Too much complications..H-E-L-P me!!!!

[coolguyiam20]

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ahhahah..vhan baya..kagwang nimo oi...mura mn xd ta tarong ani..

bitaw oi..mao na ang nkapait nga kanang mgpasagad og hamag daun..
kinahanglan imo sa cya ila-ilahon jud unta to usa mo gaminyo..
bcn pud gwapo u hubby mao nga minyo daun ka..ehhehe..
wa ka kahbw sa batasan..dapat unta ila2 sa jud mo ato daan oi..cge nlng..unsaon ta mn
minyo nmn mo..busa istorya nlng jud mo ana..mai ta uyab ba kaha mo kay naa c vhan para nimo..heheheh..unya buwag na daun mo ana..eheheh

[vahnhelsing]

ahhahah..vhan baya..kagwang nimo oi...mura mn xd ta tarong ani..

bitaw oi..mao na ang nkapait nga kanang mgpasagad og hamag daun..
kinahanglan imo sa cya ila-ilahon jud unta to usa mo gaminyo..
bcn pud gwapo u hubby mao nga minyo daun ka..ehhehe..
wa ka kahbw sa batasan..dapat unta ila2 sa jud mo ato daan oi..cge nlng..unsaon ta mn
minyo nmn mo..busa istorya nlng jud mo ana..mai ta uyab ba kaha mo kay naa c vhan para nimo..heheheh..unya buwag na daun mo ana..eheheh

hahaha, sampol lagi dayon ko... bugoya jud ni cool!!!!


relationships become successful when both parties are willing to keep the bond..
when the other party is reluctant to do his/her part somehow that bond will fade away..
its hard to let go of something that you would'nt want to... but if there is still a way to keep
it, then keep trying til your last ounce of strength.. if still nothing happens then its time to walk away, let go and go on...

[Tirong-say]

For me just stay where you are now, at least you know the deficiency, wala man pud kahay third party nga involve ngano niana mo-act imohang husband karon. Lisud molawig na pud ka "Into unchartered waters" wala ka kahibalo maayo ba gyud kaha tong tawhana, lambinga lang ud na ang imohang bana karon mobalos man pud kaha ug lambing.

Pero still the decission is yours, it's your happiness, and you are always entittled to have it, but I suggest make things as ideal as possible, meaning smooth separation from your present husband and your marriage with the other guy is also secured.

[mataid]

@ tamse: Mao lagi sis. God knows that the idea of the divorce had not occured on my mind until he started it.

@ Vahn: That's the exact term to describe him..Self-centered. Grabe mura kog itoy ani nya sa una..Na bisan unsa iyang gusto, ginabuhat jud nako. In denial kaayo ko kay tungod sa Gugmang gi-@t@y. Wala pa man nuon ko nakig involve sa lain na guy. But I like the thoughts. Specially sa kato akong friend na super ka sweet. Kato sya naa problem sa lovelife nya, I was his shoulder to cry on. Karon na ako na pud ang na ingon ani, he's always there for me. He would not say anything.. he would just listen sa akong sentiments.

@ Coolguy: LMFAO..ayay, basin ako na pud bulagan ni Van ana.hehehe
Na head over heels inlove man gud ko nya before, mao minyo dayon. I'd been to a 4 years relationship with a filipino bf before I got married. Pero it didn't work. So, I thought ang long ug short term relationship don't make any difference.

Cge guys and sisses..thanks sa tanan advice. I'll talk to him..pero unsaon pag pagahi lagi sa heart na dili ko makahilak mintras talk mi kay mawala jud ko sa ako e storya sugod na tulo ako luha.

[vahnhelsing]

okiz... ug d madala isulat na imo problema nya ipabasa niya...
basin pulos lang nya ka hilak nig mag.atubang mo...

[sweetplayer]

ur married..i think u know wat to do.

[coolguyiam20]

hahhah..nice idea vhan..mas maau isulat nlng unya ipabasa..
kay bcn unya inung m.istoryhan dli na mao..ang salida na sa mmk unya..eheheh
bitaw oi..pangisi lng ko kay pra pawala sa imong kagool..

[xinevirtucio]

bitaw....isuwat nlng...hehehe..

pwede rmn guro...inom sa ka tequila una mo magstorya...hahahaha...

bitaw oi...storya jed kelangan ana...una ka mumake ug move...hehehe

[vanav]

siguro noh! idea lang ha, anyway, wala pasad ko na kasal kay bata pako, 22, bata pa siguro hehehe. sa imo prob kay, first of all, dapat ge huna2 nimo kung unsay pasabot sa word nga "pakasal" ge sabot sa unta na ninyo duha before ninyo ge buhat! sa ling palang for better or for worst, kana palang siguro wala namo kasabot, or sayo lang mo nagpakasal nga nadala lang mo sa momentary happiness... so review the essence of marriage.... sayang naa unta ang blessing sa Ginoo ninyo. inyo lang ge sayang.. sorry just an idea... sorryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.

[maitoots]

i wont say that you stay there and rot till the end because it was what marriage was all about, even if there is nothing left to hold on... but i would not tell you either to go out and have a life with someone else. another mistake would not correct a mistake. settle the issues first with your husband before you get too excited seeing someone else. ask yourself what is it that you really wanted and ask your husband what it is that he wanted for the next 10 years with you. talk to him and tell him what you feel, what you think about your situation right now.. if the husband still won't care, then at least you give it a shot...