i need help....

[dOrangeNdPink]

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no offense bro ha but you shouldn't have told her to stop studying... and kudos to you bro kay imo jd g angkon imo sala (not many people are like that now) ad2 lang xa sa school... apologize sa iyang family bro... make her family know that ur good for her God bless nimo bro!

[aozora]

i just don't understand why you think nga ikaw ang sad-an. if there's anyone who's to be blamed here, it's your GF, not you! considering you have encouraged her to go to school, i think your GF is the problem. (from jntio's pov)

laziness ra cguro na. sometimes ma-agian man jud na nato dba? kanang gitawag nga tapol. samot na kung balik2 or boring ang daily activities.
i just hope nga understanding ang parents sa imong gf. that ang problem is not you or your relationship but sa ilang anak. i say relationship is not a problem because naay managuyab nga makatarong ug eskwela, why man nga dli na mabuhat sa imong gf? nga moskwela?

or, are you a bad influence? don't tell us wla pud ka niskwela? kay tingali bad influence ang tanawa sa mom dira nimo? naah, lisod na.

maayo pud gani nga wla ka ingna sa iyang mom nga "ayaw na ug samoka akong anak forever", at least naa pakay chance. all you have to do is wait for the right time.

i think ang dapat nimo nga buhaton kay mag wait ka nga mo settle down ang issue between her and her mom about sa iyang pageskwela. cla sa pagsabot2 kay you don't have the right to interfere. or tingali ikaw ang gibilinan sa bata? and then wla magtarong. aw lain na nga story.

enough na cguro nga imong sulti-an iyang mom nga gi encourage nimo cya to school.
and enough na cguro na imo cyang sulti-an nga when everything is ok, ganahan ka makigkita ug balik or makigistorya face to face. (if possible, with mom's consent)

wait lang niya nga mo open up dira nimo. and always encourage her to go to school. by the time nga mo communicate cya ug balik, that just means nga love ka nia. so dli ra one-way relationship.

para nako, if you'll be giving flowers in the wrong occasion, bad timing. come to think if it, sort of cya ang sad-an and then tagaan nimo ug flowers. it's like you're encouraging her to create problems para magkadawat cya ug flowers. save the flowers for right occasions bro.

and ayaw tawn ug apas2 like adtoun nimo sa school, mura ka ug naggukod or worst, stalker. plus mo samot na hinuon na mag worry iyang mom if mahibawan ka. as i have said, all you have to do is wait for the right time.

[rAiNe_]

you're gf is irresponsible, insensitive
and besides why take such blame?
you're not responsible for her own actions..

[bowee]

if your not scripting your story bro.. then my sympathy... though I could have known for a fact nga basin gbali nimo ang story ani.. instead of you claiming nga mu inspire ka nya ug mu encourage ka nya ug skuyla.. basin ang real story ani kay ikaw tingali ang mag sul sol nya nga ayaw lang aron magkita mo...

I maybe wrong and pardon me if nasayop ko sa akong pangagpas ha... nag tanaw lang ko basin gituyok nimo ang imong storya dire ba....

I don't know your gf's attitude that much, but its kinda hard to believe nga imong gf pa ang mag-una una ug ingon nimo nga mag cutting class lang cya sa school... most girls are by nature buotan and deligent to go to school and attend classes baya.. d parehas natong mga laki nga kusog kaau mag cutting classes kuyog sa barkada..

mao lisod sa akoa pag believe sa imong story jud.. I sometimes feel gi bali nimo ang story ani...

again, pardon mi if Im totally taking this negatively on you.....

[hoping52days]

no offense bro ha but you shouldn't have told her to stop studying... and kudos to you bro kay imo jd g angkon imo sala (not many people are like that now) ad2 lang xa sa school... apologize sa iyang family bro... make her family know that ur good for her God bless nimo bro!

Ala man nako sya gi ingrain na stop studying.... There are times na kapoyan cya ug duty.... Kaybaw by a mos life sa nursing.... Samot nag 4th year...Ggb kaayo... There are times na mu Ana sya nako nga gkapoi sya from d last duty. So sabot q nya..

