I've done this several times with male friends and with lights off pah, I guess what matters here is "Respect" respect over lust to overcome temptations.
Human as we are...we're prone to get tempted. If opportunity permits/allows.
Naa ra jud neh baya nato bah, not unless aplyan ug pwersa then that's another story.
I think it can be avoided also, if the girl won't do or show some provocative acts/gestures towards their male companion.
As for me, evrytym i spend a night with a male buddy, i must see to it that I covered myself well not unless feel ko rin sya, hmmnnn..harhar.
Bitaw woi, magjacket/sweater or loose shirts & pajamas, not skimpy shorts & night gowns.Unsa gud nha!
Never I get harmed with my male buddies.
Mas hapit pako nadisgrasya sa ko mismo kadugo, It was a nightmare for me katu gesuwayan ko kamang sa ko mismo first cuzin maayo gani kamata dayon ko when he started putting his hands inside my shirt.
Nakakasuka! nanghagis lage dayon koh!
Adik man gud ang buang2!