LOVE vs/and RELIGION

[princess_21]

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sakto mutual understanding ra dyud na way pugsana'y ky lain kaayo kung mapugos imu partner tungod nimu nya di sya happy...mubalik ra ghapon na sa tinuod nya nga religion

[elaimakulai]

my gf is a muslim.. specifically a maranao.. i am a christian.. and we live in mindanao.. do u know how difficult that is? dli mi pwd makita sa lain tao na magkuyog kay f makit.an mi sa iya relatives i.salvage ko.. magkuyog mi kylngan daghan.. with barkada.. dli pwd ko pwd makagunit sa iyang kamot sa public place.. dli nako pwd mapakita how proud i am to have her in my life.. amigo pa nako iyang brother na magcgeg ingon na kung naa xa mahibal.an naguyab2 iyang sister ug christian patyon niya daun ang lake.. but kaya nako antoson na because i love her so much.. kabalo mo unsa na ka lisod?

it's really hard and I salute you bro.... ing-ana jud na ang love himuon tanan bahala na!

[ronz_rodz]

much prefer ko sa love bahala kinsa na siya or what religion as long as we respect each religion i supposed that would be ok

[tessF]

love para package tanan walay convert2

[sasy]

let me share two diff story(real)my sis n law and mine hopefully ma enlight ang uban.

i had a bf b4 nga devoted catholic and im an active born again. 3 yrs mi but nag break pud kay isa ni sa mga causes.it was a constant battle sa amo duha though we love each other.at first ok lang i thought harmless ang issue but as the months and years progress nge! nagka lalum ang issue.magkasinabot mi sa tanan butang except for this. magpakasal nlng mi issue pa rin asa ang wedding ceremony e held.o bd, stress ang byuti. stress na nga ta sa family and career pati ba naman sa luvlife?we tried to save the relationship but eventually gkapoy mi both kay balik2x ang issue dili namo ma solve.

right now im happily married(mag 3yrs na) have a daughter.Good news is: were both born again christian.so we share the same spiritual language.so sa issue nga spiritual were super ok we both encourage each other. Ang issue nlng we focus on a daily basis is for the future plans like financesl,character etc...im so happy though mahirap buhay.

my point:
* kun fling2x lang ok ra man diff religion mo.
* depend man gud sa level of spiritualty sa usa ka tao. sa case namo sa ako x,were
both rooted sa amo tagsa2x ka doctrine.mao walay gusto mo give way.i am active in the ministry
and so is he.

with me and my husband now,were both on the same level of spirituality.its a big help lalo na
marriage s really a challenge.we both have common denominators kaya yun important issue
nalang ang mas nabibigyan namin ng focus.

may sis n law iya hubby is INC and shes only a church goer born again, the girl compromise.and
theyre happy man now.no isues whatsoever.

*the issue is not about the kind of religion one has...for me, to eliminate some stress in life choose
within your descendant nlng. If your catholic then choose a mate na catholic rin.

[fingolfin]

.. i'm just basing my opinion on the title alone. It can't be called true love if religion is a hindrance. No matter what religion your partner has you should respect it and never imply that your partner's religion is bad nor yours' is better and vice versa. If you truly love your partner, then go ahead, let him/her be with whatever religion she/he practices.

[taurustippy]

Me and my wife have different religion. I'm a roman catholic and she's a born again christian. We do not have a child yet but i was thinking what if naa na nya mi baby unya ako siya tudloan pagpanguros, what if maglibog unya siya kay ngano iya mama dili man manguros?

..mao jud..lib0ga gyud ana..

[blank0000]

akng husband ky roman catholic den ako ky protestant naa mi bby krn gpbnyg xa sa roman catholic but i.smbh pd xa sa akng mama sa amu smbhn..so far wla pmn prblma ky bta pa amu bby but kng dako na xa he has all the right to choose unsa jd iyng gnhn nga religion.

[maddox_pitt]

my cousin is married to a protestant and we are devout catholics...
their wedding (in 2004) was a catholic wedding..@ the ceremony my cousin in law did not take the host (body of Christ)...
they had a daughter that year and she was christened in the Catholic Church..
now after 5 years, they're both doing good...ate needn't transfer to my cousins religion, and the other way around..
pero somehow she compromised kay even if wala xa bunyagi sa katoliko, musimba gihapon siya...siya pa gani magdala sa ilahang anak sa altar para i.bless sa pari...
i guess it's okay as long as you don't talk about it...about religion per ce... i think the couple should be more spiritual rather than religious... you can always teach good values to your kids whatever religion you belong in and when they're older, you can let them decide for themselves...

[maddox_pitt]

ako catholic, ako uyab inc... so wa sa ko ilaila iya fam tungod sad ana, until na preggy siya... hehe... so mao to ilaila na sa fam...

ila fam try og convert nako, hasta siya, ila daw ko papaminawon... pero ako wa ko nitry og paconvert niya kay di man sad ko active nga catholic in the first place, di man sad importante ang religion for me... pero wa ko paconvert sad kay di man gani ko simba sa catholic sila na ba nuon magpugos pugos niya nako pasimba... so mao to ila mi gipabuwag... lagot kaayo ko ato kay ang bata maoy napagan sa ilang kalaki... hinuon lain man sad sila og pamaagi sa ilang tinuohan, di na lang nako isulti ako comment bahin ana kay mura adto na na sa laing thread...

anyway, maygani in the end she chose to be with me... naa sad siya lain issues bout her fam so mao na wa na sad sila tarong commu [pero wa ko nikonsente ana kay di man na maayo, iya kaha tong family, siya may di gusto na commu2 nila]... na excommunicate na sad siya, niya wa na sad siya simba sa ila... so kuyog na mi ron though wa pa mi nakasal, mura di gyud mi makasal simbahan ani, hehe... pero bisan na excommu na siya, inc by heart man lang gihapon siya, mao na kaingon ko mura di mi makasal sa simbahan... di sad mi magdiscuss bout religion sad, kay kabaw mi wa say padulngan nang lalis nga ingana, and naa pay mas importanteng topic kaysa ana, though usahay mocomment gyud ko sa religion, as a general subject...

anyway, naa ra man na ninyo duha kung gusto mo magbuwag o inyo isettle inyo differences niya make the relationship work... depende ra na sa taw... sometimes mahimo lang nang convenient excuse ang religion aron magbuwag...

sa civil nalang mo bro para legal ghapon lisod man nang convert2x uy...
katong igsuon sa akong cousin-in-law (Catholic siya) kay nakauyab ug pareha sa religion sa imung ka.live.in bro..
ganahan xa pakaslan niya di man musugot ang ginikanan sa bayi..
niya nabuntis ang girl, pakaslan ta niya sa Katoliko di jud musugot..
perting hilak gud sa laki ato..
niya iyang mama(ang mama sa guy di sad Catholic) na lang nag-ingon "hala if nahan jud ka ana niya balhin na lang"
mao to ni.convert na lang sad siya kay ibog man xa au sa bayi...