just wanna share and know your opinions

[shizzle013]

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haha lolz

ambot ngano uie...di pa lang jud ko nahan magka kami....daghan what ifs sa ako mind....

[bahiista]

then i should i say yaw lang kaau dugaya...i think nahan gyud ka nya not only as a friend but more than that...hesitant lang ka coz of your presumptions.
sugta na before V-day oi hehehehehe

[shizzle013]

toinkz.....ambot uie di man jud ko xure sa ako filings.....perti baya jud nko liboga ug utok....naa man tah tym nka tink ko na sugton nko xa but then i changed my mind....

di lang sah siguro jud karon....we'll see lang after graduation....hapit na bitaw pud march.....hehehe

[bahiista]

^_^ bitaw..major decision bya na...bad me for rushing things...
maau gyud na imo ghimo...the bottom line is sugton ra man diay ghapon
hekhekhekhek

[shizzle013]

hahaha wala ko ni ingon na sugton jud nako xa after grad.....tan.awon lang gud kung unsay changes after grad....im sure mo uli man pud siya sa ila province ana....kay di bya pud xa tga cebu....so we'll see from there.....

[bahiista]

Agree!!! :d

[joshbonz]

this is a case of a mistaken identity.. err.. relationship diay..

I'm pretty sure deep down in your heart.. you know really what you would like him to be.. as friends lang jud . The fact that you're not pretty much comfortable going out with him nga kamo rang duha goes to show that you like him more to hang out together with your circle of friends and not both of you lang jud.

You may be move by his warm and caring attitude towards you.. wrong signals and actions often times can give wrong impressions and thoughts.. That is what's happening now, your group of friends can sense that you have something going on with both of you. And I think he is not denying it (if somebody is asking him if kamo na ba). You like him because he is warm, jolly and fun to be with and all about him is fuzzy.. excuse my terminology lang.. BUT!

You have to stop lang sa.. stop for a moment and think things over. Do you really like be where you are right now?? I know you are happy with him being as he is. But you have to be honest with all that you are and with all that you do. Especially with yourself. You have dealth with him already telling him your honest opinion lang nga you're more comfortable as being a friend to him lang. Stop it there lang. Don't try to allow him to treat you out on dates or in movies nga kamo rang duha.

The more you give some little space between you and him, the more he will understand nga your better off as friends lang jud.. nothing more and nothing less and the more you are true to yourself and what your real intention are with him, the more he it will absorb in his mind nga its better as friends nalang jud.

that is, if you really want him to be lang sad. The coutside is yours to start.

Good luck

CHEERS!

[shizzle013]

wow very well said....thanks for all your opinions and advices....it really made me think....

well, wala pa man sad jud ko ni sugot na laag na kami ra 2....except lang anang naa mi skul den break nako kay kami ra man jud na 2 mag kuyg kay uban namo frens naa pa man klas.....

siguro as of now friends lang jud...i'll stick to that decision.....until im finally sure of what i really feel....

[cougar_apsinian]

inday shizzle013...ok rana magdate mo basta ayaw lang pod kumpyansa...unya kung dad-on ka niya sa mabugnaw nga dapit....ilock gyud na imu bataan...ayaw dayon ug isurrender ang bandera sa bataan kay peligro...samot na basin sira na. kung andam man pod gani ka mosurrender sa imu bataan...ayaw lang kalimot ug tumar ug condom. friendly advise lang.

remember pod sa bag-o na mga news karon...Ang Nikkei Garden Hotel ug North Reclamation Area.

[hunt99]

i have this friend.....at first la jud ko nag expect na mgka close friends jud mi....di man gud mi ka batch den di pa jud mi ka level kay kini siya ug iya mga friends kay mga richness man gud....

then it all started kadto nag duty2 na mi....though mana iya duty mo stay jud gihapon na siya and mo tabang2 namo....hinoon duol ra man pud ila didto.....mao didto nag start na nagka bonding na jud mi...lingaw man sad gud siya ka kuyg, joker, naa jud sense of humor though most of the times wala jud ka sense2 but still there was never a dull moment with him....

though naa times maka sense ko na nahan xa nako but ako ra pud na g.ignore.....kay sa ako mind ing.ani lang jud ni siya sa iya mga friends....then sige na pud mi text2 until one time ni sulti na jud na siya na nahan siya nako...but ato na time nahan pa man ko sa ko ex and di pa jud ko comfy niya as more than friends....so ako siya g.ingnan na friends ra jud mi...but then tubag pud xa ug mo wait jud daw xa kay love jud daw au ko niya....hai nku gahi jud kaau ug ulo....

so mao toh...cge gihapon mi kuyog laag with our friends, kaon2, watch movies, play games.....then i thought nawala na and di na xa mo wait.....till ni balik na pud na iya text2 na sweet and caring kaayo....and at one time i almost fall for him.....murag na ganahan na jud ko niya but then di man pud ko nahan maguba amo friendship.....and tingali kini ako na feel kay temporary lang coz i got used na naa jud xa always...so as always ako na pud xa g.turn down....pero saon ta mn persistent jud siya.....during sa ako breaks kuyogan jud ko niya bisag wala na xa klas....and mo wait jud na xa mahuman ako klas.....

pero karon friend ra jud ako tan.aw niya....though naa times na nahan jud ko sa feeling na mo akbay na siya nako....ambot nalang jud....nahan pud ko na naa siya always sa amo laag....murag na anad nlng jud ko na naa siya....sa skul gud kay mag think nlng na mga tau na uyab mi....ambot uie pro nahan jud niya as a friend....

then karon sige jud mi text2....unya mura jud na xa ug uyab mo act usahay.....grabeh kau mo wori ug mo care nko....then mahibong nana xa kung d nako ka reply.....karon man gud grabeh na kaau xa ka showy...mo i love you na gud na xa sa text....usahay mag lisod kog turn down niya kay mahadlok ko magpa lau xa....nahan nmn gud ko kung unsa mi karon...happy ra pud ko na friends mi....but then ambot ngno naa times murag mag jelly ko kung mo tok na xa bout iya ex....like kadto ni ana xa sa isa namo ka friend na gmingaw na jud xa ato iya ex.....

sige pud na xa manghagad na watch daw mi together ug movie...but ambot lang, d jud ko comfy kung kami lang 2...mas nahan jud ko naa amo other friends....everytime mo ask na xa ana ako lang jud ipa agi ug joke....

la lng ni share lang ko ani...kay naa man gud times ma confused ko kung unxa na jud ni ako na feel pra sa iya....

additional details i forgot:
mag jelly2 pud na xa kung mo tok ko bout other guys or ako ex or naa mkig txt nko......iya dating usahay kay mura na ug uyab mi.....di pud ko nahan kay mura ko ug ma pressured....

am ako pa nimo sis ky kasagaran lang ha karong panahona laki man moy mag binaong gyud sa babae pero di tanan kanang ang question lang ky naka gus2 naman kaha ka niya og sogod try to know about him more ky naa bayay uban laki maayo lang sa sogod kanang know his background and information ky basin na-a siyay anomaliya baron pero kung 100% sure naka na ok siya na mo love, care, comfort, og help nimo and has good attitudes, moves, style towards nimo og mo respetar siya nimo onya naka trust naka niya ky tinarong gyud na iyaha ky malipayon sad ka niya so go on perog di pa ka 100% sure ayaw sa