having someone near and far..

[babyred86]

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i have the same probz pd...
asa man jd kha ko..
ni far?.. nga wai klaro,,, pero saksakan akong love niya...
or si near... klaro.,, pero mura'g d jd nako kaya mu commit.. pero di lng ko nahan mawagtang xa...

be contented?.. unsaon man nah?..
mag lisod ko anah..

c near kai aware xa nga naa koi far... pero pursigido man jd xa oie.. wa koi ma hemz...
and far has no idea about this..

[d`monyita]

pursigido? reverse the situation...how would u feel if the "far" had an affair?

[hime_angel]

i also have someone far and someone near. but the near dili kami we just both like each other. but the far is the one's i had invested a lot with. so try to weigh things. i know long distance relationship is hard because you cant hold each other and say do what lovers can do. but nonetheless if the relationship will survive until you both can stay and live together, then that is a relationship truly made in heaven.

good luck dear

[chilakang]

its not easy to choose, but u need to. we really dont know which is which but at least u will learn to stand with ur decision.

[miguelboom]

Ms. hot_chick, di unta ko gust mo-share pero bug-at man gud sa akong feelings...

Ang akong situation is like yours, perhaps I'm the near guy and ikaw ang akong beloved special friend.

Kay ako man sad gud kay nakahibawo na nuon ko nga naa syay uyab nga tu-a sa layu, her name was Theresa and they were for a long time na and me mga months palang mi ni Theresa then we do the things that lovers mostly do. Sharing time, dating, moments, sharing, affection...
I think I love her, the way she is, she is not beautiful but she is pretty. Taas pa ang oras, samtang dug-ol pa mi, pa-initon na namo daan ang among mga kasing-kasing. Total ulitawo pa bitaw ko og dalaga pud sya, so ok ra kung duha man imong uyab. Total sa altar sa simbahan usa naman lang bitaw, pero kung paminaw mo didto namo padulong, pagtuon na og usa lng ka uyab.

Tambag ra pud na sa mga katigulangan og gikan sa akong mama ang uban. Just an advice dear!

Hehe! Ms. hot_chick, choose that near guy. If he is hiding any secrets that might hurt you, just feel free to accept and that would really make you feel good.

[Siobhan]

ay bad ana oi... madugay wala na jud kay mapili an ana....

[madredrive]

choose what is right.. choose what is good... and pray sis..

[giannitech]

cheating is a sin!

[hot_chick]

unya kabalo c near nga naa kay far? basta sis d na jud pwede dunganon ang duha. take it from CL ky been there na kuno. hehehe...

nyways, ayaw dali2x ug decide. u might end up magbasol. huna2xa jud na ug tarong. kaw ra jud ang maka-weigh sa kabug-aton sa duha in your heart.

near knows at the first place nga naa ko uyab.. im weighing things here.. i know naa isa sa ilaha masakitan.. but i have to choose kung kinsa jud if near or far.. maybe maka dcyd ko ana kung maabot na c far.. coz as of now lisud pa kau.. coz c near man gud ang naa pirmi sa ako side.. and near loves me.. and maybe love na nako cya.. but im not so sure if love b gyud ni kay basin ug na blinded lang ko coz layu man ako uyab..

[hot_chick]

...i've been to that situation jud sis.. as in same jud ta.. love kaayo nako ang c far pero naa koy na like sa near.. pero i would never as in never replace my far.. and i was selfish then too.. and u know what happened? ..after nibalik c far, and learned about my feelings with near and my getting close to him, and for using the excuse that he was there when u wer away made me lose him.. .. maybe we have different reasons for y we like the nearer person, but take it from me gurl.. as early as now, chose between the two.. if ul stick to become faithful to the one u love or chose someone hum u only like but hus always there for u at times that u need the person u love for someone u really love? .. the feeling for u for now is really confusing, since the feelings for the one u love hu is far is somewhat nakuhaan na kay lagi layo na xa, pero think thnk think jud if u can face the consequence of losing one of them or worse losing both..

as of now cnt dcyd pa gyud kinsa nila.. dli pud ko gusto nga mag regret ko sa ako choice.. mybe if both of them near na nako.. thats d time i can dcyd..