3 ra na ka principles..
acceptance
letting go
moving on..
ikaw na bahala TS, total, you're rational bitaw![]()
3 ra na ka principles..
acceptance
letting go
moving on..
ikaw na bahala TS, total, you're rational bitaw![]()

yvonne- thanks I really appreciate it....
Months or years from now,
you'd be laughing at yourself because you THOUGHT you wouldn't be any happier again.![]()
Acknowledge every problem as a blessing in disguise ... she's not meant for you...
sakit man jud na at first....You'll never forget the good times but you'll get over it...
time heals all wounds
as my friend told me...
"everything has a remedy, because of her you're hurt... so find another girl different from her who will make you ok"
though for me i wasn't looking for another guy different from him.. i just prayed...KARMA IS A BI*** you know.. (peace for that word)
abi kog ako ray nagproblema ug prehas sa imo... ayg kabalaka bro, daghan mn sd ta... but it`s just a matter of time na mka move on ka... you`ll only find all the reasons in the world na myra sd nagbuwag mo kung you are fully recovered na jd... for now mn gd magcge pa ka ana ug reminisce sa mga nindot nga kaagi ninyo, and even those worst... but then again, mao mn jd na, naa nmn gyd na, we can't hold on to something that's not meant to be... -_-'
That's what I thought too... LIFE IS UNFAIR!
But tell you what, we only think that way, mic because things didn't work out the way we wanted/hoped it to be. It's traumatic for peeps like us who are hurting in the end after everything we have poured in to the failed relationship. That's what we call FRUSTRATION.
Healing works on different peeps and the timeframe as well. However the commonground is the ATTITUDE of the person in pain. If you are truly sincere and more open to MOVING ON, mic things will be in your own time and you'll be totally healed and would even look back and laugh at what happened in the past. Otherwise if you are the type who CONSTANTLY sulks in the corner and drowns ones self-pity and own sorrows, well good news to you bro, YOU'LL NEVER MOVE ON...
One step to healing is cleanse yourself... Cry as much as you want to, don't even muffle your cries, let it all out, scream if you have to til the last ounce of grief. Then, go through your stuffs and clear away all the remnants of the relationship (either you keep it somewhere beyond your reach or give it away) and buy new stuffs. Afterwards, make yourself a new man. You don't have to change who you really are, mic. Just simply go into worthwhile activities for you to be busy with and use this avenue to mingle with other people (you don't have to jump into another potential relationship ha) and know MORE about yourself through these people.
Once you've done this, I bet you'll gradually accept and love the new change in your life. However we can never deny that there are certain things that we are reminded of the past, aite? Just don't linger on it too much. Just let it pass and be happy that once in your life, you were able to LOVE SOMEONE SO TRUE. And that wouldn't be your last for sure. People leave us out in the cold because God has someone planned for us -- someone EVEN BETTER and who complements your whole being -- the loving person that you are
Comfort yourself with this, you may have loved and lost but she will never ever be able to have someone like you and will never be loved as much as you did before...
Keep the faith, Mic.. things will get even better![]()
Last edited by beyee; 03-30-2011 at 06:51 AM.
"People who love to eat are always the BEST people."
Julia Child

go to mars...
di bitaw pangita lain himoon gud.
how to move-on?
1. browse cebu pacific website check for promo fair
2. check your calendar and file a leave
3. browse you facebook for a potential nga ika date
4. KKB lang mo duha para deli dako gasto
5. bahala namo unsa inyo sunod buhaton...
aw..aside from buying a car in order to move on, look around while enjoying the scenery in your new car,..malay nimu dra nmu makita ang pkapalimot sa imung kasakit..hehe..and also believe that you can make it. Mind Over Matter.
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