan ko makakita sxa laen didto

Gang, i tell u... sa Mirc ngStart ang among Love story sakong bana karon.. dra mi ngka ila din ngka suod mi... yr 2002 mi ngka uyab & now minyo nami this yr lang ky ni uli na xa gkan gawas... bsta msaligan lang ang imong uyab wala man cguro problema... LRD pod mi sakong bana sa una.. naa xa sa cebu nya ako naa sa mindanao.. layo di ba? give and take lang mi, kung wala xa lod, ako xang lodan.. pag ako ang wala lod ako na pod iyang lodan... depende ra na sa inyong duha kung both sa inyo inyong seryusohon ang inyong relasyon...

bsta kung mkita nmo na dli masaligan ang imong uyab ayaw nlang ug padaun pra dli au ka msakitan...


gud luck gang...

[candydudz]

for me lang ha.. mine was not so bad cebu sya tacloban ko.. but then naa man gud effort i visit him he visits me every month so dili kaayo lisud. and a long as open and communication lines the naa gyud chnace mu work.. the important thing is trust

[beachbutton]

i think the important thing is the love that you have for each other. Communication will keep that possible..the world is a much smaller place now because of the internet and other technology. grab every opportunity that you get to talk to her or see her. Note that maybe this separation is a temporary thing and remember that you're looking forward to a future when you will be together again. I guess its the anticipation that might keep you going. and above all, ask for God's wisdom and guidance in keeping your relationship alive. Don't give up! God bless!

[kratos83]

Im having a Long distance relationship right now.. its definitley hard..
labi nag oceans apart gyud, constant communication lang.. and there should be TRUST..

Japan ko cbu akong GF, mingaw gyud,loyalty is the best policy, mind set rana sa tao,
kung magpadala sa biga, aw malas..

naa rana ninung duha, kung love gyud ninu ang usag usa, distance is not a problem, but a test, on how strong your love for each other is..

[Red.Emano]

lam lam! bulag man lagi mi!

[ellehpo28]

For us, it works.
I think it is dependent on several factors.
If both parties are serious and committed in their relationship and if love is strong enough, it will survive the test of time and distance.
Communication is very important. We communicate everyday. It's like we are together always with the use of cp and internet and webcam.
I never dwell on the thought that he is cheating because I am not guilty of cheating and a woman knows through intution if their partner is cheating or not.
We have developed our relationship for more than 2 years (long distance) before we got married and we still get separated due to work outside of the country. Right now he's been away for almost 2 years and our marriage is going stronger on its 7th year this coming April.

So, in essence, depende talaga sa 2 involve sa relationship, if they are willing and committed to do their share of the works to make it last and strong. Most of the time, immaturity on either of the partner, or lack of communication and trust on the partner ang cause ng break up.

Kaya mga guys and girls, don't get into a relationship just for the sake na me masabi ka na may bf or gf ka.

[thephoenix]

Hay pasensyahe nalang ninyo akong post kay nagpahungaw ra kos gibate. Paita gyud ining long distance relationship kay gamay ra gyud ang molungtad. Maayo lang og ang duha mokapit gyud sa isag isa. After 8 long years, nagubot na ang akong relasyon with my best friend. 5 years mi nag uban sa Pilipinas, everyday, halos di nalang magbulag..then nanglangyaw man lagi, nabulag (physically) pero sige gihapon chats, emails, telephone halos everyday. Imbes kay hapit na mi mag 8 years, ayha pa nagka third party. Ako lang gipaabot akong papers para mag migrate nako sa Canada, naa na noon gasinamok, kauban daw niya sa work. Akoang gipangutana unsay estado sa namong duha, naglibog daw siya unsay buhaton. Nahulog daw iyang pagbati sa iyang kauban sa work, pero di sad kuno siya gusto na mabulag mi kay love pa daw ko niya. Pwedi diay nang magsapaw sapaw diay? ayahay kaayo siya na magdoble doble, wala man gani ko magbinuang dinhe na daghan kaayo tentasyon. Sa akoang kalagot nga nasayang lang among tanang plano, wala na nako gichat, la na nako ginabaslan ang mga txt og tawag sa akoang cellpon, pero matubag lang gihapon nako ang akoang landline kay usahay mapunit man sa akoang kauban ang telephone daw mahatag sa akoa, akoa ra sad palungon sa kalagot. gakapuyan nako, libog pud ko pag ayo kung idayon pa ba nako migrate sa Canada or dinhe nalang kos Amerikana magsugod sa akoang new life. Ang nakapait kay wala dinhe akong pamilya, tua pa sa pilipinas, unya kung naa koy makaestorya na mga friends pati pa among sigkapamilya di pweding di mabanggit ang name sa usa mangumusta sa telephone.

Hahay Kinabuhi! maayo untag sayon ang pagkalimot, kanang di ta masakitan pag ayo. gustohon man nako mobuhi makigkalas, samokan among sigkapamilya kay nakakonek na. Unsa man maayo na buhaton?

Salamat sa tanang mag reply! pasensya nalang, gubot lang ang hunahuna...

[jntio]

pasalamat nalng ka ky honest cya, mi angkon daun na naa cya lain. dba?? f luv pka nya, dli ka nya ilisan. sakto ba ko? sa 1st lng na ang sakit, ma limtan rana nmo lomalabay. paabota nalng ang ryt person ky naa gyd na g gahin para imoha. ok?? ako pa nmo kng unsa mka au para sa imo future, mao sunda. lawm kau na hap!! goodluck! =)