Boys Don't Cry: True?

[neishan731]

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its a comon sense, little sister plays with her dolls happily and quitely together with her frends, then big brother comes in wrecks the day. little sister cries her heart out to mommy and daddy, then the big brother gets punished, end of the story. common yes, but pointless, no.

Everyone knows that a girl is more likely to cry in a given situation than a boy. it's because:

1. that's how boys see themselves.boys have always seen tears as a sign of weakness, a sign of cowardice, and so they hold as much as posible ther tears. they try to keep ther emotions which if a gurl experiences would tear a gaping hole in ther hearts from ever reaching the surface. that's why very few boys can truly express ther feelings. this behavior goes on until adulthood, and in time they are able to hold in more traumatic emotional experiences, like death of a family member or the lose of a close frend. to see your father cry is to witness one of the rarest sights you could ever see.

2. boys wer raised that way. we may not notice it but it is quite obvious, let me ask you who are you more willing to punish for crying a son or a daughter? if your anser is a daughter then skip ryt to the next reson. as children, boys have always been taught not to cry and been punished for doing so.

3. PRIDE. boys are to proud to show to the world that they can be made to cry so, wenever they have to shed tears they insted try to hold it in. if youve ever broken up with a boyfrend you hav probably seen that no matter how painful it hurts you they just don't seem to care. they do, and it does hurt, the reson y you dont see them crying out buckets of tears is because of ther pride. they're too proud to do this. lets just not be insulted by this, its just the way they act on things like this...

4. Culture. in most, if not all cultures, males have always been seen the stronger ***, as the stable and unshakable base of society. any sign of weakness results in shame and ridicule by the other males. to me this is the best and strongest reson there is for. if your society has weak and weeping men the chances of crumbling are great.dnt you think so?


in short.....they do really cry...

[AMD_infinium05]

we do!!! hehehe

[akokini_john]

yes we cry, like nako, i cried talking to my gf last night. shes very comfortable she helps me a lot to recover easily, and i salute her for doing that, its worth to marry her.

[happy_free]

The only guy i've seen so far who cried was my father. They do cry too. And im proud for those guys who cry even without reasons.... just a little peep on releasing emotions!

[:: UnKnOwN ::]

i don't

[FK]

i don't

hilak gani ka pagka dagma nimo...

peace.

[:: UnKnOwN ::]

i don't

hilak gani ka pagka dagma nimo...

peace.

nope, i smile.. feeling the pain gives me an assurance that i'm still human and very much alive. the sound of bones breaking.. ahhh it is music to my ears.

[mitch_a888]

yah, few of them will do cry too..

[robearthFX]

ang mohilak nga laki may pagka BAYOT na!!!
dili mo pareha nako da, LAKI!!!

[mitch_a888]

@robearthFX: d pud guro bayot oi. wa lang nila makaya or else, touched kau ang ego..