Is it okey to wait tobe the 2nd wife after annulment?

[naomi6000]

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its up to you gurl, mau rato akong ma advice nimo..ako ang nagpa anul..4 yers na wala gihapon na human akong anulment..even ako ang ni file...ang hussle grabe kau..fiances grabe...hope pareha ta ug tolerance..ta as..gudluck..

[nesdel]

His did not tell his wife about me. He just said he wants to live on his own. I don't want his wife to know about me yet para dli ko i-drag sa ila problema. Though i know apil na gyud ko. Only his mom and brother knew about me. I want to protect my name as much as possible coz i work in a known government agency ra ba gyud na always in the news. Basin himuon na sa iya wife na issue if she knew about me.....

[n`gel]

My mom used to work sa capitol and nakahangyo siya ug suod niya nga judge nga i-annull ang marriage sa kong eldest nga sister, 1 month annull na. Yahaya lagi hehe.

[Streetcar]

nesdel, i see he is going through emotional problems right now. Just be there for him for emotional support but keep your distance with the other matters. I'm sure ikaw ra gyud nakasayud how you both feel and hopefully you know where you stand in that situation pero since complicated sab na imong sitwasyon kay basin naay mga repercussions specially wala pa na ma finalize ilang annulment, lay low sa ka. Not that you avoid him just be there for emotional support and encouragement that everything will be okay with him. He needs you.

If this happens to me inlab ko sa married and he is ready to get a divorce and marry me, i dont give a damn what the world says. Ipaglaban ko siya and he better be ready to fight for us too because if he really loves me, he will not hide it from the world and we will conquer the world against all odds. Pero lain lain man gud ang sitwasyon sa tao dili ing ana ka simple. But hey, i'm ready to face the challenges that lies ahead...kung ing ana akong sitwasyon. Good luck Nesdel and take it easy.

[evs]

i see ......dagko na diay mga anak then ok ra pod nila and the wife. i guess if the annulment push through i don't see why not. hopefully ma approve ang annulment if not then maybe they will separate amicably and you guys will have a chance but you have to face the fact that you'll never get married but then who cares. their marriage is a case where they were so young and impulsive and didn't thought through it. so mao nay resulta.....i'm sure this time with you will be better coz he's wiser and older. hopefully di lang ka madamay sa ilang problema coz if the wife is as nasty like he said then he'd better be ready being grilled by her ug mouli na sya.....btw sis like everyone said imoha ra gyud nang life, so do what you feel is right for you.
i hope it will work out for you nesdel.

question lang diay nako nesdel when you start dating did he ever told you that he's married or did he just told you? kay sa akong sabot murag karon pa man ka nya sultii...correct me if i'm wrong.....

[Ms.Beau]

Nesdel, protect yourself. That's all I can say.

[monrose29]

I need your advice. The annullment hasn't started yet. I-process pa lang niya when he comes home this December kay tua man siya sa gawas nagtrabaho. I don't want to be a homewrecker. I told him to work things out w/ his wife but he said dli na gyud daw madala kay wala na sila respeto sa usag-usa. Mag-away lang sila pirmi. He married his wife only because he got her pregnant. His mother has even told him to leave his wife na kay dli na matulon ang batasan... Naglibog jud ko if wait ko niya kay dli bya ingon ana kadali magpa-annull. It will take years pa d ba?.... Please guys i need to hear ur valuable opinions...

wala may da-utan ana friend.... mag pa abot nalang jud ka og pila ka years..if u love that man.. u have no other option mag huwat ra jud ka.... kay makiha man pod ang lalaki ana kong inyo jud pugson ang sitwasyon...
pede man mo mag live-in once ma filed na niya ang annulment paper or na-a na silay verbal agreement sa iyang wife nga mag bulag na....pero deli jud mo pede ma kasal as long as deli pa sila legally separated....

[nesdel]

to evs:

he didn't tell me at first. I guess he was still trying to test me then if makasabot ko sa iya situation coz he always asks me if i would still accept him if he is like this and that.. then siguro natanto na niya na understanding jud ko and pasensyosa mao siguro he told me na... I guess it would be along wait pa for me....

[nesdel]

shocked jud ko when he told me coz i really didnt have any idea that he's married. I cried a river the night he told me.... but im okey now....

[nesdel]

thanks guys fo the advice and sharing ur thots..... mao ni ako ganahan sa istorya. dli ko pirmi online but when i need advice i know i can always call on u guys.... thank u....