How can you not hate the sinner?

[gcc4426]

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think of the time when you were younger and did something really awful and hurt someone. looking back at that time now, you feel shame and remorse, right? YOU were someone who had poor insight, no enlightenment. it's not right to keep on feeling the shame. somehow you've got to forgive yourself.

you can extend the same forgiveness to this person who has wronged your family. HE is unenlightened; his ACTIONS are hurtful. we can see a bit of distinction here. keep that distinction to give your heart a rest from hating someone.

saying is one thing, doing is another man gud te. sa akoa lng ha, lisod man gud nang "love ur enemies" ug "forgive" labi na kung naa kay grabeng pagdumot anang tawhana.

pag unsa nimog cope up ana te? asa mi magsugod kung buhaton man gane namo imong tambag? ^^

[esoteric]

KITA MAN TANAN SINNERS na inherit gyud nato ang original sin from adam and eve..so don't you dare label someone a sinner ok/

[hunt99]

dba it's said that "hate the sin and not the sinner"...?

but unsaon man na., mu.hate man jud ka sa sinner.., especially if what he has done can ruin ur family...,? that u cant even feel any remorse from him..,? that para niya what he did to your family is just okay when he knows that for you super dili okay iya gbuhat?

how can you not hate the sinner?

i am trying to be a good person.., a good daughter.., a good sister..,

but what he has done to the family is bringing disgrace to each and everyone of us..,

just forgive and forget it past is past most important is your present but di siya ma change liky niya then usahay ma soko man gyud ta it's up to you kung mo bawos ka or dili pero mo forgive ka don't liky na niya pa solti-an siya nano na ing-ana siya onsay iyang reason na wala man kaha siya hilabti nano mang hilabot man siya ninyo