Mga Pasaway sa pamilya

[ohohoy]

mao nay gitawag ug big problem..

[SioDenz]

^ipa-ila2x nang SioDenz mam, bright kaayu na siya, wise pa jud,..maka tabang jud iyang mga advice, 100% sure ko

ikaw sad kay banggiitan man ka

[Sigbin Puti]

medyo makasabot ko gmay kay blacksheep mn pd ko s ako pamilya...hahaha, sauna r nuon, mao ni akng 2 cents

mausab guro cya kng mka ila cyag lalaki nga tarong, nga mu amping niya, nga mu dawat niya...most likely she will not open up to her family members at her current state, so ang naay pinaka dako ug chance mka tabang niya kay 3rd party

naay chance mausab cya kng makatilaw cya ug tagam...knang naay mahitabo nga mka bali s iyang kalibotan ba( kay mrag wa mn cya nadutlan s ka2ng namabdos cya so mas grabeh p jd cguro ) ang risk ani kay basin inig hitabo ani, mausab cya in a more negative way...

and please, especially sa iyang pamilya, or relatives who are trying to help, do not give her the pity look, knang tan-awn gali k s tawo na feel niya obligado cya mu tabang nmo kay na looy cya? hassssssool kaau n kng ikaw naa s receiving end ... kng independent minded ning bayhana, or if she's aware, she will know she's in trouble, she just wants to fix it herself, and doesn't want half-baked sympathy from loved ones, pity can hurt more than outright malice...

lisud oi, each person is unique mn gd, but i know this much is true the only person who can help her jd is herself...

i guess s part sa pamilya, kinahanglan mka kita sila s right balance between concern and trust, bali, pasagdaan nila - dli nga mrag wa clya paki, pasagdaan nila kay naa clay salig niya (regardless of everything) but at the same time not to seem patronising, they should also let her know that they're there, regardless of how deep in shit she is... basically u ignore the bad and focus on the good kng naa pa. hahaha... lisud paminawon, pero mada ra guro...

and you know, kaning mga issues, they usually start from the home... most likely naay nahitabo ani niya s balay na ni trigger s change...

[yvonne6]

^^kitang tanan naa man jud tay issues...dili tanan happy ang childhood or somewhere along the way, naa jud tay ma experience nga bati. ok raman ning mag soul searching ka kung asa jud ka malipay. ang nakapaet gud ani, naay bata nga napasagdan along the way and kanang bataa ig daku is likely daku sad ang issue kay ang inahan wala man diha but at the end of the day, its all the choices we make in life. bati na gani gisugdan, bation pa jud nato. gullible man gud kaau ang sis sa akong friend kay murag gamay kaau iyang pag tanaw sa iyang kaugalingon. ambot, lisud lang jud siguro sabton

[peewee_toot]

naa ra jud ni sa tao. dili mn pud ta mka ingon nga wala ni tabang ang iyang family niya.

naa ra jud na niya kung ganahan cya nga mo asenso iyang kinabuhi or dili.

patagama lang na oi. maka amgo ra lagi na soon...