What are the Signs of a Loveless Marriage

[Snowfly]

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Each relationship is unique, but could be a lot more better if well work for it. Loveless/arranged marriages are common but love can be felt in due time IF both are cooperative. To me, having a friend, falling in love and nurturing the relationship is more powerful, kasi pinaghirapan nyo yan, diba? We can be readily aware of the warning signs we need to pay attention to, so that in time bigger problems don’t erupt.

Dili lang ta mo expect too much from our partners,,,we compliment each other . We'll never get the respect & love we wanted if we continue to give-up our power, behave like a doormat and pretend everything is fine. Its time to change.

Be honest w/ yourself about how dissatisfied you really are. Being a mother is one of the only acceptable “professions” for women w/ nurse, yayas and teacher close behind. When you work hard to fulfill all our partners needs and the kids, its all in the name of love not that were just obligated.,,,,at the other side, too much of pampering makes him increasingly dependent on you, the more you take care of your husband, the more he relies on you and the more indispensable you become.

A mans self worth comes from his sense of competence. And when a man feels he is not doing a good job in any area of his life, it becomes very difficult for him to be loving towards himself or you.

Talk w/ your hubby about ways he can make a smoother shift from working mode to loving mode. Discuss ways to unwind after work, make agreements about how each of you will contribute to the growth and intimacy of your relationship. Let your mind work, do the first move this time, otherwise the feelings for each other will get sour. Be cooperative in bed in the name of Love.

Men define themselves primarily from their work and their accomplishments, women define themselves primarily from their relationships. If a man does not feel good about his work and his ability to accomplish, he will have a difficult time focusing attention on the relationship. Let us take care of our Family its God’s gift to us!

[mrvs19]

wla nay affection.. kanya2x na cla ug mga lakaw, nya cge na maglalis.

[joylove]

signs of loveless marriage: late na mo uli sayo balay, dili kahibalo mananghid na madugayan ug uli,daghan reason nganu dili ka text (walay load, walay signal,lowbatt etc etc.),dili na mo kiss, mo make love, cge lang pangita ug bikil.

[ryeaka]

signs of loveless marriage: late na mo uli sayo balay, dili kahibalo mananghid na madugayan ug uli,daghan reason nganu dili ka text (walay load, walay signal,lowbatt etc etc.),dili na mo kiss, mo make love, cge lang pangita ug bikil.

pwede sad ni sya signs of a loveless relationship... in general mao jud ni... not just in marriage... i always believe in the saying,"If there's a will, there will always be a way."

[joylove]

pwede sad ni sya signs of a loveless relationship... in general mao jud ni... not just in marriage... i always believe in the saying,"If there's a will, there will always be a way."

hahaha sakto jud ka eunice..sus!If u know lang same ra ta situation hahah cge claim na love ta pero wa jud sa action, storya ra kutob.haha dili nalang ko mo detalye ke kapuy nagbalik eunice basta same ta..heheh

[hlongimanus]

each relationship is unique, but could be a lot more better if well work for it. Loveless/arranged marriages are common but love can be felt in due time if both are cooperative. To me, having a friend, falling in love and nurturing the relationship is more powerful, kasi pinaghirapan nyo yan, diba? We can be readily aware of the warning signs we need to pay attention to, so that in time bigger problems don’t erupt.

Dili lang ta mo expect too much from our partners,,,we compliment each other . We'll never get the respect & love we wanted if we continue to give-up our power, behave like a doormat and pretend everything is fine. Its time to change.

Be honest w/ yourself about how dissatisfied you really are. Being a mother is one of the only acceptable “professions” for women w/ nurse, yayas and teacher close behind. When you work hard to fulfill all our partners needs and the kids, its all in the name of love not that were just obligated.,,,,at the other side, too much of pampering makes him increasingly dependent on you, the more you take care of your husband, the more he relies on you and the more indispensable you become.

A mans self worth comes from his sense of competence. And when a man feels he is not doing a good job in any area of his life, it becomes very difficult for him to be loving towards himself or you.

Talk w/ your hubby about ways he can make a smoother shift from working mode to loving mode. Discuss ways to unwind after work, make agreements about how each of you will contribute to the growth and intimacy of your relationship. Let your mind work, do the first move this time, otherwise the feelings for each other will get sour. Be cooperative in bed in the name of love.

Men define themselves primarily from their work and their accomplishments, women define themselves primarily from their relationships. If a man does not feel good about his work and his ability to accomplish, he will have a difficult time focusing attention on the relationship. Let us take care of our family its god’s gift to us!

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[krizz]

if dli na mo work out jud ang relationship wla nay love

[NADOWS]

no communication
no synchronization
no understanding

[tessF]

walay care , daghan false excuses .. walay time

[mlnsgbn]

one more sign is respect mawala na gani na wa na gyuy ayo inyong kamenyuon