HELP My Husband is a good man but I'm in love with someone else

[Jack Ryan]

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im making it up to him as much as i could sir,infact we talk now,better than we used to be.

glad to hear that now you discuss things over with your husband and not with your would-be-next husband.

but still it makes less sense to me, why you diluted your marriage with an affair. while your husband is busy working his ass out the whole day and you enjoying the companion of another someones' hands.

I don't think this would workout, your love is no longer pure, it has been corrupted.

it's tainted love.

[nitwit]

glad to hear that now you discuss things over with your husband and not with your would-be-next husband.

but still it makes less sense to me, why you diluted your marriage with an affair. while your husband is busy working his ass out the whole day and you enjoying the companion of another someones' hands.

I don't think this would workout, your love is no longer pure, it has been corrupted.

it's tainted love.

put it this way sir, i do have a business as well,i do work but i always organize my time to do my household chores, i do my duties as a wife,i cook,i clean the house and yet i still have spare time to spend with him but he doesnt have any time for me. my feelings for him was sort of pass on to someone else due to i've felt that i am being neglected.

[Fern]

glad to hear that now you discuss things over with your husband and not with your would-be-next husband.

but still it makes less sense to me, why you diluted your marriage with an affair. while your husband is busy working his ass out the whole day and you enjoying the companion of another someones' hands.

I don't think this would workout, your love is no longer pure, it has been corrupted.

it's tainted love.

yeah i agree Its tainted Love .....(i remember Marilyn Mansons MTV nga same ug title "tainted love")

@TS ---> basin si marilyn manson sad imung gusto karon

[homeryap]

dili man sa pag judge sis ha pero why did you marry him in the first place when you fell out of love that easily? and you said that your husband always treats you right.

[nitwit]

dire ra ko sa forum murag bayot ug baba... but im completely the opposite in person.

and now that you mention it... basin utro sad ka mu patol ug pokpok? lolz thats right

basin pokpok na imung uyabuyab karon.... something a pokpok can only give you nga dili ma hatag sa imung asawa

sir fern nindot ra ayo ka ug pokpok sir, bisan ikaw di kaafford.basin ikaw pay paliton.hahaha.ceo tapos pokpok?perfect combination. pataka lang jud ka ug yawit sir, pataka ug judge,tagna-tagna lang.

[nitwit]

dili man sa pag judge sis ha pero why did you marry him in the first place when you fell out of love that easily? and you said that your husband always treats you right.

sir we were madly inlove with each other.its all started 3 months after marriage when he took over the family business.thats when he became so preoccupied. he doesnt want to fail his parents. my love doesnt fell out that easy. 2 years ive been understanding him sir, 2 years ive been supportive.

[hunt99]

sir we were madly inlove with each other.its all started 3 months after marriage when he took over the family business.thats when he became so preoccupied. he doesnt want to fail his parents. my love doesnt fell out that easy. 2 years ive been understanding him sir, 2 years ive been supportive.

you know sis kung ang reason lang ky di ky siya ka hatag og oras nimo ky tongod sa ka busy onya supportive ka onya wa man kaha ka bino-angi niya wa man kaha siyay sala nimo kama-o gyud kam o agwanta you know sis am bisan laki ko ha kasagaran baya mag binoang sa babae laki baya gyud pero di tanan laki ing-ana ky ako gani past reverse ako moy nasakitan kaayo but mo forgive man gyud ko and past is past most important is the present even single na lang ta forever basta malipay ta labi pa ika duha nani nakong kinabuhi ky dapat dead naman ko onya kasagaran sad sa babae pili-an gyud ang appearance man gud tan-awon og una you mas maayo gyud inner beauty tan-awon og una pero sad noon di man tanan babae ing-ana cause actually getting into a relationship both love, care , comfort, help, trust, respect, honest and both has good attitudes, moves and style og dili na pang lingaw seryos na gyud na tinarong magkasinabot mong duha og malipayon mo onya ayaw gyud mog buhat anang *** onya nalang og minyo na mo so nano ma wagtangan man kag ganan iya kung ang rason nimo ky mao lang na ky wa siya kahatg oras nimo perog busy siya ky para lang pod sa inyong pamilya wala manay kaso pero imohang bana nag bino-ang nimo di nana maayo masm aayo na mag sotrya mo if ing-ana imong bana nag bino-ang nimo perog wala sabta lang agwantaha bisan pag 40 namo ka years or 100 years na pero wa ka bino-angi ky paran a sa inyong pamilya mao ng busy siya agwanta intawn oi inner beauty is much better pero i didn't mean ha na di sad ka love gyud niya love gyud kaayo ka ky asawa gud ka

