Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

[rednjep]

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dili man siya istoryan... we've been together for almost 2 years...we broke up in the summer of 2004 and until now she still resides in the deepest part of my dumb heart... heheheh i didn't try to contact her or whatever for more than a year..but i saw her once..just once..heheheh

honestly, i have not moved on..

[Streetcar]

^^

then what is stopping you from going back to her? Was it that bad? Is it your ego that's getting in the way? dont suffer in silence.

[rednjep]

i've given it a thought already... the problem is she has a boyfriend..
i've sought advice from her friends and they told me that "courting her back wudnt be a good idea"..

im still hopeful though..

[tolstoi]

bro find another one and then move on

[Streetcar]

i've given it a thought already... the problem is she has a boyfriend..
i've sought advice from her friends and they told me that "courting her back wudnt be a good idea"..

im still hopeful though..

i would strongly advice you rednjep to go for it again and give it a try. In that way too, ma at peace na imong mind kung unsa ba gyud kaha naa pa pag-asa or wala na. What have you got to lose but a YES or NO. Then at least you tried. Dont listen to others. Ikaw ra maka feel ana they cant feel what you possibly feel. So go and follow your heart you have nothing to lose. Dont play the mind games sometimes kaning atong mind ang mobabag. Wala ko mag hesitate when i read you. I think you'll do yourself a favor if you try with her again. That's the only way to know. I can guarantee you that once you do this, it will also bring some closure for you good man ang outcome or not, you'll get that needed closure. Go on and pursue her again.

[PaperOne]

Lisod i move on, especially, dli clear ang reason nganong nagkabulag kay nawala lang xa ug kalit kay ga "astronot" (kanang gusto gali og TIME and SPACE..mao na tawag sa ilaha) diay. Mawala ra ug kalit, wala calls, wala na text, wala na ym or even emails. Unsa ma conclude ana d ba moingon nalang ug oopppps, need to forget that person and the same time, na more nga gusto maka padayon sa life..the more mag bother og naunsa ra ....og unsa jud ang hinungdan...

[rednjep]

i would strongly advice you rednjep to go for it again and give it a try. In that way too, ma at peace na imong mind kung unsa ba gyud kaha naa pa pag-asa or wala na. What have you got to lose but a YES or NO. Then at least you tried. Dont listen to others. Ikaw ra maka feel ana they cant feel what you possibly feel. So go and follow your heart you have nothing to lose. Dont play the mind games sometimes kaning atong mind ang mobabag. Wala ko mag hesitate when i read you. I think you'll do yourself a favor if you try with her again. That's the only way to know. I can guarantee you that once you do this, it will also bring some closure for you good man ang outcome or not, you'll get that needed closure. Go on and pursue her again.

ako sa ning hinuktukan ug pila ka adlaw.. lisod na kung magkagubot sila tungod lang nako...

[aGoi..]

depende ang mas kinsa ang inlove. usually in a relationship, there is always someone who's more into the partner. It's rare that it's equal. whoever that "inlove" is, has a harder time moving on.

[Streetcar]

Lisod i move on, especially, dli clear ang reason nganong nagkabulag kay nawala lang xa ug kalit kay ga "astronot" (kanang gusto gali og TIME and SPACE..mao na tawag sa ilaha) diay. Mawala ra ug kalit, wala calls, wala na text, wala na ym or even emails. Unsa ma conclude ana d ba moingon nalang ug oopppps, need to forget that person and the same time, na more nga gusto maka padayon sa life..the more mag bother og naunsa ra ....og unsa jud ang hinungdan...

hmm, morag ako naa ko tendency to fall out of relationships because i'm just really not into it. Pero kung gustohon nako ang guy, i really gusto too and that's when i can give my best. Pero there are times i feel am not needing of anyone. Maybe mao na imong na experience sa iya. Its not necessarily rejection because she found someone else, which isn't the case sometimes you need to stand back when they're needing that space and oftentimes, dili magka sync in inyong mga timing ba. You need her she doesn't need you. She needs you you dont need her. And if you are the kind of guy who craves for that affection from your gf, you are bound to get disappointed cause you're not getting exactly what you want. Its your decision to look for someone else who can fill that void in you and when your expectations aren't met. In short, the girl isn't really in to you. Same thing ra na sa guys. It happens both ways. You'll find someone who'll be able to fill all that for you.

[Streetcar]

ako sa ning hinuktukan ug pila ka adlaw.. lisod na kung magkagubot sila tungod lang nako...

Yeah think it through but also know just where you stand as far as her feeelings for you go, okay?