I need an advice... Love nako xa og xa... hahays

[GuyOfYourDreams]

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its like your telling me na i have to split w/ my gf? is dat wat u mean??


hmmm... nana pd na xa sa ako mind but d pa ko ka dare ana... not sure pman gud ko sa ako workmate... i don't have any assurance with her..

you dont have assurance for both.. They will be the one to give it to you.. What I'm telling you is that you can only choose one from them. D man sad siguro maau kung dunganon sila diba?.
For an instance ikaw ang naa sa place ni girl. Sugot baka na ang imo uyab naa sad uyab lain. Makig share ka? I bet your answer will be "much better na ang buwagan ko kaysa idungan ko sa lain". Think which is proper to do. The proper way should prevail over all situations, even though it will hurt you so much.

[ozracing]

hatagi ko number sa imo GF dri cebu bro bi..this way di naka magka problema..

and naa napud kay reason mo biya niya...guaranteed!!!

joke lang. humana ko ana nga situation. 90% of lond distance relationship...buwag and ending.

[reginakrys]

pero love man pd nako xa bro... even d na as much as b4... kay cge man gud mi koyog ato.. but now d na kayo... mao ngita kog way para d nako makasala nya.. pero saon taman,, naa man juy time magka kita mi sa ako ka workmate... INTENTIONALLY.... hahays

its like your telling me na i have to split w/ my gf? is dat wat u mean??


hmmm... nana pd na xa sa ako mind but d pa ko ka dare ana... not sure pman gud ko sa ako workmate... i don't have any assurance with her..

tanaw nko dli man nimo truly love imong cebu gf oi.. sa first quote ga-imply ka nga love nimo kaayo cya before kay cge mo kuyog, but now nga dli namo cge kuyog, ni-diminish imong love for her?? sa second quote pud kay the reason wla pka nakigbuwag with her kay tungod wla kay assurance with the manila girl? makigbuwag ra ka kung sure naka sugton kas second girl? is that what you mean by assurance?

[suddenly_isee]

damn.. i hate ds kind of a guy..lol sorry ts ahp...ahaha recalling sa nahitabo sako friend way back few years ago w/ her ex... louy tawon ang girl..tsk tsk...

n d 1st place ur not in love in d idea of being inlove....
ur too selfish nga hangtod karon wala pa nimo gi let go imo gituohan nga gf sa cebu..moved on..ayaw paka uwawi imo self samtang naa na diay kay lain... f love nimo imo gf ngano naka kita paman kag lain og nganong nipatul ka...hehe (BUWAGI TONG GIRL NGA WALAY PUS IMO KINABUHI NGADTO NIYA). I thnk mas mo profer kas bag o pah kay mas excited paman ka sa pag kakaron..hehe

mo abot ra ang time nga magpangita ka sa kato gf nimo sa cebu din mag mahay raka sa kina ulihan..lol pero imo mana tinuyoan... hehe besides wala pod mi idea kinsa mas bug at jud n reality... hehe so narana nimo...hehehe lol peace brod.. god bless ur soul....ahehehe

[paloma_alex]

for me lang.... try to give urself a time to think.... i mean ayaw i contact bsan kinsa nila duha... no text, kol or any.... don't reply to any messages nila but then inform them lang first I GUESS..... ma miss nimo pag au ang imong tinood gi love gyud... kung kinsa gyud ma miss nimo she's the one u want or love... try lang ni ako advice... it worked man sa ako... God bless... be honest lang!

[suddenly_isee]

ok ok ra jud nah nga advice sis...hmmn...sako pag sabot ani nga ts... himul anon.. adventurous ni klase nga tao..lol kuyaw nig ma end up ni siya nga dili mag permaninte og relationship...hehe peace ts ahp..lol

[SIGNUS]

klaruha na imong gibati brad samtang sayu pa kai daghang nangadaut anang ngun anang sitwayuna.

[makie]

Sorry for the term but that's just a little bit selfish of you. Try to put yourself in your girlfriend's shoes, how would you feel if she'll leave you for somebody else she met in just a very short period of time? Relationships isn't all about emotions and feelings, it's all about character and standing and fighting for what is right and decent. Keep this in mind, as much as you could say that you're falling in love with your officemate or workmate, your thoughts are actually the ones controlling your emotions and the more you feed or entertain your thoughts, the more you reinforce your emotions.

I'm seeing two things about this: [1] There could be something wrong in your relationship with your girlfriend, or [2] You've got some trust issues that you have to deal with yourself.

Let's tackle it one by one. First, it's normal to seek refuge from other persons for something that is wrong or lacking in a relationship. Does your relationship lack some intimacy? Are there some minor issues that you have to deal with? Maybe you lack some quality time and communication? Or simply because your relationship wasn't able to reach your standard of what a relationship should be? Invest in your relationship and in doing that, try to think and analyze things deeply and focus on what you could do to make the relationship a lot better, not you make yourself feel a lot better and leave your girlfriend behind. A good relationship reinforces really great feelings and if your relationship will go quite well and get deeper and more meaningful, you'll never find any reason to leave your girlfriend or better yet, get attracted to other people.

Second is that maybe you yourself could easily get attracted or infatuated with somebody. Get to know the difference of love and infatuation. Love isn't emotions nor feelings, it is a decision and it entails commitment. True love is different from "falling and being in love", the latter is more of infatuation. As an example, you love your mother but you aren't in love with her. See the difference? Because you love her, you care for her and think nothing but all the best for her. You could fall in love with another person yet your love for your mother is still much deeper than that of the other person. How long have you been with your girlfriend? How long did you know your workmate already? Invest in yourself and grow some character. Fight off your emotions and never let it get the best of you. As a man, you should have a solid character, that's what a man should be. If you won't, then what assurance could you give you and your workmate that you won't fall for another person sooner or later? History will just repeat itself and you could never find a good and lasting relationship. Again, relationships is not about emotions, it is all about character.

Put yourself in your girlfriend's shoes and see things in a different perspective, it will help you clear things out. Do what's right, not what you feel like doing.

[suddenly_isee]

@makie... fights au sir..very well said...

sa laktod pang pagka pulonga eresponsabli ni nga pagka uyaba...lol sorry najud nako ts...im just honest w/ my comment....ahehe

hmmn..to ts... blessed be ur soul....

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

u have to choose...u cant have them both as lovers...kng asa ka mas happy, adto ka...