Will You Marry Me?

[acecrystal]

Hello, need some inputs... this is not my story but a situation of somebody else..dont know but i know for suer someone could relate..

heres the story:
well, 7 years nani sila nga couple. And it happens this guy melakaw somewhere else. and the gurl, dinhi lang gihapon sa pinas. nag communicate pa sila, emails, call and text. Just then one morning, there's this LADY nag call ani na call na.. HER BF and this LADY magpapakasal na coz she was being impregnated by the guy daw. 7 years na sila and to think walay ka hint hint ning gurl nga while away naa diay lain iyang bf. So to make the story short, nahugno ang earth sa gurl. Gi confront nya ang guy if tinood ba daw kono.And so gi angkon sa guy nga mao lagi na tinood nga nakabuntis xa.But he never ask the 3rd party for marriage except her. As in gihagad sa guy ni si girl nga magpakasal sila despite the fact that nag exist this 3rd party nga buntis.
The question is, is it possible sa mga guys nga manghagad og kasal where in fact,nakabuntis xag lain. i mean,how could the guy do such thing, is it love for the girl, what about the 3rd party?

if u were the girl, dawaton paba kaha nimo ang guy despite the fact nga nakabuntisna xag lain. makatulog kaha ka knowing nga naay anak ang lalaki.?

though in love daw wala man daw konoy perfect nga lalaki. but magpabilin pa ba gihapon martyr ang gurl. because love nya ang guy?

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let's rationalize ..and evaluate..

the scenario exactly exemplifies what had happened to my cousin.... the relationship was only around more than 2 yrs.,she was assigned somewhere in luzon for quite some time...sooner she found out,the bf impregnated another bitch,that she kept on demanding that my cousin must leave the guy....

she was asked to marry him..thinking that marriage could be the best escape! but she opted to end everything and move on eventually!

it's one best decision she made....hard to trust a cheater who had done a damage as big as that!

[treize]

she trusted her bf that much. she knows his whereabouts but ang wala lang nasulti sa lalaki nga naa diay xay gurl lain. ang babae pa giingon sa iyaha. The question that keeps boggling her mind is that.. WHY daw cge ug panghagad og kasal sa iyaha ang guy.....

it's very simple the guy doesnt want to loose that gurl.

[akosabni]

i think the guy is still in love with her GF, and if her GF would take him back, she should be prepared for the worst, 'coz the 3rd party would not take this sitting down ... she (the GF) can have a hint, when the 3rd party made call to informed her that she is having her BF's baby and planning on marrying her BF

[candy_ytal]

if ako naa sa situation sa girl, dli nako mgpakasal niya oi.. besides, naka cheat naman d ay xa nako maski ka2 uyab pami or while we were away, how much more kng minyo nami.. and I don't think it's love, 'coz if it was love in the first place, the cheating and the pregnancy and the 3rd party wouldn't happen. Dli nako mgpakabiling martyr, bahala siya magsakit xa a2.,.. iya nanang problema, iya na barogan.. xa ang nisulod ana, dapat iya jd na panindigan.. and besides, babay pd baya ko, I know how it feels nga byaan, especially sa times na kailangan jd nimu ang guy kay what is buntis bya ang 3rd party girl, so mangusog sad jud xa na dapat dd2 mgpakasal ang laki niya.. and kng ako naman lng inganaon, ahw, di nako mgpaka martyr, husto na tawn. enough na ang sakit nga nag cheat siya ug naka pabuntis sya... mgmahay xa nganu iya na gi buhat

[raizene]

Here's a quick story about my parents. My mom and dads bf/gf relationship ran for about a month when they decided to get married. That time naa si daddy ka live in nga lain and buntis pa jud ang girl. It's like iya gidaganan ang lain girl and nagpakasal sa ako mom. As years passed by chixboi lang gihapon ako daddy, martyr sa tanang martyr ako mommy. I give her my hands down. Just last year my mom was diagnosed with cancer, my dad cried. Kita jud ko kay ako gud nagbalita niya. The whole time nga na operahan ako mom ug naa sya sa hospital ako dad ang nagbantay. My mom said, tanan sala sa imo daddy ako siya gipasaylo kay nakita nako nga Love jud diay ko niya after sa tanan niyang gibuhat.

What i could say is, There is temptation. Ma girl or boy ma tintal jud. It depends on how eager we are to change. Maybe in reality the guy really love the girl. Love is a gamble. I know these days lisod na magtrust sa guys but if maybe kung kita girls mag do sa right thing, to give them our compassion, our love, our patience... then maybe the guy will realize their mistakes and change for the better.

makahilak man sad ta ani...nice shared story sis

[GOthique]

Here's a quick story about my parents. My mom and dads bf/gf relationship ran for about a month when they decided to get married. That time naa si daddy ka live in nga lain and buntis pa jud ang girl. It's like iya gidaganan ang lain girl and nagpakasal sa ako mom. As years passed by chixboi lang gihapon ako daddy, martyr sa tanang martyr ako mommy. I give her my hands down. Just last year my mom was diagnosed with cancer, my dad cried. Kita jud ko kay ako gud nagbalita niya. The whole time nga na operahan ako mom ug naa sya sa hospital ako dad ang nagbantay. My mom said, tanan sala sa imo daddy ako siya gipasaylo kay nakita nako nga Love jud diay ko niya after sa tanan niyang gibuhat.

What i could say is, There is temptation. Ma girl or boy ma tintal jud. It depends on how eager we are to change. Maybe in reality the guy really love the girl. Love is a gamble. I know these days lisod na magtrust sa guys but if maybe kung kita girls mag do sa right thing, to give them our compassion, our love, our patience... then maybe the guy will realize their mistakes and change for the better.

wow.. at least sis ur dad tried his best to make it up to ur mom... hahays..how i wish ingon ani mga guys...

[bugztronic]

kana kay nag cheated ang laki sa unang uyab niya, so dili mahimo nga biyaan niya iya responsibilidad sa iya napa buntisan, grabe naman sab kung dili ka maka realize ang gurl nga gibinuangan na siya..

[ainz002]

there's this 7-year itch in a relationship. most couple i know after dating for 7 years
usually ends up apart.
if by any chance the 1st and 2nd persona decided to get married, they should first deal with the issues they are facing and even the past ones.
They should be able to resolve their hearts and minds for inevitably when left unattended, these issues
would haunt the marriage and might destroy it.
Unless things have not been well talked of, they should not get married.

[rea`]

--- they said long engagements daw end nowhere. most of the people who decide to marry (and are capable of marrying) are formally into each other for just months or a few years. not long term ones. not unless there are heavy factors that hinder them to marry early in their stage of relationship.

[Tirong-say]

Wala bitaw perfect, pero makapili pa gihapon ug almost perfect.................he-he