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    open-minded women would understand that some men are afraid of commitment...men like them are just immature and not ready for responsibilities and obligations as a partner. ..so be cautious girls for men like these. Im sure they will just undoutedly break your heart..

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    Quote Originally Posted by maitoots View Post
    if you fear commitment then don't give false hopes sa gurl. it's unfair for her side pd kay what if she is willing d ay to give commitment?? before going into anything deeper dapat talk mo duha daan na no strings attached arn way mahay. besides dli man lang pd ang guys ang fear sa commitment, naa pd uban gurls nga dli gnahan mo commit kay they just wanted to play around lang sa..
    agree ko ani.. hadlok jd ang guy mo commit.. may lang s sulti pero way buhat.. di jd fair s side s bae..

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    if you have what the title says.. dont get involved with a girl's feelings

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    fear of commitment ngano nakig relationship man ug dli ready?

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    Quote Originally Posted by maitoots View Post
    if you fear commitment then don't give false hopes sa gurl. it's unfair for her side pd kay what if she is willing d ay to give commitment?? before going into anything deeper dapat talk mo duha daan na no strings attached arn way mahay. besides dli man lang pd ang guys ang fear sa commitment, naa pd uban gurls nga dli gnahan mo commit kay they just wanted to play around lang sa..
    its our nature to fear... sometimes we look at things differently the way others dont... commitment is such a great task that lies ahead when you are willing to get involve with someone.. thats why before getting youself into something you should be able to analyze the consequence and aftermath of your decisions, and how much are you willing to stand on those decisions... giving false hopes simply means that the guy is just playing around, and seldom it is so hard to tell when is a guy telling the truth or not..
    as for the fear, never get into something when you are not ready.. never just give a try when deep inside you are hesitant... only matured guys never fear commitment... maturity is not age or years it is the wisdom and knowlege gained and applied all those years... be reminded that only a few, has aged with maturity... many pretended to be...

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    Quote Originally Posted by vahnhelsing View Post
    its our nature to fear... sometimes we look at things differently the way others dont... commitment is such a great task that lies ahead when you are willing to get involve with someone.. thats why before getting youself into something you should be able to analyze the consequence and aftermath of your decisions, and how much are you willing to stand on those decisions... giving false hopes simply means that the guy is just playing around, and seldom it is so hard to tell when is a guy telling the truth or not..
    as for the fear, never get into something when you are not ready.. never just give a try when deep inside you are hesitant... only matured guys never fear commitment... maturity is not age or years it is the wisdom and knowlege gained and applied all those years... be reminded that only a few, has aged with maturity... many pretended to be...



    bow mode ra jud ko ani.... grabe ka vhan hehehe murag mature nsad kaau ka manabi duh
    nanu man jud d ay na ang guys hadlok man mo commit?? tsk.. fear.. why do you fear? d ba it's a gamble, a risk we all have to take. what will happen if most of us will fear commitment? my principle is, when in a relationship, i always see to it i give my all.. my commitment and everything, if it does not work out, then maybe it was not meant to be. doesnt matter if i was or i am hurt, what matters is that i loved, and i have loved with all that i have and with all that i am. after everything i wont have regrets because i can tell myself well, i give it a shot and i give it a good fight...
    para sa ako lang hnuon ni

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    Quote Originally Posted by maitoots View Post
    bow mode ra jud ko ani.... grabe ka vhan hehehe murag mature nsad kaau ka manabi duh
    nanu man jud d ay na ang guys hadlok man mo commit?? tsk.. fear.. why do you fear? d ba it's a gamble, a risk we all have to take. what will happen if most of us will fear commitment? my principle is, when in a relationship, i always see to it i give my all.. my commitment and everything, if it does not work out, then maybe it was not meant to be. doesnt matter if i was or i am hurt, what matters is that i loved, and i have loved with all that i have and with all that i am. after everything i wont have regrets because i can tell myself well, i give it a shot and i give it a good fight...
    para sa ako lang hnuon ni

    weeee.... bow mode sad ko nimo....hehehe.. btaws.... risk, but how far are guys going to risk.. for guys who have risk and never tried analizing the effects probably they will do the same all over again but for guys like me who has been to several relaonship taking the risks and trial and errors which later proved to be error will be cautious everytime we get into something... thats why we fear to be committed specially when we have not moved on and when things are not right in that moment..
    its not really fear its just getting things the right timming... once it happens, everything will be smooth flowing, if not then for sure then there will be only small problems to be addressed upon..
    weeee... risk, we give our everything when we are so sure already of ourselves... and our partner... we dont risk when we see nothing but air castles... but the moment reality thrives in then we give it a chance- great moment to give some risk...
    i am matured but a child by heart....weeeee

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    Quote Originally Posted by vahnhelsing View Post
    weeee.... bow mode sad ko nimo....hehehe.. btaws.... risk, but how far are guys going to risk.. for guys who have risk and never tried analizing the effects probably they will do the same all over again but for guys like me who has been to several relaonship taking the risks and trial and errors which later proved to be error will be cautious everytime we get into something... thats why we fear to be committed specially when we have not moved on and when things are not right in that moment..
    its not really fear its just getting things the right timming... once it happens, everything will be smooth flowing, if not then for sure then there will be only small problems to be addressed upon..
    weeee... risk, we give our everything when we are so sure already of ourselves... and our partner... we dont risk when we see nothing but air castles... but the moment reality thrives in then we give it a chance- great moment to give some risk...
    i am matured but a child by heart....weeeee

    ka toinks sad nmo vhan oi mosulod d ay ka sa relationship bsan dli ka sure?? hahaha sauns
    me?? i like man gud life nga spontaneous btaw. i am not the person nga planned out kaau ang this and that. life is an everyday adventure for me pero lain2x man jud ang tao gud hehe mao bitaw gtawag na cya ug trial and error kay u need to try pa jud before you can tell if it's right or wrong kay kng makahebaw palang unta ta daan then dli na unta ta mokanta broken hearted me
    dli man gud ko hilig fling and played around sad, usik2 lang na cla sa akong precious time hehehe
    i have been through a lot too.. and one thing i've learned is that now is always the right time and here is always the right place

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    weee... mai, i said i was that type of guy before you would go for trail and error but i realized lately that i wasnt getting where i wanted to be and not getting the type of relationship that i should get into... regarding trial and error, most people would only get into such moment when they can sense that there is something to look forward to or see that is worthy doing so.. maybe a sense of security.... as for me, i dont want to get into a relationship when i sense danger or somethings wrong..there are risk that we take but we should be sure of our selves how far we are willing to go...
    your are right how trial and error is practiced but i guess it would be much better if you try a person without being involved with him/her in an intimate realtionship... it is much better to be a friend first with the person so that you will see how much he/she is worthy of the risk..

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    i ddnt mean man oi nga mosugot sad dayn bsan wla pa ka sweto sa person.. hala kuyaw heheh
    one has to prove man pd oi that they are worth taking the risk before ko mag trial and error.. hay.. prehas rman cguro ta baruganan vhan, lahi2 lang ang pagka explain buh...

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