younger man dating more mature woman. your opinion pls

[ulyssa_marie]

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U cannot judge others by their age. And personally, i'd simply say: "what's wrong with loving someone who's lived more years than you?". It's not like it's forbidden anywhere. People need to open their minds a bit and stop being so shallow as to creating barriers like AGE for example.

The opinion differs to the preferences of the person as well. If a person prefers to date someone mature, having sensible talks, experienced, then to them, your situation would be favorable.

But to those who prefer to be on the dominant stage, having someone to look after, etc, then your situation would not seem favorable.


Personally - i think ur situation is quite normal. We cannot always say that "Older" means "mature". Many youths nowadays are mature while older adults still think like children. Let's not judge and read between the lines, shall we?

[jom22488]

Nakasulay nako, 1st uyab nako.. lol.. Igo rapod ko gi gamit pasuya sa iya ex.. super short term raman pd to.. 1month ra.. mas mature, nindot ka istorya, og kakuan..

[petketz]

maoy nay gi ingon nga age doesnt matter..height really does mostly though not at all but surely it can breed insecurities..di sa tanan ut kasagaran...sakto ba?

[yvonne6]

ang mga tiguwang na girl wala nay pili sa laki, or less choosy na? tinood kaha ni?

ka harsh sad anang tiguwang oi? ug ma 30 ka bro, puede nasad ka tawgon ug tiguwang? anyways, its not true nga less choosy oi. unsa mana, desperate moves? truth is, mas wiser ang mas mature but of course naa may uban nga kahibalo sila sa limitations sa relationship. dili man jud ka mag ilusyon nga u will end up nga kamo in the end. other mature women would just like to have fun for the moment while its there but u just dont eat everything on the table oi. naa may uban nga vegetarian, other's meat lover. ka gets ka? just like men, do u just date any woman that u meet? u choose diba? we all have preference. mas experienced, mas cautious. its easier to play games with other girls who havent outgrown that stage yet but for mature women, we definitely know what we want and how to get it

[petketz]

ka harsh sad anang tiguwang oi? ug ma 30 ka bro, puede nasad ka tawgon ug tiguwang? anyways, its not true nga less choosy oi. unsa mana, desperate moves? truth is, mas wiser ang mas mature but of course naa may uban nga kahibalo sila sa limitations sa relationship. dili man jud ka mag ilusyon nga u will end up nga kamo in the end. other mature women would just like to have fun for the moment while its there but u just dont eat everything on the table oi. naa may uban nga vegetarian, other's meat lover. ka gets ka? just like men, do u just date any woman that u meet? u choose diba? we all have preference. mas experienced, mas cautious. its easier to play games with other girls who havent outgrown that stage yet but for mature women, we definitely know what we want and how to get it

well said....
curios lang..react kaayo ka sa first satement dah...30 na cguro imo age noh? peace hehe

[yvonne6]

its impolite man kuno sa guy to ask a girl her age. i dont keep my real age or my real status but i rather share it in person. for those friends i have from istorya, they know the real me. im still young at heart, charot. i have a nice job, im secured and have my own place, i have a little business less the uyab. im a single mama and im proud to be, i dont keep it, i dont lie about it and i will never hide the truth from anyone. i am super honest person, super faithful and a real giver, ang nakapaet kay abusaran ko permi because of how i am. my last relationship with a younger man lasted almost 7 years and we have a 5 year old kid. unfortunately, i wasnt very successful teaching my ex how to give value to his life. he chose his friends over me and learned how to do drugs. i cant be with him in that manner kay healthy living man ko, i dont even drink or do bar hopping, dont like nightlife and never and will never smoke but i am not a boring person. lahi lang akong idea of fun. im a great cook and i really love to travel out of town. adventure, i know how to have fun and unleash my wild side but only when with the right person and in the right place. napay pangutanan? haha

[June Bastida]

Very well said. Mas mature, mas cautious. Unsa nalay isulti sa mga tao sa iyang palibot knowing nga edaran na sya nya nagpailad lang ug younger. Diba?