[hoping52days]

i just don't understand why you think nga ikaw ang sad-an. if there's anyone who's to be blamed here, it's your GF, not you! considering you have encouraged her to go to school, i think your GF is the problem. (from jntio's pov)

laziness ra cguro na. sometimes ma-agian man jud na nato dba? kanang gitawag nga tapol. samot na kung balik2 or boring ang daily activities.
i just hope nga understanding ang parents sa imong gf. that ang problem is not you or your relationship but sa ilang anak. i say relationship is not a problem because naay managuyab nga makatarong ug eskwela, why man nga dli na mabuhat sa imong gf? nga moskwela?

or, are you a bad influence? don't tell us wla pud ka niskwela? kay tingali bad influence ang tanawa sa mom dira nimo? naah, lisod na.

maayo pud gani nga wla ka ingna sa iyang mom nga "ayaw na ug samoka
akong anak forever", at least naa pakay chance. all you have to do is wait for the right time.

i think ang dapat nimo nga buhaton kay mag wait ka nga mo settle down
ang issue between her and her mom about sa iyang pageskwela. cla sa pagsabot2 kay you don't have the right to interfere. or tingali ikaw ang gibilinan sa bata? and then wla magtarong. aw lain na nga story.


enough na cguro nga imong sulti-an iyang mom nga gi encourage nimo cya
to school.
and enough na cguro na imo cyang sulti-an nga when everything is ok, ganahan ka makigkita ug balik or makigistorya face to face. (if possible, with mom's consent)


wait lang niya nga mo open up dira nimo. and always encourage her to go to
school. by the time nga mo communicate cya ug balik, that just means nga love ka nia. so dli ra one-way relationship.

para nako, if you'll be giving flowers in the wrong occasion, bad timing. come to think if it, sort of cya ang sad-an and then tagaan nimo ug flowers. it's like you're encouraging her to create problems para magkadawat cya flowers. save the flowers for right occasions bro.

and ayaw tawn ug apas2 like adtoun nimo sa school, mura ka ug naggukod or worst, stalker. plus mo samot na hinuon na mag worry iyang mom if mahibawan ka. as i have said, all you have to do is wait for the right time.

Salamat sa imong pag comment bro. Naa sad Kai point bro... I should save the flowers at the right time.... Ala man mi nag puyo sa akong gf bro. Naa man sya sa bhaus... But cge sya adto sa amoa hus Kai sya raman usa sa bhaus so boring gyud ngadto... Na close na gyud gani sya sa akong fam.. Salamat again sa IMO comment bro...

[hoping52days]

if your not scripting your story bro.. then my sympathy... though I could have known for a fact nga basin gbali nimo ang story ani.. instead of you claiming nga mu inspire ka nya ug mu encourage ka nya ug skuyla.. basin ang real story ani kay ikaw tingali ang mag sul sol nya nga ayaw lang aron magkita mo...

I maybe wrong and pardon me if nasayop ko sa akong pangagpas ha... nag tanaw lang ko basin gituyok nimo ang imong storya dire ba....

I don't know your gf's attitude that much, but its kinda hard to believe nga imong gf pa ang mag-una una ug ingon nimo nga mag cutting class lang cya sa school... most girls are by nature buotan and deligent to go to school and attend classes baya.. d parehas natong mga laki nga kusog kaau mag cutting classes kuyog sa barkada..

mao lisod sa akoa pag believe sa imong story jud.. I sometimes feel gi bali nimo ang story ani...

again, pardon mi if Im totally taking this negatively on you.....

Ok ra bro I understand... It's hard to believe sa among sitwasyon.

[hoping52days]

you're gf is irresponsible, insensitive
and besides why take such blame?
you're not responsible for her own actions..

Dli Raman sya ako sad Sis Kai I spoiled her too much.... Mao ng what ever she wants ma kuha gyud nya.... Kai I'd love her too much.... Thanks sa among pag tagad sa akong thread Sis.

[kamber11]

pede raman tngali mo padayon sa inyo relationship but take some limitations na jud, talk to her heartily kay para raman sad na sa inyo future... wla man tngali dautan kung padayon mo basta put priority first ang inyo school...

[hoping52days]

pede raman tngali mo padayon sa inyo relationship but take some limitations na jud, talk to her heartily kay para raman sad na sa inyo future... wla man tngali dautan kung padayon mo basta put priority first ang inyo school...

Sakto ka bro. I'll put some limitations sa among mga buhaton..
Thx sa advice bro.