Having A Relationship With A Playboy/Chickboy/Player Is Not Easy

[bofox44]

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Why him, why not the guy next door who will never break your heart?

For me, the reason is boredom. I tend to get bored and guys who are “buotan” are not my kind of thing. I like the drama, I like the competition (competing with the other girls), and most often they are good in bed.

No need to finish og basa imung gi type, perte ra bang taasa. Kini lang ako gi qoute, it tells everything na..

Good luck na lang.

[<SMILE>]

Be a part of the 100 plus women in his harem,
is such a very degrading idea,
but love do conquers all,
and it conquers you TS.
I hope you would
wake up soon
and be victorious
in the
end.

[HeartStops]

What separate lang cguro nato TS is that.. I don't let his so called "manwh*re" reputation to be an excuse.

[gamatoy]

nganong mag antos paman ka ana chixboi o unsa dihaa na laki,,if paminaw nimo na lahi na iyang style undangi na lang na,...good luck ts..

[neversaydie]

It's nice to be open minded but i think dili na paabton sa point na nagantos naka.. well siguro for now you can endure being hurt since you know mahappy ka with him and you love him inspite ingun ani inyong state of relationship, i think nagsalig raman si guy ana.. if iconfront ka basin anaon ka mao bitaw ni imo gusto, as a girl moabot jud sa point na gusto ka imo ra ang imong bf.. masakitan na dayun ka and you will blame yourself. hope dili na sya mahitabo sa imouha TS. . in life muabot ka sa time na you want to settle down, even if dugay namu do you think he is the one? you can still make your relationship challenging kung commited mo both sa usag usag..pero salut ko sa imong ka open, be happy and keep happy..

[blakrabit]

TS, your post is contradicts itself. Also, by the looks of it, you are a nagger and masochist.

[lejean]

@orkayl: thanks for the motivation

@HeartStops: thanks for sharing your love story sis.

@THE KID: maybe it is, for me it's a relationship (whatever it's classification is, I am in it with my eyes and heart open for every possibility)

@bofox44: thanks bro.

@<SMILE>: every relationship does end whether it's due to natural causes like death or other circumstances, ako happy ko unsa naa nako karon.

@HeartStops: whether he is having s** with other women I really don't know for sure. Basta ako siya gi-ingnan what I think about it. Kay the more nimo pugngan ang tawo, a huge tendency of doing it kay mgrebelde.

@gamatoy: every person who is in a relationship ng-antos man, lahe lang ne ako-a pud. Uban nag-antos sa ilaha pares na nagger, selosa, maldita, maldito, childish, etc. It is just mura grabe lang ang term na "chicksboy" paminawon. Laen2x lang og level. This is the price I have to pay being in this relationship. While others have to sustain having a partner who is a nagger, seloso, possessive, etc.

@neversaydie: i have been contemplating about settling down but as of the moment I am happy the way it is. If it comes, it will come. If sya ang destined to spend more years with me till we grow old together, am all for it. Everything in this life is uncertain. Come what may.

@blakrabit: thanks for your opinion. but generalizing as to who I am would be a little too much especially you do not have any idea who I am. You can't judge a person by mere reading a fraction of what my life is in totality. Anyways, I respect your opinion.

[ad_dur]

Boys are being boys. True it depends if u tolerate it but girls being girls. Thats something to think of. Others might understand this things due that the world has change but most Filipino families are still traditional "no matter how u reason out or tolerate this type of things" it will still reflect on ur personality.

[lejean]

Boys are being boys. True it depends if u tolerate it but girls being girls. Thats something to think of. Others might understand this things due that the world has change but most Filipino families are still traditional "no matter how u reason out or tolerate this type of things" it will still reflect on ur personality.

I agree to that. My kind of mindset seemed to be unacceptable to most people especially Filipinos. But when it comes to foreigners they find it as ordinary and extraordinary because most Filipinas don't think the way I am.

I came from a traditional Filipino family. Yet, I came up with different mindset with them. It is just I found it people are too hypocrite and setting rules or standards of how a person should think and act if this particular situation happens or do not tolerate something like that etc.

Why set boundaries, limits, rules, and regulations for a person who is in love? I am happy, he is happy in the relationship. That's all matters to me. Our relationship may not be the conventional or the usual type people see or know. One thing I know for sure, we bring out the best in each other.

1 Corinthians 13:7-10
J.B. Phillips New Testament (PHILLIPS)
7-8a Love knows no limit to its endurance, no end to its trust, no fading of its hope; it can outlast anything. It is, in fact, the one thing that still stands when all else has fallen.

[neversaydie]

@lejean: if i were to go turn back time, i would prefer this type of relationship as you do, I am an open minded person yet bound to meet a close minded one.. trying to escape from the prison cell that I have once entered without any hesitation.. if you both will be bound together for a life time, i think there is so much to enjoy with each others company since you know your limits and there is no secrets at all.. everything will be easier to handle. I think if both parties are open minded, wala jud moy lalisan pag ayu coz both is rational enough. and before mo confront sa usag usa, nakahuna huna naka daan.. it will boil down to nothing to argue..since both already understands the point, clarification nalang siguro.