why is it hard to start when you ended so hurt?

[yesh1314]

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cguroh tungod sa your so busy making that relationship work to be the best and when it falls you dont know how to make the next one best when you had already given all your best to the previous one.....

[edliZjOhn]

cguroh tungod sa your so busy making that relationship work to be the best and when it falls you dont know how to make the next one best when you had already given all your best to the previous one.....

lagi nu? basin pa diay ingon ana jud yesh karon paningkamotan na lang jud nako nga dili na lang mahinumduman ang akong past kay hangtud karon dili pa jud ko ka.move on lisod pa jud kaayo...faeta lagi...pero dili na lang a jud tngali ko mosugod ug lain...mag barkada na lang sa ko karon...thanks to my friends whom are always there...salamat sad sa tanang istoryans nga motambag..sa care and all...

[Mr. BrokenHearted]

siguro its a lesson ra na miga nimo nga don't give your all to your bf kay lisod man jud kung ihatag ang tanan ba unya igkabuwag na sakit kaayo oiez... sa sunod gani, don't give your all 100 % to ur bf i think 50 % imo self 50 % ra pod sa imo uyab... para dli au sakit ba ug dali ra ayo ka makamoveon kung mgbuwag na pod mo...

[J.Abz]

keyword.. 'acceptance...& denial'

accept that is OVER and nothing you can do about to make it come back again..

DENIAL.. because you still believe something is worth fighting for.. when infact.. its really a battle lost na jud..

It's hard to start over again because, you feel so lost, tired and confuse....

TIME HEALS heals all wounds.. especially matters of the heart...

[lovelygirl]

ANa jud na..nasakitan man gud ka pag ayo..lisod na mo trust ug balik...ayaw sah pag uyab2x oi! kapoy anang uyab2x..pag wait nalang sa right person na e hatag ni God nimu..kung maabot nana sya..for sure, all your heartaches and pain will be vanish..

[emow]

Just stay hurt for a while.... it will do you good. There is a sense of comfort when you stay that way, garnerning sympathy from yourself and from other people, replaces the void left by your loved one. This is the time of reflection and synthesizing all the things that has happened to you. Once you will be able to pickup the pieces of yourself, then you can start all over again.

[nnixx]

believe me sis time will come when u look back and say, why i have been such and fool... and you will laugh ur heart out. for now its ok to cry. just let it out and dont suppress any emotions no matter how small it is. tears will help u heal faster. and lastly, dont be afraid to love again...

[anjerika]

maybe he just wasn't the guy for you.


my advice, do not start a new relationship if you still have excess baggage or bitterness from your past one. murag ma panakipbutas lang ang new.

[andch81]

because of the fear that is why....

[hunt99]

i ended up sooooo hurt, it seems like my heart ends up beating when i lost him... still although i have given my best and my all. i am tired, soo much...i was not given even a bit of chance to win him back. right now at this moment, i've been doing my best to heal the pain and let the air blow it out from my system, badly i can't do it that easily. perhaps, time is so slow and i wanted it to be faster to heal me...i even fear of letting my heart admire someone, for i am so much afraid that might fall into a situation in which i might use that someone to cure me, but then at the end of the day i will then realize that i was still playing the same game...and still can't move on. Mahadlok ko basin makapasakit lang unya ko ug tawo nga walay sala, magamit nako.

Why do you think its that hard to start when you end up crying and hurting? When bitterness ruined your happy life? When you did your best but still he is gone?

remember sis not all people in this world are thesame kahibaw naka ana ky dako naka pero kung bag-ohay lang siya na wala nimo di pa panahon nimo na mo sod kag balik aning sitwasyona ky lahi ang seryos na love and relationship kysa di pa seryos ako pa nimo kalimti sa pag enjoy og ikaw og imong mga kadugo or friends ayaw pag hisgot about anang mga uyab2x kalimti sa ky mo abot rana ang tao na imong gi huwat it means siya maka kitan imo or ikaw especially di mana dako na problema ky babae man ka laki moy mo do-ol og una ayaw pag hun2x ky kana imong problema dali ra di na nid og milagro ako pa nimo enjoy ayaw pag hisgot about ana or mga uyab2x ba past is past most important will be the present and also do not forget to pray