Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

[tessai]

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You have to come up with a decision to let go and move on..That's the first thing you should do before everything..Mind over matter bro..

agree pud ko ani. before ka ka.move on you have to come up to a firm decision.
lisud ra sa sugod, but eventually ma.wa ra nah...

don't rush. let time take its course.

[lyn_08]

its sad to read this jud!!
I'v been in your situation before but mas dgay ang n.u..
I know its hard but try to keep your self busy..
try to discover sumthin new about yourself..
and start loving urself pajud!!
hang out with your friends, family..
i know you can make it, and youl be better in due tyms..
tym heals!!
Gudluck!!

[Soul_Captive]

Time, indeed, heals everything..The scar may still exist, but it will not hurt anymore..It will just serve as a memory of the pain and a reminder to be stronger..

[tessai]

Time, indeed, heals everything..The scar may still exist, but it will not hurt anymore..It will just serve as a memory of the pain and a reminder to be stronger..

very well said.

ang scar ma.wa basta butangan ug sebo de macho... (ambot sakto buh na pagka.spell) hehe

[Soul_Captive]

very well said.

ang scar ma.wa basta butangan ug sebo de macho... (ambot sakto buh na pagka.spell) hehe

Makawala jd diay sis?Haven't tried it man gud..La man pod koy daghan scars...hehehe..

OnT: If there is the will, there will always be a way..

So, once you have decided to let go, and you are firm about your decision, a lot of ways to do it will show up..

[tessai]

"when the heart is willing, it will find a thousand ways. when it's not, it will find a thousand excuses.'

that's what i heard... but i am not sure. haven't tried it man pud. hehe

[HIRO_NTA]

time heals all wounds.. the pain is fresh ..but eventually youll get over her.. take 2 whole months to wallow over your loss and then on the 3rd month your ready to move on go out in the wild, start dating, this will help get her out of your head and eventually your heart , if this doesnt work watch "forgetting sarah marshall" heheh sunda lang nya what that guy did i feel for you dude, ana jud nah ..our so called life...

[Nouovoman]

Thanks for the tips bro / sis. I just hate the present time. Since we work on the same company, we almost meet everyday. And i hate the thing na when we meet, mag STAR STAR akong mata! Huhuhu. Magpanikad pa ang nag uros uros nga gugma. I have decided na to let her go, but i just hate it lang.
huhuhuhu.....

[sagoy]

Ever heard of NEXTing? Google lng na.... Or pwede ka mu search ug Ladder Theory and pangitaa ang NEXTing ngadto.. This helped my friend a lot, pero weird kaayu kai murag "How To's" para sa mga guys.

[jakadeem]

>>>I'm reading this so i would also what to do to move forward swiftly. =C just lost my love of 8 years and 7 months to a problem that we had ever since but didn't dare talk about.. it's sad cause we could've prevented this moment.. but it's true that we can never make a final decision on one thing unless we're faced with it head on. so karon lang namo na storyahan ug mau ang differences namo with religion because we're planning to get married na. do you understand the point? so it's like, we knew we have a problem with it, but since wla paman jud mi plan sauna mag minyo, wla pa jud xa ni matter totally.
although, somehow it did. at one point, i remember saying that i would convert to his religion, but now, i can't stand up for what i said 8 yrs back. it's just that there are some practices that i don't agree with and can't really do. =C sad thing, he's not willing to compromise. FYI, he's not required to convert.. cause it was never an issue with mine. all i ask is for him to respect my decision and try to accept as i am..

we've argued about it couple of times, and now, he's waiting for me to decide, but since i can't and he seemed pretty firm on his decision then i 'willed' to move on without him. i wish i could turn things around..but then, everything happens for a reason. we have just to think the positive side in every circumstance.

ilovepooh: Turn to God, He's the only who can comfort us truly.