tough decision.. but choose the one you can't live without..
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02-20-2009, 10:18 AM #21Junior Member
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02-20-2009, 10:39 AM #22C.I.A.
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Grabeh naman pod ng 7 years wui, while nag-uyab2 pamo on those 7 years don't tell me wla mo nag-mature sa relationship, usually if in-ana namo kadugay ky naghinay-hinay naman mo ug plan pra mag-menyo ana.
Ka-usik sa oras, dli pa jud mabalik ang kagahapon if masayop ka sa imo choice. Ako lang ma-advice sa imo go back to your roots and evaluate things before making a decision and double time on it ky nag-dagan ang oras basin igka-8 or 9 years naka maka-decide to say it all quits, dako nga possibility nga na-overwhelm raka anang new guy.
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02-21-2009, 03:12 AM #23C.I.A.
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sounds like ur just bored with ur 7 year relationship and is just making this thread an excuse.
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02-23-2009, 10:47 PM #24Junior Member
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importante ka nya oi kay niabot gud mo og 7yrs.. y man pud pilion nimo ang naa s layu and bago pgyud xa s imong lyf na wla p gud ka kaila nya. dli ka k.say nah love ka nya kay long distance and bago pgyud xa..
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03-12-2009, 12:24 AM #25Newbie
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the topic is just similar to my situation nga mas mejo lisod lang kaau, naglibog ko, ug ang tao nga akong sturyaan maglibog pod apil, pero usa lang ilang ingon, "ikaw ra jud maka decide ana", which is true...
I've been married for almost 7 years na unta... but along with those 7 years, i felt naa jud kulang.. in the first years sa among marriage, lipay kaau ko, ok ra nako nga ako lang pirmi mag pa ubos, mag hinumdom (anniversary, monthsary), ug mo remind sad ko, ingnan lang ka nga "sus ayaw gud cge ug ihap".. dili xa type of guy nga mo hatag ug flowers or something, anything on christmas, birthdays, .. na feel nako nga mura rako ug wala, i don't feel loved but i know that he loves me.. but dili lang jud cguro xa showy.. and i needed that.. karon, ngbuwag mi, ako nakigbuwag, mura jud xa nahugno, grabe xa kaau ka affected, ug syempre ako pod nasakitan kaau kay naa biya sad mi anak usa. After 2 years sa among break up, ok nami ron, maau among friendship, we are both open with each other sad.. galing naa nakoy bf pod, naa napod xay gf... I am happy with my bf.. but i can't be completely happy kay naluoy ko kaayo sa akong anak..gusto xa mo balik nako sa balay but i can't so mo ingon nalng ko nga ga work ko, mao na dili ko pedi mo uli.. how can i explain to a 5 year old kid nga nag buwag nami sa iyang dad.. anyway, i still care for my husband.. my ex husband.. i still care for him so much and i can't forgive myself for what i have done.. i didn't want this to happen but it just did at that time because he was not there for me.. Karon, he still has feelings for me, cuz i just said we're open with each other.. maybe i still have that feeling too... i dont' know.. this is the part that i get confused.. if you guys ask, asa man ko mas happy? if adto ko sa akong bf.. happy ko but not completely kay luoy akong anak.. if adto ko sa akong husband, happy cguro pod ko kay ma happy na akong anak.. but not completely happy cguro cuz i'll be missing the way my bf treats me..cares for me.. loves me.. haaaiii... complicated kaau jud..... unsa kaha inyong opinion?
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03-12-2009, 12:36 AM #26Newbie
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@jan_mar24: yes, i agree with the rest of them, choose whom you can't live without..... kung asa ka mas happy... wala bitaw kay anak to think of sa imong 7 years nga uyab.. diba?...
pero ang ako lang na gul-an kay ang new one, layo.. long distance relationship... lisud kaau.. naa possibility nga kadjut rasad inyong relationship.. kelangan jud na ug sobrang understanding and communication from you both.. or basin, kana imong uyab na 7 years, wala lang kaau ka matagad.. kay dugay na biya mo, why don't you talk with that person first? klarohon sa nimo...
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03-12-2009, 05:00 PM #27C.I.A.
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same as my situation before.. I did choose the one who loves me.. the new one. now im very happy. I never regret anything.
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03-12-2009, 05:08 PM #28Newbie
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Aw..ang pili-on kana gyung bag-o kay ang 7 yrs. na guy pwede raman to pa ugmaan...naa pamay lain nga time ..pero kining new-0ne mag adjust paman ka ..hehehe
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03-12-2009, 05:31 PM #29Senior Member
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think twice before you decide. . dli ra ba na lalim mulahotay ug 7 years. .
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03-12-2009, 06:05 PM #30Newbie
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sa akoa lang, naa ko question ha.. ngano mangita paman ka lain like #2 kung happy ka or kuntinto naka sa una nimo?
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