[nitwit]

you know sis kung ang reason lang ky di ky siya ka hatag og oras nimo ky tongod sa ka busy onya supportive ka onya wa man kaha ka bino-angi niya wa man kaha siyay sala nimo kama-o gyud kam o agwanta you know sis am bisan laki ko ha kasagaran baya mag binoang sa babae laki baya gyud pero di tanan laki ing-ana ky ako gani past reverse ako moy nasakitan kaayo but mo forgive man gyud ko and past is past most important is the present even single na lang ta forever basta malipay ta labi pa ika duha nani nakong kinabuhi ky dapat dead naman ko onya kasagaran sad sa babae pili-an gyud ang appearance man gud tan-awon og una you mas maayo gyud inner beauty tan-awon og una pero sad noon di man tanan babae ing-ana cause actually getting into a relationship both love, care , comfort, help, trust, respect, honest and both has good attitudes, moves and style og dili na pang lingaw seryos na gyud na tinarong magkasinabot mong duha og malipayon mo onya ayaw gyud mog buhat anang *** onya nalang og minyo na mo so nano ma wagtangan man kag ganan iya kung ang rason nimo ky mao lang na ky wa siya kahatg oras nimo perog busy siya ky para lang pod sa inyong pamilya wala manay kaso pero imohang bana nag bino-ang nimo di nana maayo masm aayo na mag sotrya mo if ing-ana imong bana nag bino-ang nimo perog wala sabta lang agwantaha bisan pag 40 namo ka years or 100 years na pero wa ka bino-angi ky paran a sa inyong pamilya mao ng busy siya agwanta intawn oi inner beauty is much better pero i didn't mean ha na di sad ka love gyud niya love gyud kaayo ka ky asawa gud ka

so are u saying sir that i shoukd just stick to where we are?antos nalang ko nga iya ko etake for granted?

[hunt99]

so are u saying sir that i shoukd just stick to where we are?antos nalang ko nga iya ko etake for granted?

onsam an gyud diay sis wa na gyud siyay paki alam nimo try ko nog talk niya onsa gyud iya gi buhat pero na busy lang gyud ky para man kaha sa inyo family ok raman na pero dapat sad noon bisan usahay lang gyud maka give siyag time nimo pero kung na-a siyay gi buhat na wala paka kablo na di maayo aw kana storya-i gyud ky minyo gud mo basin gi agwanta lang na niya ky basin nakuyawan siya na mag lisod ya mo mas mo lisod mo pero talk sa niya or onsa man gyud imoha gyud nano na sad ka tongod lang ba sa wa siyay time nimo

[tiny|tin|toys]

guys please dont judge me.married ko but inlove ko sa laing guy. kahibalo man ang guy na married ko,pero di naman ko happy sa amo marriage life.gi ingnan ko niya biyaan ako hubby tapos pakasal me pero murag unfair man gud coz my hubby always treat me right.unsaon man ni?nice guy man pud siya.libog ko.helppp!!!!

i think i was too late to read this and also i dont have the time to read through everything.

But question is, in the first place why did you marry your husband? If your husband is a good person then dont leave him. Quite honestly, you have to question the other guys character. He may be good to you now but in the long run, will he be still? Another point I'd like to raise, a good person would never go into a relationship with someone who's married. Point two is, its even worst for him to tell you to leave your husband. It aint that easy, morally, spiritually, and financially.

I suggest you devote your efforts to making your marriage work. If your starting to, well and good and I wish you all the luck and I even salute you for that. Finding a guy now adays to treat you right and to love you unconditionally is hard to find these days. I suggest you keep what you have.


okay, so i took the time to read your reason above. may i suggest you talk things through with your hubby, or, get counseling. it may sound drastic but its worth a try. or also, you can remind him of why he was madly in love with you. *wink*
my two cents. no offense meant.