Guilty wife being extremely defensive

[LeeLeePot]

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lemme google.

[LeeLeePot]

after reading everything...maghuwat nlan ta asa mutugpa ang karma. hehehehe

[JezzyCalm]

gaaway mo? pwede diay na dre sa istorya?

[argarso]

mao bitaw naay istorya.net para ma istoryahan..

[Sand Man]

actually wla ko kita while wla pa nadelete ang thread. ako ra gisearch sa google - search the link nga giprovide ni TS. then muappear na ang thread, BUT dont click the actual link, click the Cached link pra kita mo sa thread! ^_^

Ikaw bah, Doggie Lover, kay nakit-an na nimo ang Google cached na thread pero wa sad nimo gi-share hehehe ....

Now I'm thinking that since the thread was deleted, it was done by a mod or the admin. Pero since it was a one-sided thread kay wa man ka-defend sad ang side sa bana, we are also left to speculate na what was said was wholly the woman's version. How much of it was fabricated?

I think that this is relevant to the thread at this point in time as it may lead to some form of closure (Assuming the parties still want to fix things and get back together again). I am posting the very first post of that thread only.

Hi Mods, if you think this is irrelevant at this point then please remove.

Originally Posted by HH on 8-27-2009
Just this year my marriage ended and I am thankful that it did (a breath of fresh air for me from all the torture), and I can say that I am happily separated with my bitter half. Although financially it's a struggle given the fact that he is not giving a single cent to our 3 year old girl and I am left to provide for everything, right now I am keeping two jobs just to stay afloat financially but I still find contentment of not being with him. I am moving on but I am not planning jumping into a relationship (i think it's not the wisest thing to do) and I'm fine meeting and hanging out with people, yes I mean "hanging out" and not dating since I personally think that "dating" is a prelude into something serious.

Reason why I'm posting this is to get feed backs from different people, and I would surely appreciate your honesty to the extent of bluntness. You see, my bitter half filed for the annulment with grounds of Psychological Incapacity and is trying to get a full custody of my daughter. A few months back he took out all our appliances without my consent and proudly claiming that since most of those things were given by his side of his family it is his right to take everything back (I decided to keep my peace and didn't bother getting the things ). Every time I ask him to buy medicines for my girl he would refuse to give since according to him I have my own salary. He got retrenched from work and was told that he was paid a huge amount (well good to know someone kicked him out..again), but not even a pack of goodies for our daughter was given, then I found out that he just paid his lawyer a teeny amount just to start the case. So where did his money go

A few days back, a girlfriend of mine buzzed me and sent me a picture of him and a girl that came from my bitter half's facebook account with a caption "in a relationship with Ms. so and so..." So that's probably where his money went. I don't have anything against what they have together (new girlfriend used to be both our office mates and knew that we were married to each other), they can be f*ck*n the whole night and I still wouldn't care. He seemed to be loud and proud declaring to the world his new found partner (poor girlfriend for picking up my trash). But this is where it's unfair that he is out there splurging and having a blast being the new SINGLE dude and totally forgetting his parental obligation. After our separation, bisag piso wala ni hatag...Am I just suppose to shut my mouth and continue being abused?

Excuse me men if I have to say this, but it seems that some of you guys out there are just a bunch of "no good" fathers and are complete as*. As for the girl, when you go out a date together and he spends for your food, your movie tickets, your taxi, and buys things...think of the 2 daughters that your boyfriend neglected.

Despite what the TS said, I am more convinced that he is actually the ex-husband. The thread he linked to was created in 2009 and I don't think a 'friend' would be so compelled to dig up a 3-year-old deleted thread just to say na his friend's wife was being so defensive and 'siya pa sad-an siya pa ang isog'.

hehehehe...

[JezzyCalm]

mao bitaw naay istorya.net para ma istoryahan..

lage.. kasabot q ana.. but not like this.. tingali lang.. kay naa man gud pareha ani nga thread.. mao ra japon ang topic.. den same person ra ang thread starter.. den sa first page ani kay sila2 ray gatinubagay.. basaha gani.. unsa mani oi..

[ralpryan]

Maybe they have express different sides of the story, but as for me it takes two to tanggo......

Gudluck sa inyo mga kids...

[AlbertCruz]

Pics now!!! Ug ato i.post nis facebook, home, work, etc. sa bayi .

na, sigeg biga-biga. selfish whores like her makes me sick

[Sol_Itaire]

^^in my case, im super confident man sa akong ipang yawyaw diri nga walay maski usa nga mo contest nga dili tinuod akong gi istorya. naa raman pud na sa taw. im just very open siguro kay para nako maayo na lang maka share ko ug unta naay mapunit nga lesson ang mga taw nga makabasa sa akong mga kaagi. sa sine man gani, mobayad man gani ta ug mahal para lang motanaw ug istorya sa naay dalang ilad while sa istorya.net, free ra ang mga intruiging stories diri. agree?? haha. sa pila ka years na nako ga yawyaw diris istorya.net, kaluoy ni Lord, wala pa juy usa ni ingon, nga butbot nimo yvonne, i know kung unsay tinuod oi.

ai dili ikaw ang akong gipasabot yvonne. sorry misleading akong pagsulat.

i'm referring to the ex husband and ex wife. you see, taud taud na ko kakita sa ilang mga threads diri. gipangladlad nila ilang personal lives trying to put all the blame on the other. each is trying to point out that the other committed sin.

for me ha, masayup jud ta tanan and sometimes it's futile telling the whole world who's to blame. such a waste of time and energy. we sympathize with what you went through; it's truly suffering, but everyone would be happier if you learn to move on. move on. move on.

i wish you both peace of mind.

[Sand Man]

Pics now!!! Ug ato i.post nis facebook, home, work, etc. sa bayi .

na, sigeg biga-biga. selfish whores like her makes me sick

Hmmmmm..... don't you have personal pics of her?