The Girl is INSECURE with the Guy...need advices!

[simoncpu]

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[tribu]

tinuod di gyud sya ganahan nimo kay kana nalang ingnon ka nya na bisita lang sya sa office unya layo diay. pasabot gyud nya kay "ayaw na pakigkita nako, kung nahan ka gyud makigkita nako naa na kana nimo kung kaya nimo ang kalayo." she likes you but but she don't love you. you are "nice" pero di man ka guapo para nya.

[Col Center Trooper]

Guys.. thanks for your advices and comments... :mrgreen:

True, true... if a girl really like the guy, she would want to see him as much as possible...

True also... possibly she don't like me that much... she just enjoy someone chasing after her... Labi na if ang mag gukod2x niya mas senior pa niya ug position sa trabahoan... that could flatter her and make her feel special.. ryt!!??

Actually... here's my situation right now... actually wala na jud ko nagpa dala sa tama... I know it's a hopeless cause (possibly)... I'm not really waiting for a YES this coming weeks... I WANT A DIRECT NO FROM HER SO THAT I COULD F#CK!#L* MOVE ON.... dili paman gud ko niya tagaan approvan ug termination...

I also believe that she like me as an asset... not as a boyfriend or lover material.... It's really flattery for her, knowing that I'm not also a bad looking person, I am in an important position in our company, and my net salary is 3 to 4 times more than hers...

But I'm also thinking of another twisted possibility.... that perhaps weeks later.... ma develop cia sa akoa.... ambot lang...some girls are like that man gud. I find some couples who at first, the girl don't really like the guy.... but at the end.... na unconditionally develop na cia...

Pero the truth is... Dawat naman nako nga wala jud... na weeks from now, she would just be a memory to me.... but I'm not totally closing my door for her... nor do I really expect her to come after me... I'm just open minded...

Mas challenge man gud mag ASPIRE ug girl who don't like you (that much)... kaysa sa girl nga you know nga naka like siya nimo.. ambot lang ha... please correct me if i'm wrong...

Thanks!!!! More criticism please!!!! Para maka let go na ko... hehehehe!

[Col Center Trooper]

I forgot to mention diay... she said to me before...


She like me... pero naa pa ciay BF nga wala sila klaro ug wala sila kita2x... Iya usa klarohon kung unsa na sila before cia mag decide.... Wala man pod kuno lain nang Court niya... kato lang kuno...

[pls_fixme_imbroken]

nah! ayaw jud anang mu sud mo sa relationship nya ang girl di au ing ana ka ganahan nmo pero ma develop ra... kay honestly, m in d same situation ryt now na ni sud rko sa relationshp (which gi end na jud nko) even d au ko nahan sa guy coz i beleive dat madevelop ra jud ko...ang gawas ana kay bsan unsaon nko pagtry (even f d guy s a perfct bf jud) wa jud koi feelings nya pati magkiss lud an jud ko...so n d long run nkapasakit na nuon kog tao and i reeeaaalllyyy feel guilty jud sa akong nabuhat...so thnk?? wat f d d,i jud xa madevelop nmo?? either way kamo ra duha ang masakitan ana...d bya jud nmo mapugos ang feelings sa usa ka tao even unsa paka ka sweet nya...

masbetter pangita lang sa lain babai dha na mas deserving para nmo..sum1 mu apprec8 sa imong efforts and dili ra panan aw na asset raka..

[tribu]

I forgot to mention diay... she said to me before...


She like me... pero naa pa ciay BF nga wala sila klaro ug wala sila kita2x... Iya usa klarohon kung unsa na sila before cia mag decide.... Wala man pod kuno lain nang Court niya... kato lang kuno...

aw kay klaro gyud diay na lain iya gusto kay noy dili mana usahay makita sa hitsura sa nawng. naa man gud mga tao na pirting guapoha apan formal ra kaayo ug kung magkuyog mo murag di ka mahimutang. kanang you can't be yourself because you need to follow certain rules labi na usa ka na boss nya. pangita nalang ug lain kanang ka-level nimo.

[Col Center Trooper]

Updates:

This just came in:

Matod man gud niya, gusto niya e sure ko... basin daw minyo kuno ko diri cebu... actually I work outside cebu.
I told her

"Sure ka if sugton ko nimo, ma happy ka? Ako ganahan ko nimo.. a lot.. pero kung asa ka ma happy, adto ko..."

Then she said....
"Aw akoa na na^ gud.. secret."

I said..
"Serious man kaha ni treatment nimo sa akoa, sa atoa karon?"

Ingon cia:
"O oi... unsa man diay imo pagtoo, duwa2x lang... basta mao to atong deal igka May...."

I asked her..

"Ing ani pod to imong mga na boyfriends sa una... imong gipa wait ug pila ka weeks/months"?

She said...
"Ang uban... pero wala man toy mga klaro..."

[Velvett]

Updates:

This just came in:

chicka minute?

[Col Center Trooper]

nah! ayaw jud anang mu sud mo sa relationship nya ang girl di au ing ana ka ganahan nmo pero ma develop ra...
masbetter pangita lang sa lain babai dha na mas deserving para nmo..sum1 mu apprec8 sa imong efforts and dili ra panan aw na asset raka..

Thanks for your comments sis... notes taken! May I ask you also how old are you? So far, I have noticed, girls below 20 are still idiealistic... they want boys (or men) who they feel butterflies in their stomachs whenever they are near... or ma kilig2x ba...

I have a cute friend before... I was 24 she was 21 (wala nagka kami coz of lots of factors pero were still friends)... She told me that it was different daw when she was in college (more pa sa high school)... Before daw, interested siya ug mga gwapo ug mga crush ng bayan... pero karon labi na if adult na, unsaon man daw nang gwapo2x, importante buotan nya maka sustain na ug pamilya...

Anyways, nagka off topics nata.. hehehe

Ang akoa analysis sa akoa girl karon... possibly naa siya sa stage nga nag libog siya...

She wants daw to be sure na I'm single....

sos.. kung sa cebu palang ning bayhana... hagbay ra unta ni nako na uyab...

[pls_fixme_imbroken]

Thanks for your comments sis... notes taken! May I ask you also how old are you? So far, I have noticed, girls below 20 are still idiealistic... they want boys (or men) who they feel butterflies in their stomachs whenever they are near... or ma kilig2x ba...

im still 21...hehe y?? idealistic pa d.i ko??hahahaha

ya mayb nahan xa na ma assured xa na wala kai uyab (tanan babai man tngali mka ingon ana) but still nganu dapat paman xa mu make ka2ng mga conditions ryt?? d ba like mas better na magka get to know mo each other para makbaw xa na d jud ka minyo