Being the Nice Guy

[Maikeru]

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Hmm...hope dat der still many patient guys out der...goodluck to all of them...and for those girls who had and find one...keep your eyes on ur guy...you might not like the idea of him tempted to turn right.

But mostly do get averted.. dunno sup with this people.. heheh Cheers to all nice guy (sadly im not one of em)

[shaxyra]

im glad i got one of the nice guys.. since nagkauyab mi.. natakdan na nako.. bad boi napud sha gamay.. pero molabaw jud iya pagkanice

[acecrystal]

kudos to nice men..... not coward,immature idiot

[Baeybe_Bryce]

For those girls who's with a nice guy,try to thank or appreciate them. We never know until when they'll stay nice.

For those nice guys,Bow. Goodluck.

[sagoy]

This is for that time she left 40 urgent messages on your cell phone, and when you called her back, she spent three hours painstakingly dissecting two sentences her boyfriend said to her over dinner. And even though you thought her boyfriend was a chump and a jerk, you assured her that it was all ok and she shouldn’t worry about it. This is for that time she interrupted the best killing spree you’d ever orchestrated in DOTA to rant about a rumor that romantically linked her and the guy she thinks is the most repulsive person in the world.

And even though you thought it was immature and you had nothing against the guy, you paused the game for two hours and helped her concoct a counter-rumor to spread around the floor. This is also for that time she didn’t have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing “serious” between the two of you, she dragged you to a party where you knew nobody, the beer was awful, and she flirted shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: “oh, but we’re just friends!” And even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for her ego, you went anyways. Because you’re nice like that.

The nice guys don’t often get credit where credit is due. And I wish I could logically explain this trend, but I can’t. From what I have observed on campus and what I have learned from talking to friends at other schools and in the workplace, the only conclusion I can form is that many girls are just illogical, manipulative b**ches. Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as “oh, he’s too nice to date” or “he would be a good boyfriend but he’s not for me” or “he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn’t possibly ask him out!” or the most frustrating of all: “no, it would ruin our friendship.”

Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can’t figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I’m going to sleep with this complete a** now!). But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn’t last forever. There are definitely many girls who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice guys, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single.

So, until those girls are found, I propose a toast to all the nice guys. You know who you are, and I know you’re sick of hearing yourself described as ubiquitously nice. But the truth of the matter is, the world needs your patience in the department store, your holding open of doors, your party escorting services, your propensity to be a sucker for a pretty smile. For all the crazy, inane, absurd things you tolerate, for all the situations where you are the faceless, nameless hero, my accolades, my acknowledgement, and my gratitude go out to you. You do have credibility in this society, and your well deserved vindication is coming.

[spectre]

If your referring to nice guys as the ones who are chivalrous, polite, kind, thoughtful, generous, etc etc etc...but can think and act on their own, well, I agree. Here's to you!

But if you're talking about those nice guys who give whatever the gal wants, agree with whatever the gal says, do whatever the gal likes...in short, thinking and acting to gain the favor of the gal (and not be himself) then I feel sorry for them. They will always finish last because the gal will loose interest in them and just dump them over someone who has the spine to think and act on his own and compromise, if necessary.

[onlyvic]

being a nice guy turns to be just a friend.

[P-Chan]

being the nice guy to get the girl? hmm.. sounds right.. be the bestest friend ever in hoping to be more later on.. pero what if mao ra pud iya tanaw niya nimo? that usually what happends.. if you are really serious about the girl.. stop with the nice guy act and "kiss the girl".. it's better this way.. trust me..

[lowosam]

im a nice guy

[monmon]

me too!!! ahe...