need girls advice or perspective(guys welcome din)

[azure]

para makasiguro jud ka. deretso-a nlng ug invite ug exclusive date then let her know your intention. if dili mosugot ug date, tawagi and sultii cya sa imo intention.

ayaw kahadlok ug risk kay part jud na cya bisan unsa butanga. kung ganahan jud ka niya,
have the courage nlng jud to tell her.

masmaayo nga dili magkakamo pero imo nasulti imong gusto
kaysa, dili japn magkakamo pero wala siya nakahibaw about nimo.

[quirkychinita]

O.m.g!!!!!

Nanluspad kog ayo ani ha?

This once happened to me waaaaay back! I guess atong graduating kos college....

That guy asks me out. Ako pud pakipot busa bitinun nako xa cuz u know naman, most women wants to be chased baya.... And usahay pud busy....

He kept asking me out. Usahay di ko muuvan. Usahay muuban ko.

I liked the guy and i was waiting for him to ask me the question if he wants me as his gf.....

The texting and dating game continued amd one day he stopped texting me..... Being a woman taught by my mom na di dapat mag una una, i never initiated a text message.... Although i waited anxiously.... Even missed him to the point na balik balikyn nakog basa iyang previous text to me.....

He would occasionally view me sakong friendster (hahaha!!! Karaan pa!) and id view him back amd even gave him a testimonial once.... ....

Months passed na puro occassional friendster testimonials and texts ray nahitabo. Sometimes hed ask me out and agree pud ko..... But he never asked the BIG QUESTION ive been longing to hear.....

Usahay iuban nako amung common friends saa laag para ingnun kunuhay na pakipot and mahinhin ko.....

But i guess he took that gesture the wrong way.....

bummer!!!!


one year ang niabot and wala gihapon until another guy asked me out and asked me to be his gf na gisugot pud nako kay i was thinking na maybe the guy i was describing was just sweet, malambing and paasa ra kaayo....

Di pud ko ganahan ug assuming noh. Wala sako lengguahe nang assuming ug mag una una....



Oh yeah.... Ayha ra nako nahibaw an na nakagusto diay siya atung time na niadto ko saiyang wedding reception.....

I hated that part! Nagsakit akong buot na lami kaayo siya imumo saiyang wedding cake kay ayha ra xa nagka lakas loob to tell me how he felt...... Grrrrrrr!!!!



Affected ra kaayo ko noh?


Hehehehe....


But yeah! My advice. Ask her the question kay kapoy mag assume for us girls while maintaining that pakipot-ness....

Were just waiting....

[*sludge*]

sa akong pangagpas bradier, basehan lang iyang reaction and behavior dnha nmo, murag wala kaau siya nka like nmo...pero di man gud ni masabtan ang mga babae, abi nimo ug dli gnhan pero magpa dungag ra diay to sa pusta...hehe same ni quirky chinita, so same sad sa iya advice, maypa mangutana ka niya imo prankahan ug ask kung gusto ba siya makig trato nimo, kaysa imong labad labaron imong ulo sa pangutana nga siya ray mka tubag ... if dli siya sugot aw, move on..daghan pa mo abot mga intern ug motawg nimo ug sir

[azaleayve]

putting myself on her shoe, i'd say NO. the ride experience was because of the scary thing. She isn't used to it man. I also have the same attitude if I don't like the man, d man sab ku makasulti og No especially if wala siya formally nicourt...pero pag ingon ana ra nga kutob paramdam, i'd always do that

[THE KID]

sus ting...dghan pa kaaung chicks oi.....ayaw pag cge huna2 anang usa ra kabuok...wa pa d i ka kasuway og uyab2 sah?.....

[naxi85]

nalibat kos imong gi-post, TS ui!so to speak(--,)
i think dili lng tingali ka boyfriend material para niya.
gnahan lng xa kuyog2 nimu.yw lng butangi ug laing meaning.

[InChaos]

pasensya na gud mo sa sobra ka taas. hinagpatan na gani na nga post, insaun man murag kana na post lisod naman hagpatan kai ma minimal ang view inig hatag sa advice. basin ma focus ra nya sa carnival hehehe.

[spike412]

asa diay nag skol ning girl ts? hehehe

bitaw ts, kapoya pud mag guessing game uy...panguyabi kuno na either yes or no lang ang iyang matubag nimo. hastang hasola sige huna huna anang "basin" type ka. why not ask her directly para mahuman imong problema. pastilan kaning mga torpe uy.

[InChaos]

nganong importante man mangutana mu kung asa sya na skul? ako d ko nyu pangutan-on asa ko ga work? hahaha

[xavisimao]

pangutan-a ug deretso TS kung ganahn ba siya nimo or unsa ba, basin koya ra treatment niya sa imo... maayo nang mahibaw-an derteso kung unsa bay lakaw nimo sa iyaha... daghan nay na disgrasya anang waiting game