Long Distance Relationships

[sokolate]

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Im in a LDR for 1yr and 7mons and 21days... nag buwag me pag 08/17/08 gi kapoi ako GF. nya gi kapoi sad ko.


so para nako LDR won't work.

[exzil718]

lisod jud nang LDR but naa ra man sad jud na sa person involved....kung ma himo nila ma work out, mas maayo but kung dili jud, move on....

[gerard]

sos smart ray katapat ana LDR..
hehehehehehe..

[theused]

basta wala lai magpa tental gud.. nya as long as naa jud ng plano nga mag kita... heheh

[rubeh01]

f sa start sa nu relationship kai long distance na,, thats definitely hard... kai wala pa au moi a establish na trust sa nu relationship but if u have been in that relationship for long and then kelangan na ma-long distance kai mu larga ang isa ninu and both of you know na u can trust 1 another bsn naa pa mo sa mgka-laing planeta, then maybe that relationship can still work out...

[carlocolme]

i've been through a long distance relationship... it was hard... i met up with her 7months later... in another country... and we broke up... for me, long distance relationships are ok... only if both of you have the will and determination for it.. but unfortunately... one will always break... i mean no offense... but based on experience ba... sometimes, love just won't last when you're apart for such a long time... especially if ma.exposed and usa to another culture... they will change... or you yourself will change... pero ok kau if mu work out, dba? hehehe...

[babygin2005]

hmm..interesting topic...because I've been there...way back 4 years ago. I had a long distance relationship that only lasted for 3 months. The guy was introduced to me by a friend. We only became friends through texting. After a year of texting, he decided to come to Cebu and meet me. Actually, na assign sya sa iyang work somewhere in Negros. Although he has relatives here in cebu, he doesn't come often unless there are family affairs like birthdays etc. So, to make the story short, nag kakami jud...From then on, even though walay events sa iyang family, mu visit sya nako, pero, tag one day ra or madugay2x jud kon mu file sya ug leave...so mao to, inig uli nya balik sa Negros, grabe kaayo ug check kun asa nako, nag-unsa ko...mura gani ug walay trust...actually, mura pud ko ug natuok atong sitwasyona, den naa pud ko na notice niya while we were dating here in Cebu nga naa magsige ug call niya sa phone, nya instinct biya sa mga girls nga murag lain jud ni da...i think iya jud tong girl sa Negros kay iya mang i.cancel ang call...then, if mu.call iya mga taw, iya tubagon...duda jud ko ato iyang gi.cancel, so mao pud nga point nga murag naa sya gi.hide nako...basta, mura dili jud gitakda nga makami, and love jud ko ni Lord, giwagtang rapud ni Lord akong feelings ato niya, first pajud to nako sya nga boyfriend, painful biya, pero si Lord God jud ang akong guide ato nga time...so mao to, i decided to break up with him, arun mintras sayu2x pa, ma-stop na..hehehe..mao to...bow!!

[theused]

pait lang long distance... naa bitaw to dri employado sa amo opisina na kaslunon na sila duha.. pero ni larga ang gurl para makipagsapalaran para sa ilahang future... after few months.. namabdus ang gurl dd2 sa dubai man cguro to... aw.. yaka ang laki pagka hibaw oi....

[cla_kylem]

didn't work for me...but it should have worked if he did not give up on me...so i'd say LDR will work for those who have commitment..for those who are willing & sincere to finish what they've started...because love alone isn't enough to make it work...

[jimmy128]

i'll keep this short and simple...

long distance relationships can work... but it requires more maintenance and care than normal relationships...

if your thinking of going into 1 ask yourself the following questions

1. Is he/she worth the wait?

2. Do i care for this person more than anyone?

3. Do i plan on marrying him/her? (important because its motivation for you to keep the relationship)

4. Do i trust him/her with all my heart and does he/she trust me in the same way?

5. Can i endure the distance between us? (seeing other normal couples can get you longing to be with him/her)

6. Am i sure we will treat each other the same as when we are texting or far apart? (some people treat each other differently when together or apart)

7. Lastly, do i trust myself that i wont fall for any other person "near" me? (meaning in your area)

if you answered yes to all of these there is a good chance of success in your LDR