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  1. #21

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    You're just hesitant. If you think he's a good person based on your observation and most important is if you think that you like him too, why not be his gf? Don't mind the IF's, it won't go away, everything has it.
    You will not be able to know until you try. Anyway you're not marrying him yet, you're just gonna allow both of you to show how really love works on you two.
    If you like him also and then you don't want to give chance for it, you will just make him suffer and you will feel the same as well.
    Anyway have you tried having a boyfriend TS?

  2. #22

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    Maybe nag pa asa ka niya, tell the guy exactly how you feel.

    Tell him you only "like" him and you haven't reach the stage where you can say that you love him. Tell the the truth he deserves it..

    If you think your feeling can still develop beyond "like" then then tell him that as well, if he is willing to wait then that's his choice but at least he knows where to position himself.

    You said, you don't want to hurt him, then just be honest and let him decide what course he wants to go: either continue pursuing you or just let you go.

    Good luck.

  3. #23

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    kaluoy pud tawon sa guy

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    Default Re: should i say yes???

    be honest to the guy, tell him your true feelings...if the guy loves you then he would understand and wait...

  5. #25

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    he should understand and respect your decision and let him wait

  6. #26

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    @ TS: Love needs time.. Know him more. How long na siya nagcourt nimu?

  7. #27

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    kung love jud ka niya ts. mag huwat xa and kung unsa imo ma desisyonan iya jud na respetohon.

  8. #28

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    Quote Originally Posted by idontttknow View Post
    here's my story..i really dont know what to do na jud...i have a guy frnd and i am starting to like him..ahhhmmm we used to go out often but for me it was just a friendly date..but for him it was something more..

    there was a time he asked me to be his girlfriend and i declined..i told him im not yet ready..i like him but its not enuf..he's fun to be with but...there's always a but which means im not really that into him..i like him but i dont love him yet...YET..so meaning naa pa possibility magnhn ko niya coz of all d guys na nicourt nq siya ra aku nahan..

    yesterday he asked me out.. we watched a movie had a dinner..and asked me again..when will u be my girlfriend?

    i dont want him to get hurt...honestly..i like him its just that im not that into him pa jud...i feel so guilty...what am i gonna do?
    Confuse Confuse... Hmm....


    From the looks of it.... Your rushing things.. especially niya... Tell you what.. Hunong sa mo beh.. Take time and just be on a friendly date (if mu treat cya ug date nimo next time)

    Ingna cya d ka nya dali.on.. if he can wait for the time your going to say YES.. then make him understand to wait...

    Bata paman sad mo.. so there's no need to RUSH love... Love needs space and time to grow..... So DONT RUSH IT...

    Ingna cya, when I feel sure of myself, of my feelings to you.. then that will be the time I will tell you.. Ingna cya Dont rush sa tanan...

    I know you like this guy TS.. its just your not sure of everything pa karon.. paspas kau ang tanan.. basta take it slow and take your time..

    PS..

    Dont feel remorse sa nagasto nya sa inyong date.. He was the one treating you.. and if he feels disappointed nga wala ka napasagot nya.. then feel him disappointed.. ayaw kaikog sa guy.. its his decision to have a date with you.. and if wala nya nakuha imong YES.. so be it... pasa sakripisyoha cya gamay...

    when you let the guy show more sacrifices to you.. it will show lang jud how much his love for you jud...

    basta take your time.. and when its time you feel more and more feelings na para nya.. then mao na na.. Give him the sweetest word he wants to hear....

  9. #29

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    well decline his offer and tell him the truth. im sure ni decline ka pero wala nimo xa gi ingnan sa unsa jud ang reason kay mahadlok ka masakitan siya. pero its for the best.. truth hurts

  10. #30

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    Quote Originally Posted by idontttknow View Post
    dats d last thing on my mind..i dont want him to get hurt...im not that kind of a girl..pero moo pud ila giingon..paasa daw ko..hahay ambot
    no ur not... just tell him the truth lng gud nga ur not yet sure, tell the guy nga ayaw lng og "asa" but u nid more time to assess how you feel about him---in this case depende nana sa guy if he continues... the guy should wait and maybe continue dating you if he's rily in to you, while he waits answers from you... ana rana siya TS.

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