Do you think I'm a bad Mother for my kids?

[PURPZ LOCKHEART]

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hey guyz!!! kaheavy pud ani na topic nako oi. i'm sorry i dragged you into this. with all the baloney set aside, i'm truly thankful sa tanan ninyo nga gishare. all of it - the views i like and dislike made my day. puerte nakong igoa. hehehe. salamat jud ninyo bai. nakahilak gud ko. hahaha. "we are on different shoes, so we wouldn't really be able to see both sides well unless you're in it." thanks again sa tanan nga nishare.<warm hug>

[farmboy]

If I sound like I am on the other side of the fence, it is perhaps because I never had a mother who showed love in the way other mothers did for their children.

I have to disagree with Mr Butong here, that a mother's presence is replaceable with being in constant communication. I have been to places that most of you probably just saw on CNN or browsed on the net. Those mothers I have seen, gave all, flesh blood and tears just to be physically with their children...providing what little she could or none of..often, just abstract loving and love is there for them all to share.

Please stay with your children TS.. while they are at an age when they need a mother most!

[Sand Man]

i understand your stand about it. but let me ask you this? must i choose to be with my kids in hunger and let them die with me? i have an option a painful one though that's giving them up and away from me in favor of their good life instead. there is nothing more painful than what any moms would feel being away from their children. but sometimes bad decisions can also be good if intentions are for the wellbeing of your children.

Admit it -- you just want the good life. Free from responsibility whatsoever with your own kids.

[jntio]

don't worry ts kay ig naa sa saktong age nana imo kids, makasabot rana sila sa imo gibuhat na para sa ilang kaayohan

[farmboy]

Admit it -- you just want the good life. Free from responsibility whatsoever with your own kids.

OT: bilib gyud ko ani bai Sand Man oi.. kinsa imo psych bro.. si Margie noh? sya baya dean karon sa AS

[PURPZ LOCKHEART]

I hear ya, i feel ya! And probably I would feel the same if I am on your shoes. And thanks for sharing the probable view of my kids as well. I'm sorry for your past pain. I will make sure to bridge whatever gap I've created for me and my kids in ways I could. Thanks bai!

If I sound like I am on the other side of the fence, it is perhaps because I never had a mother who showed love in the way other mothers did for their children.

I have to disagree with Mr Butong here, that a mother's presence is replaceable with being in constant communication. I have been to places that most of you probably just saw on CNN or browsed on the net. Those mothers I have seen, gave all, flesh blood and tears just to be physically with their children...providing what little she could or none of..often, just abstract loving and love is there for them all to share.

Please stay with your children TS.. while they are at an age when they need a mother most!

[PURPZ LOCKHEART]

there is nothing to admit! it's never my intention to find convenience for myself. the inconvenience of being away from your kids is far more painful than any hurt anyone could get. you wouldn't know it and never will coz you will never be a mother.

Admit it -- you just want the good life. Free from responsibility whatsoever with your own kids.

[butong101]

If I sound like I am on the other side of the fence, it is perhaps because I never had a mother who showed love in the way other mothers did for their children.

I have to disagree with Mr Butong here, that a mother's presence is replaceable with being in constant communication. I have been to places that most of you probably just saw on CNN or browsed on the net. Those mothers I have seen, gave all, flesh blood and tears just to be physically with their children...providing what little she could or none of..often, just abstract loving and love is there for them all to share.

Please stay with your children TS.. while they are at an age when they need a mother most!

having known you did not have the luxury of having a mother, definitely i can see where your coming from sir,

but if i am to be in this place, choosing intimate love over greater financial flexibilities for my children,

i'll choose the financial flexibilities.. for i have always believed, poverty is much worse than an absent mother/father figure..

..i assume we both know the consequences of the absence of a mother/father, despite knowing it, id still choose a healthy financial life for my children, emotional and social life can be fixed.. even if there is a physically present mother/father, emotional and social sickness(for the absence of a better word) will always be there..

[PURPZ LOCKHEART]

thank you!

don't worry ts kay ig naa sa saktong age nana imo kids, makasabot rana sila sa imo gibuhat na para sa ilang kaayohan

[nakedheartlady]

sa ako opinion regarding ani nga issue nimo TS as being a mother pod coz i laso have a 3y.o son... in a way naa kay good reasons and intentions y u have to give up ur children kay para rapod na sa ila future dba... hinuon naa naman right ang mga kids mo decide kung asa nila gusto sa mother or father ba.. pero kung ako siguro naa sa imo side bisan unsa siguro nko kalisod murag di nko kaya i-give up ang ako children... u can have a simple living with ur children without those luxurious things in life... God will make a way for u if u just believe in Him...kay basin in d future ma blame nya ka sa imo mga kids.. dapat imo gi-prove sa imo ex hubby nga kaya nimo buhion imo pamilya without him... but anyways, lain2 man jud ta og opinion but sa imo gibuhat it doesnt mean bad nka pagka-mother.. just dont mind the people around u... imo nlang ipakita sa imo mga kids nga bisan wala ka sa ila but imo gihapon sila gi-supportahan as their mother..