Dare to steal boyfriends?

[Ms.Beau]

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haayy.. All right, we really have different insights regarding that. Im sorry if wala ka kakuha sa situation na amo gituke ngari. karon pa man ka gud. the situation that we have here is.. the guy and the gurl were lovers. the guy moved away, migrated somewhere from the planet nemus! eventually, 2 years after the guy is with someone new. he went back home and accidentally met the gurl. sparks are still glitterin'. so would you fight in having him back or let go. mao na ang gusto ipafight ni sheka. na iya jud buhaton tanan. mao sad na ni segunda ko niya. not what you're thinking.

i wasn't aware of the context you mentioned. is it mentioned before page 10 coz i backtracked to that page and i didn't see any mention of it. anyway, if that's the case, my take is that the facts are clear: they WERE lovers. the guy IS with someone new. the question is: fight for the guy or let go? does this mean the girl has not let go of the guy yet? it's been two years, nag unsa man diay sya adto nga time nag sige ug hulat or laum? mao diay nga maka ingon man siya nga mo "fight for the guy" siya as if the guy was taken away from her. No, reality says the guy LEFT her for someone. perhaps theres an element of denial here if she would still insist that the guy was taken away from her. di man kaha minor tong guy, so im sure he was accountable for his decision of getting a new gf. that fact alone tells me it's over between him and the old gf. that should have been closure.

but of course it's up to the girl if she would want to give it another chance. but let me say she's not a victim here. she should be careful with entitlement thoughts--"i can do whatever i want coz i'm the victim...ako ilang gi ilugan busa karon bawi-on nako, whatever it takes." again, dili man siya biktima. so kung magbalik sila, aw tarongon gud gihapon...let the guy break up with the current gf. balik gihapon ta sa make sure the guy is free before you enter (in this case RE-ENTER) his life.

that's my point of view. i respect yours; i'm just sharing mine.

@ricky_loco
nah this isn't something to worry about...these are all healthy exchanges of views. forum gani.

[n`gel]

If you're the best girl for your guy... everygirlelse (<--- toinks) is but just another girl. BUT let us not forget that each person is unique and has something special in her. Nobody's perfect right? Dili man pud ta kaingon nga in every relationship ma bring out nato atong best for the guy... what if bag-o pa mo nagkauyab? If he ALLOWS himself to pay attention to another girl closely... there's a possibility that he will SEE that special something in her and MIGHT fall under her charms. But of course if super inlove na siya sa iya gf... to him... she's the only 1... aw wala gyuy makailog. Pag flirt palang daan sa girl... iya nang gi SUPO' (<--- it would rock if a guy can say to a flirty girl "wala nalang gyuy manguyab nimo dai nga manguyab man ka naku?") tahahaha... I actually like guys nga garbuso.

But anyways... naay ubang mga babae para nila need ang competition... am sure gwapa pa ko's imo gf... mas sexy... mas buotan... so she tries to hunt and prove her prowess. Makailog gani siya... lipay kaayo siya kay laliman ka siya gud ang gipili... victory on her side eh? BUT let's not forget SIYA ang gahimo ug EFFORT. Contesay nalang gyud kinsa'y pinaka gwapa? Pinaka hot? Unya nakailog tuod siya what if ang guy makakita na pud ug mas hot, mas gwapa, o di biyaan gihapon siya di ba? Kapoi kapoi lang.

As to sheka's case... she doesn't have to make an effort. Dali raman pag express sa guy ba nga "I want you back" pero dili na siya kinahanglan maningkamas sa todo... if the guy goes home sa pinas and still likes her... he would leave his gf for her. AT LEAST ang guy ang nipili... to sheka's side... kahibaw pud siya nga wala siya nangilog. Siya ang gigukod. There's really a big difference.

But anyways, agree pud ko ni Bigfoot about self-reflection.

Furthermore, a guy knows your worth man gyud. Unsa ka kabililhon para niya... unsa ka kaimportante sa iya life. Basta naa na sa point ingon ani ang relationship... it must take a really good woman too to threaten the relationship. Ang kanindot lang... good women don't steal... they usually wait. They don't clamour for men. They're calm and graceful.

[ronna]

fighting over your loved one dear sheka is not stealing - cos if you and the guy love each other, you will both bravely say it to his gf's face. that both of you love each other and that the guy is ready to leave the gf already. that is not stealing. it has a consent from the owner. am i making sense? hehehe. ambot basta...
and i get your point. we will fight for migo lage for migo basta mapunta sa lain. tabangan pa tika.

i wasn't aware of the context you mentioned. is it mentioned before page 10 coz i backtracked to that page and i didn't see any mention of it.

you are not aware of it cos Miss Beau, it is only for sheka. I specifically adreessed it to her cos we are talking about someone or something that need not be mentioned specifically here and you just jumped in without testing the waters. Blurting out your words that I dont even know how and where you get those conclusions with. Well anyway, yeah you are entitled to your own opinion.

