When you love someone, set them free?

[wea]

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yah it's true... i've tried it already...

[carla]

bitaw it's easy to say "kung di ka nako di ayaw!", sayon ra kaau, inom tanan -- pero at the end of the day, when you're alone... that's when luoy na gyud kay ka. you think of everything you had together and self-pity ba.. paita gyud. hay. kani laging karma, diba ciga_shake? hahaha

[pauwiks]

that line is applicable only to couples that are far away from one another.
ex uyab sila suddenly the guy is assigned somwhere far. the girl should let him go and not stand between his career.jan na makita ang trust n love nila for one another if the long distance relatinship works. aight?

[KaTzKi]

u knoe tis easy to say "ye i love her.. das why i hafta let her go.." when YER NOT in tha situation.. but when yer in tha situation it'll be different.. cross tha bridge when u get there..

still if i love someone id fight fer him no matter wot.. i dun care wot ppl say.. i cant live all my life askin myself WOT IFs!

[kiat_kaau_kusion_beh:-)]

for me, i will fight for my love but if it makes her happy to be with another guy then she should be happy with that someone. i can make the sacrifice.

yako ar...

ang mag-antos kay masantos.

[KaTzKi]

i guess, this is true... hey i'm really confused... some say fight for your love and others say set her free and if she'll come back, she's yours... what if the moment she comes back u have come to love someone other than her, what r u going to do?

confusing dyud kaayo!
but here's what i think is right...
if you love somone then fight for that person.if he aint doing the same, then that's the time to let that person go. diha na applicable ang gi sulti sa ubang people that if that person comes back to you, then he or she is meant for you...

if ever mn dani na makakita kag laen while wla namu atong isa na imu untang love it jes goes to show na naa dyud purpose inyung pagbulag.. who knoes tha person yer wit now is reali tha one fer u.. but dli pman ta certain ana ke pde pman sd mu magbulag.. pero u will knoe if she/he is tha right person.. ma feel na nmu deep inside.. trust me u will mau na by tha time u will find her/him.. DUN LET GO!

[polaxxx]

very true..hehe

[splendid moonlight]

if the person asks to be free, then by all means u should set him/her free.

[gareb]

many romantics say that true love is the ultimate sacrifice. when you love, you give not minding what you get or what you do not. when you love, you sacrifice your joy and find contentment with what you have. they say that when you love, you reason can be rejected, if only for you to show what is in your heart.

yet pragmatists (and personal experience) tells us otherwise. when we love, we want to give and at the same time take. when we pursue the ends of the earth for that throbbing feeling in our chests, something in us wants a bit of fruit at the end of the branch, a light at the end of the tunnel, a hope after desperation.

you see, love, unlike the romantics want us to belive, is a process of sharing. of giving and receiving. of mutual benefit. when one loves, one years. and that in itself is a need that must be met.

but there are times when love does not work both ways -- the other half of the heart has withered while the other has remained robust and healthy. sooner or later, the withered part will consume the health of the other half without giving something in return.

it is a dilemma many estranged lovers face everyday. how to let go of someone that you love and that you need? can this be love when i cannot let him/her go? you see love's definition cannot be limited or should it exceed what is real. we cannot go around imposing our definition of what true love must be and what it must not be. we know not each and every person's heart.

so when you love someone, hold them close. close in hand, and close in your heart. yet sometimes, wishes do not come true. life sometimes does not follow the fairy tale path. it often ends up sadly. so when you feel doubt creeping in even if you have held tight on what you heart dictates, then ask yourself... 'why do i still love someone who has ceased to love me?'

[Bigfoot Oracle]

gareb:

which one are you? romantic or pragmatist tehehe :mrgreen: