Would you allow your gf to go out with her friend's male friends?

[RJM]

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If ako sad i would have reacted the same way pareha ni visionplus. Agree with sanosuke. boys will be boys. ok ra man laag2 siya kuyog sa mga friends niya but with a total stranger sakto gyud na imong gi buhat bai di gyud sugtan. I mean if your judgment is true nga maybe mabastosan siya or ma disgrasya simbako lang unya suko2 pa siya nga dili siya sugtan mu lakaw if thats the case then what are boyfriends for? diba to be the knight and shining armor to protect them in any harm. Anyway gikan pa gyud sa lain nga town tong mga taohana to so unsa pay lain tuyo nila sa inyong town kung di mag lingaw2 or mang chix.

So what happened after bai pagka suko niya she still went with them?

[sassy_faith]

if he/she can be trusted, why not? it's all about trust.

[titaniumbox]

no i won't! maski pa i trust my gf.. but what about those guy friends? can they be trusted? ma rape pa lang na unya ako gf..dili jud ma forgive ako self why ni sugot ko on the first place..waaahhh!

[edgeknife]

this will depend. if i know who my gf's male friends are and i have the trust of male's friends, well ok lang. pero if i don't know the male friends, definitely never

[madzZz]

hmm if i were in ur situation.. i could only allow her if i know the guy.. if we're that close that i can trust him that he'll take care of my gf...
it's not that i dont trust her but, i don't trust the guy

[n`gel]

I totally agree with Streetcar on all points.

1. Lain kaayo tan-awon woi, sus wala lang ka kebaw gaangkas siya gagakus sa driver waaa can you imagine that? @vision, what you did was right. Bisan na moingon siya wala ra pero lain gihapon paminawon. Pwede lang ta to laag other than that nga dili kinahanglan moangkas tehe. Pa cute cute baya nang mga laag ingon ana ay na ta

2. Respect is one of the fundamentals of keeping a good relationship with someone we love. Wala siyay respect sa imong gibati. Normal ra na for a guy to feel protective sa yang uyab kay yup am sure pa cute cute gyud tong mga guys nga kalaag nila.

3. Mas okay pa manglaag mong duha ipon ug lain laing taw. Limitations come along with uyab-uyab. Well if she wants to do that without anybody telling her not to, mag single nalang siya.

[visionplus]

wow that's a lot of feedback from you guys, and gals... i appreciate it a lot.

right up to now me and my gf are still not in good terms. we saw each other last weekend but i never brought up the issue, she tried to ask me if "di ba lang daw mi mag-istorya" i just pretended not to hear her and just took off. matter of fact i felt really really bad when she told me about their plans that night. she was in no way acting like someone who has a bf. i mean, she should understand that being in a relationship has some limitations. like n'gel said, mag single nalng siya, if that's how she makes decisions.

throughout our relationship i never prevented her from going out with her female friends, even if i don't know some of them. but this time, its just so different, for god's sake they're going out with some guys they don't know. however she justifies the one guy that she knows, still they don't know his companions. i'm feeling so bad til now that i just want to keep these things going between us to be just as it is. she being free from whatever words that i might throw at her when things like these happen again. it breaks my heart to see us this way but, it kills me knowing she doesn't respect my feelings on these matters

@n'gel, all your points exactly reflects what i felt and feeling right now. i don't see her commitment in our relationship. for 34 months, she should have understood that having a bf is way too different than before i came to her life. i'm just too stupid not to realize we didn't look the same way.

[Ms.Beau]

<--nangluod jud hehe

[n`gel]

Well it could be just a passing-by problem but has to be dealt with now... coz what if it happens again... you should tell her why you felt like that. I also think that to keep a good relationship with your significant other... you should acknowledge hurts and what hurts because dili pud malalim ang sakit, sakit gyud, kanang heart ACHE gyud ba... na gyuy kirot hehe.

Para naku love is when you feel the other's strong emotion of pain or bliss or success. It's when you put yourself in his/her shoes and feel around... with closed eyes focusing on the feeling... and then when you extract yourself out of that reflection you'll treat him/her differently and right.

[Sanosuke]

I have this ex-gf before... She used to have lots of male friends and acquaintances, I think she has more male friends that females. Before we've met, naana to iya mga friends, so kato kami na, I don't have anything against them, since nagkaila sila before nako, then I should be more proud since I was the one she said YES(?) to.

The problem was, even when kami na, she openly befriend new guys in front of me, even if the guys are the one who are reluctant to talk to her since I was with her. Well, to cut the story short, medyo wala mi nagdugay ato.

As a bf, it's normal raman jud nga ma selos ta gamay...