Do we need to give up the family if a spouse cheats?

[kiekim]

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i'd rather raise my kids alone than for them to see their father cheating and see me abused emotionally,cheating will make me not want to stay in a marriage anylonger...

[nonagirl]

yessss. based on experience, that "stay-together-for-the-kids" doesn't work. my mom and dad are separated. and b4 my dad left, ni stay pa cya sa balay for a few months. and grabe ka bati sa balay. imagine hearing them fight almost everyday. if not fight, d mag tingugay. and f mangaon mi together hilum na kaau coz kiwaw na kaau. nya lahi2 na ug kwarto ma 2g. n wen we go out kanya2 na. naa uban kuug ni mama nag uban kuug ni papa. lonely kaau ang environment sa balay. bati kaau. that's y wen ni decide na c papa na mo hawa, na ok2 na mi sa balay, ni lighten up na ang mga tao. until karn na ok na jud mi. mas better ma nuon.

dli dapat ang mga bata mka kita ana nga relationship. some people say nga huna2 a ang mga bata but para nko d jud na mo apply. wa mo kbw ang mga bata mas nahan pa maka kita na wala nlng kaysa maka kita nga mag away mo taga adlaw. masakitan na cla makakita mo mag away. and u dont know unsa effect ana. wa mo kbw unsa ka guol living with parents nga d na mgka sinabot. hell jud.

[cindy]

f husband cheat,what's the use of trust of 2nd chance.mao bitaw na before marriage ,know ur husband. So, its better to let go ur husband f he cheat ky ing-ana na gyud na siya bisan tagan og chance. ang imo nalang supporta para sa anak.

[GYM]

in my openion...sa husband nga cheater...kay if i catch him jud wala na second chance...i give up jud...and keep my kids if ever...ask nalang support until kids maka tapos sa schooling.

[raizene]

ehhehehe dili ka mkaingun ana kay basin naa pay love nahibilin diay

[cindy]

bi

ehhehehe dili ka mkaingun ana kay basin naa pay love nahibilin diay

bisan naa pa love wa na gyud na au kung second chance maau lan na kung uyab pa pero kung minyo na ay naku maypa mag inusara

[rEn_tHirtEEn]

shame on you if you f0ol me once
shame on me if you fo0l me twice

hehe...keep your kids and let him supp0rt your kids financially...

[plush]

yeah. i can never tolerate a cheating husband. i've told my hsuband this na if he cheats me even once, i'd drop him without batting an eyelash.

basta no second chances with me when it comes to cheating.

[dabidoo]

i hope this will never never happen to me, well to us wives ky grabe gyud ni nga torture.

no one deserves to be cheated oi esp if tarung ka na asawa.

but if ever, i dont know lisod i ingon og yes, ill leave him ky nana man gud kids involved and how selfish naman sad if ako self lang ang hunahunaon.(esp pa gyud if the husb is a good father)

lisod sad if no, i wont leave him ky dili sad bya ng himuon kag tanga..

[yokam]

Cheating is supposed to be not a reason to end up a family but a reason to strengthen one. Find out the reason why he cheats because most probably he's looking for something that's lacking. Knowing it would patch patch up the flaw, but still take note that there are husbands who just won't get contented with what they have. Male egos always come in and that's too hard to deal with.