32 Emotional Signs That He/SHe is Cheating

[gangrene]

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Marriage is not an assurance to be a successful person. Of course everybody wants to be happy. Don't give yourself 100% to a person you love. The reality is you have to be on top always para dili ka mabilin. Keep urself busy making money!

Â* Â* Â*i guess we're talking about cheating in relationships here, not success... and i don't think it's a good advice kung mo ingon ka don't give 100% of your self to the person you love, especially kung married na mo, kay the fact na nagpakasal mo dapat ready na ka to give your full committment... ani nalang, what wud you feel kaha if the person you married won't give you her full committment or 100% of herself

[lost]

definitely worth the read...

some of the things on the list, i believe are quite normal in relationships but if my partner would exceed 10 items on the list, i'd say he's a goner.

[Tamblot]

in my point of view...

1. i dont think so. its a negative perspective. i mean, oh come on, if somebody becomes more attentive to his/her partner's needs is already a suspect of cheating.

2. Gifts. Thats nice. Its either he/she is cheating or he/she is planning to ask for something.

3 . pwede matranslate sa bisaya. I can't understand. ha ha ha!

4. if this is referred to ladies, then most probably, she's on her red flag days. for men, i bet its something questionable.

5. To start with the end in mind. sounds familiar.

6. refer to #4

7. which is better, to wait for somebody to start the fire or to start the fire instead?

8. maybe it no longer plays the tone that he/she wants. remember shakespeare? "if music be the food of love...."

9. self-esteem. its second to lack of self-descipline.

10. he/she is not a self centered person.

11. he/she just want what is best for you (according to him/her)

12. he/she is hyper-sensitive.

13. he/she is focused with work. maybe he/she is workaholic. or maybe he/she is havin a big problem at work. do ask.

14. he/she is doin something inside that he/she is not doin before. from time to time, take a peek. in my case, never that it was locked nor even closed. one problem though, if you are downloading, everyone around could enjoy the essence of your downloads. g what i mean!!

15. you have already exceeded the expectation.

16. is it the only way to convey the feelings? i mean, its better not to hear it than to hear it and get a different thing.

17. he/she may be suffering from #9

18. this is getting more serious.

19. its just okay if he/she spends time with friends together with you. but sometimes, men become boys only to go home men again. same with girls.

20. both of you lack planning. should i say family planning?

21. he/she is cold. there is something that was left unresolved.

22. talkin alright. ask yourself. am i still interesting? making love...am i still interested?

23. refer to #10

24. for a change maybe

25. have your partner talk to a psych

26. He is becoming introvert. refer to #25.

27. try something new. position, location, time.

28. if its him, better if he mentions a woman's name. worst if its a man.

29. i've read this story: the wife sleeping with her husband in the middle of the night suddenly wake up from a dream and shouted,"hide! my husband is coming!!" the husband immediately jumped out of the window. When he get to his senses in the garden down below where he fell, he said, "damn! i'm the husband." Who's guilty?

30. something is wrong with your social interaction.

31. aint you that too nosy?

32. refer to #25

In summary, everyday, we are given the choice on how to see and interpret things around us. It's up to us to either have a positive or a negative perception.

Have a nice day!!

[lestat1116]

you'll never know the person is cheating on you until u caught the person cheating.... person can change.. maybe u think he/shes cheating but naa di lain gi buhat.. presure sa work and other stuff... everything changes.. even marriage..

[kula]

d ko karelate pud ani dah...heheheheh

[cutieara]

i agree w/ u lestat1116..

[mina]

my husband is guilty!... 28 out of 32 counts.... and he just broke up with me last wk. maybe he can't handle the guilt anymore... tsk tsk tsk, i gave him too many chances and he wasted every single one of them... he wanted out, fine! it's his loss anyway...

men are polygamous in nature but hey, if your man leaves you, it really is his loss.. that's the spirit!!!

agree 100%! By the way I like your avatar, too funny!

anywho... here's a link about how to tell if a guy is about to cheat or is already cheating http://www.loveshout.com/articles/view.asp?aid=13

[splendid moonlight]

some of those 32 signs might just be true. but if it's hard to remember them, we'll know when our partners are cheating when we start to feel something "funny." most of the time, though, we realize too late what that funny feeling meant. "i knew it!" is the common phrase when that happens.

[cottoncandy]

nice one... ! hehe

The prob is,Â* if those signs point to your hubby/bf cheating... are we going to GO and LET GO or STAY IN DENIAL? Coz most of the time, if you really love the guy... you try to find justifications in everything he does.. making his wrong deeds appear right.

But whether you choose to leave or stay with him/her and try to work things out,and start anew...i guess we have to remember that deciding the wrong thing [wether to leave or stay] at the outset can make a bad situation worse and even worst.Â* It takes a lot of pondering....

[Addicted2]