Do not replicate yourself from your gf/bf ex

[elaimakulai]

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agree ko nimo gamatz... hehehehe lahi lahi gyud ang taw sa... ako di ko ganahan makahibaw sa past sa current nmo kay basin bati diay di ba? pero osahay mka feel ka ug curiosity nga "unsa kahay past nya sa?" hehehehehhehehe

ang taw libog.. hehehehehehe


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mas maayo man sad kabalo ka sa past sa imong current sir and naa ra sad nimu kung imu i accept...
pero kung love jud nimu ang person, you will not care sa iyang past

[gamatoy]

agree ko nimo gamatz... hehehehe lahi lahi gyud ang taw sa... ako di ko ganahan makahibaw sa past sa current nmo kay basin bati diay di ba? pero osahay mka feel ka ug curiosity nga "unsa kahay past nya sa?" hehehehehhehehe

ang taw libog.. hehehehehehe


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aw if ma curios ka sa iyang past if nahanka naa ramansad na sa tawo if nahan jdu ka\makabalo sa past,,pero dapat if mo ask ka sa past sa ex dpaat jud andam ka unsay mga past nya ug tanan iyang gi buhat s apast ug s aex..make sure dili ka masakitan ana inig hisgot kay bang,,,away jud labas

[gamatoy]

mas maayo man sad kabalo ka sa past sa imong current sir and naa ra sad nimu kung imu i accept...
pero kung love jud nimu ang person, you will not care sa iyang past

lai libog kaau ka ai..hahaha ingon ka dili na maau maghisgot ug past nya karon nahanka maka balo sa past...asa man jud na ana lai?

[esprugodoys]

well basically if you want to get yourself into a "happily ever after" relationship, part of the ritual before the sweet part is to make yourself free (fully moved on that is). getting into those kind of conversation during fights is commonly a sign that one has not fully moved on yet from his / her ex. far more worse than that is making the partner as what they call as "PANAKIP BUTAS" which is totally unacceptable.

bottom line here is that if you want to have a healthy relationship with your partner.... EX's are OUT of the picture. OUT OUT OUT. just my two cents worth. ^_^

[tOtskie]

much better man gd if mu share ang gurl sa iyang past( para nako gud.. if mu share na ang gurl
sa ila past.. ready na siyang buhiang ang thing of the past and she's ready to face the new chapter of her life..char2x bah..hehe and its way much better kaysa iya
i.kept secret nimo diba??). Actually open minded man gud q w/ regards ani... usahay man gud kitang
guys mas i.value man nato ato insecurities kaysa reason gd.. mao sad na ang sayop nako sauna ba..
hehe mao as much as possible i'll try to hear her side para bias free ang akong judgement..
1 reason sad nga nahan ko i.share niya ang past niya is becoz nahan ko if naa siya mga secrets nga
that wud b a threat sa amo relationship in the future nahan ko sa iyaha mag gikan kaysa sa laing taw pa nako mahibaw.an ba.. actually it's an issue of how to put ur trust on her lang jd.. mas makasalig man ko sa girl gud if makahibaw ko sa iyang past... hinuon i respect other guys on their syd pud

[gamatoy]

well basically if you want to get yourself into a "happily ever after" relationship, part of the ritual before the sweet part is to make yourself free (fully moved on that is). getting into those kind of conversation during fights is commonly a sign that one has not fully moved on yet from his / her ex. far more worse than that is making the partner as what they call as "PANAKIP BUTAS" which is totally unacceptable.

bottom line here is that if you want to have a healthy relationship with your partner.... EX's are OUT of the picture. OUT OUT OUT. just my two cents worth. ^_^

i gree with your opinion mr.jamil,,u have a point,,,,it should be out of the topic jud ang past so that no arguements happen.....

[gamatoy]

much better man gd if mu share ang gurl sa iyang past( para nako gud.. if mu share na ang gurl
sa ila past.. ready na siyang buhiang ang thing of the past and she's ready to face the new chapter of her life..char2x bah..hehe and its way much better kaysa iya
i.kept secret nimo diba??). Actually open minded man gud q w/ regards ani... usahay man gud kitang
guys mas i.value man nato ato insecurities kaysa reason gd.. mao sad na ang sayop nako sauna ba..
hehe mao as much as possible i'll try to hear her side para bias free ang akong judgement..
1 reason sad nga nahan ko i.share niya ang past niya is becoz nahan ko if naa siya mga secrets nga
that wud b a threat sa amo relationship in the future nahan ko sa iyaha mag gikan kaysa sa laing taw pa nako mahibaw.an ba.. actually it's an issue of how to put ur trust on her lang jd.. mas makasalig man ko sa girl gud if makahibaw ko sa iyang past... hinuon i respect other guys on their syd pud

what if the past of ur gf is worst,like bati kaau and maka discourage,ganahan pakaha ka mainaw if bati kaau ang past?dapat jud na huna2xon b4 mo open sa past relationship....ana lang na sya..

[isaac95]

@Isaac95: yeah girls jud btaw kasagaran ana pero dili tanan... naa man sad mga boys nga ing-ana and kasuway sad ko....bati jud icompare ka sa ex oi di mo grow nu relationship mayra sad wa mi nagkadayon ato!lelz



OT: akong Sokolet Isaac hap! hehehe

kay kung nagkadayon pamo sa imo bf aw kada-away ninyo maapil gyud na ang mga "past" nimo gyud... kung e-compare man gani ka sa iya ex aw imo ingnon imo bf nga "mas sexy ug gwapa man sad ko sa imo ex" ....

OT: SERG's sokolet, BOBOT, ug Goody Goody lang ako ihatag nimo!

[esprugodoys]

at some point, i do agree with green. it's ok but as long as it is done in a healthy manner. but like i said both parties should be fully moved on from their past because if one is not, most likely it will only trigger arguements or even gaps which would result to unlikely situations in the future.

setting ex's as an example or role model for current partners can be delivered in a million ways at which will not cause any bad effects on both parties.. that is if one is really persistent on making a perfect partner. i thank you. ^_^

[hanz]

kung muslti man gani xa nga "mas mau pa akong EX kay ingon ani, etc..." Ani ai sakto jud nga imong itubag, "IN ANA MAN DIAY IMONG EX, MAS OK MAN DIAY XA, NGANUNG gaBULAG MAN MO" hahaha

PEACE...!