@ricky. hehehe.. forum bro. Thanx anyways.
@sheka. sorry babe, my bad.. nalalis ba naman, i didnt mean to.

[Ms.Beau]

you are not aware of it cos Miss Beau, it is only for sheka. I specifically adreessed it to her cos we are talking about someone or something that need not be mentioned specifically here and you just jumped in without testing the waters. Blurting out your words that I dont even know how and where you get those conclusions with. Well anyway, yeah you are entitled to your own opinion.

2 things:

1. my line of thinking and arguments are still very intact and clear.

2. i don't just blurt out words. hardly. i know my responsibilities as a poster. when i post and i know there is a serious flow of discussion, i get my views out there clear and well supported. and if there's any context i need to convery, i mention it for everyone to understand.

[ricky_loco72]

you are not aware of it cos Miss Beau, it is only for sheka. I specifically adreessed it to her cos we are talking about someone or something that need not be mentioned specifically here and you just jumped in without testing the waters. Blurting out your words that I dont even know how and where you get those conclusions with. Well anyway, yeah you are entitled to your own opinion.

@ricky. hehehe.. forum bro. Thanx anyways.
@sheka. sorry babe, my bad.. nalalis ba naman, i didnt mean to.

steal or be stolen...
its up to you...

[sheka]

@ronna

no problem babes
kung si migo pa to involved! and mao na mahitabo namo in the future..

d lang ko mag duha duha og ilog.. mag tulo tulo pa jud ko

[br]Posted on: December 15, 2006, 02:29:24 PM_________________________________________________

fighting over your loved one dear sheka is not stealing - cos if you and the guy love each other, you will both bravely say it to his gf's face. that both of you love each other and that the guy is ready to leave the gf already. that is not stealing. it has a consent from the owner. am i making sense? hehehe. ambot basta...
and i get your point. we will fight for migo lage for migo basta mapunta sa lain. tabangan pa tika.

hehehe kani na situation ako pasabot.

let's say. i met a guy then we fell in love. but naa siya gf. and later on we shared the same feeling na
and later pa gyud. we're totally inlove with each other na. wala a siya feelings sa iyang current gf.
i'm a 3rd party in this situation.. stealing ghapon nii... pero naa ko gamay na rights coz what the girl is holding siya ang legal gf(legal wife hehe) pero i have the guy's heart.. so fight ghapon ko!!!!


if migo is involved! ambot nalang d ko ka tell grrrr!
wa nlang kwenta i was born year of d tiger!!!!! hehehe

[wicked_b]

^sheka_babe, you got that spirit..Go Girl...

nothing wrong man tingali if u fight for love

sa guy sad nga deserving and he give u back..

well, kung wala na xa feelings sa iya current gf..

time to let go nman sad tingali..

pro, sa guy nana nga prob...

[sheka]

^sheka_babe, you got that spirit..Go Girl...

nothing wrong man tingali if u fight for love

sa guy sad nga deserving and he give u back..

well, kung wala na xa feelings sa iya current gf..

time to let go nman sad tingali..

pro, sa guy nana nga prob...

i've got the spirit coz i use modess hehehe..

pero ibutang ta lang na ako ang girl na biyaan sa ako love..
i know it's not easy to let go.
pero mas lisod man mu hold na ikaw nalang ang nangusog dba
at first siguro mu fight sad ko pero if little nalang jud ang chance
and slowly ni deteriorate na.. maybe give up sad ko

idealistic ra sad kay ko...

[ronna]

@sheka. waaahhhhh
mura ko ga-aso na gibubu-an ug tubig dah! hahaha

:mrgreen:

basta ang imo imoha, kay charmz inyoha, ang akoa atoa. ayay! binuang nani dah.. apila sad ko anang inyo woi.
aw ang kay wicked nalang amoa duha. hahaha

[wicked_b]

@sheka

okay i put myself sa current gf,

hmm, well..grabeh ka sakit oi..grabeh jed..imagine nga naning kamot pa jed xa ug

know sa laing gurl and na.inlove pa jed cla both. WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME? or US?

nga nka.time paman xa ug lain, though we through thick and think situations..

@sheka_b, your right same here.i will try to defend my love sad tawn oi..if dli kaya,

well, dli pa gani mo tell ang guy nga break nami..unhan pa nko xa...

y stick pa sa taong luspad na..C'EST LA VIE...mao jed..that's life..

changes..atleast you both try being together and shared moments...

@ronna...hahaha, mangita ta na..k.swerte sa atong mapili.an sah?