based on his situation, wa daw sila nag talk for years and now the girl has suddenly contacted him upon seeing his new gf in friendster. mo congratulate ra na. no big deal. and he wouldnt know the "other" motive kung di pod motubag. kung lain jud motive then he can always talk to her frankly and then avoid her. but karon kay wa pa man gani nagkastorya, it's premature to say naay motive ang girl.
i say there is a mature way of handling situations.