[petketz]

its impolite man kuno sa guy to ask a girl her age. i dont keep my real age or my real status but i rather share it in person. for those friends i have from istorya, they know the real me. im still young at heart, charot. i have a nice job, im secured and have my own place, i have a little business less the uyab. im a single mama and im proud to be, i dont keep it, i dont lie about it and i will never hide the truth from anyone. i am super honest person, super faithful and a real giver, ang nakapaet kay abusaran ko permi because of how i am. my last relationship with a younger man lasted almost 7 years and we have a 5 year old kid. unfortunately, i wasnt very successful teaching my ex how to give value to his life. he chose his friends over me and learned how to do drugs. i cant be with him in that manner kay healthy living man ko, i dont even drink or do bar hopping, dont like nightlife and never and will never smoke but i am not a boring person. lahi lang akong idea of fun. im a great cook and i really love to travel out of town. adventure, i know how to have fun and unleash my wild side but only when with the right person and in the right place. napay pangutanan? haha

ang pangutana is....are you willing to love again if someone may come at you anytime?

[yvonne6]

ang pangutana is....are you willing to love again if someone may come at you anytime?

ang pangutana ug sincere ba sa iyang intentions ang lalaki? i know there are younger men nga murag fetish jud nila ang older women, thats fine as long as u r not there to take advantage of her. i have a co worker who's mom is only about 45, naa siyay bf nga mas manghod pa ug few years sa akong co worker. na shock sila ug gi unsa sa ilang inahan ang lalaki kay inlove kaau sa ilang mama and buotan and guapo pa jud. ang akong co worker, walay bf, puhalan sa iyang mama. ni abroad ang lalaki karon ug halos tanang sueldo ginapadala sa lalaki sa ilang mama. amazing jud kaau. i doubt ug napay ingon ani nga lalaki. and to think, ingon sa akong co worker, tambuk daw kaau iyang mama. hehe. anyways, depende ra jud na ug magka sinabot. basta, ako, even if manguban nako, dili jud ko mosugot nga mag binuang ang lalaki. lami kaau ingnon ang mga guys, please dont make an attempt if u r not sincere to begin with. i can tell raba jud ug unsay gi apas sa lalaki and i hate jud kung sugod pa lang sa inyong pagkaila kita na nimo ang pagka bastos sa lalaki. thanks na lang ug ingon ana man gani

[petketz]

ang pangutana ug sincere ba sa iyang intentions ang lalaki? i know there are younger men nga murag fetish jud nila ang older women, thats fine as long as u r not there to take advantage of her. i have a co worker who's mom is only about 45, naa siyay bf nga mas manghod pa ug few years sa akong co worker. na shock sila ug gi unsa sa ilang inahan ang lalaki kay inlove kaau sa ilang mama and buotan and guapo pa jud. ang akong co worker, walay bf, puhalan sa iyang mama. ni abroad ang lalaki karon ug halos tanang sueldo ginapadala sa lalaki sa ilang mama. amazing jud kaau. i doubt ug napay ingon ani nga lalaki. and to think, ingon sa akong co worker, tambuk daw kaau iyang mama. hehe. anyways, depende ra jud na ug magka sinabot. basta, ako, even if manguban nako, dili jud ko mosugot nga mag binuang ang lalaki. lami kaau ingnon ang mga guys, please dont make an attempt if u r not sincere to begin with. i can tell raba jud ug unsay gi apas sa lalaki and i hate jud kung sugod pa lang sa inyong pagkaila kita na nimo ang pagka bastos sa lalaki. thanks na lang ug ingon ana man gani

you know what...it doesnt mean all na lalaki nga medyo bastos mo approach sa girl is way ayo...maybe its his attitude towards others without knowing nga nakabastos na diay siya..if ang girl lang sad jud mo pranka og traong lang then maybe the guy shuold consider it as a lesson for him..who knows that guy you have discriminated will be the one who you would call a great husband of yours lol