Napa ka sa among puder!

[r3roble]

there are many reasons why they did this to you...
one way to know the real reason is to confront them in an obedient way...
talk to them, and open to them what you want.. prove to them and assure them that if you will do this nothing bad will happen to you...

i'm also the eldest and our parents think highly of us.. our only difference siguro is that laki ko, baye ka so more protective sila nimo...

[-CL-]

there are many reasons why they did this to you...
one way to know the real reason is to confront them in an obedient way...
talk to them, and open to them what you want.. prove to them and assure them that if you will do this nothing bad will happen to you...

i'm also the eldest and our parents think highly of us.. our only difference siguro is that laki ko, baye ka so more protective sila nimo...

..thanx fOr the advIces kuya.. lahI rajUd kOng bayI ka.. dAghAn kaAYog bawAl, perO kasabOt rman sAd kO.. eVentuallY ma-sEttlE rAsad nI.. Sa paGkakrOn lIsud lAng jud kay nApa kO sa sTage nA nEed jud ang UndeRstAndIng sA bOth partIes.. haiz!

..kamO? Unsa inyOng ExperienCes ani?

[Soul_Captive]

@CL
Mo react ko ha ky ana man ka na lahi ra jd kun baye..hehehe
Btaw, you're right..I can notice that ky ang ako mga manghod na lalake mas grabe pa og freedom compared nko..Pero, we have to think into consideration sad ang gihuna2 sa atong parents..This I realized when I was already serving as the guardians of my younger siblings pgstart nila og college dri sa city since my mom is in the province, napunta sako ang responsibility over them..And honestly, di jd lalim ang mghuna2 ka kun asa na imo family member at certain times of the day na dapat nana cla sa house..
I have also been very focused on my studies when I was in school pero makalaag japon every now and then..One thing I learned is to think the way my parents think..That way, I am able to understand them better so mapasabot pod nako cla og tarong sa akong side..I guess, it's all about proper communication..Eldest pod ko sa amoa and babaye at that, so it was not a very easy process for us to reach a certain level of maturity in dealing with the situation..I talked with them about my concerns, and they open up about what they think..Nag compromise mi..Now, I am still under sa ilang poder, but when it comes to decisions, I make my decisions..But maybe it is also a plus factor na mangita pod jd ko sa ilang advices..They can feel that I'm taking their thoughts into consideration, so kahibawo cla na ilang worries are also addressed in whatever my decisions are..
Mao na xa akong experience sis..I'm also in my early 20's and am able to balance being the eldest in the brood (which comes with really huge responsibilities) and being a young spirit and having fun at the same time..

[entot]

soul captive.... char... pang MMK etetch... i understand....

[Motownkid]

pag chur soul_captive oi..

[jntio]

suway lng ug layas sa inyo

[-CL-]

@soul: ..bitaw sis, kasabot man jud ko sa point sakong parents, kay kung wala sab akong mama sa amo, labi na katong nagduty xa sa layo for a week, then kami ra jud mag-suon sa balay, magworry jud ko kung dugay kauli akong mga manghud nga laki, labi na nga dagko nman gud sila, then lisud na bya ron ai kay matrippingan nya ba sa mga hubog or adik.. la pa bya tawn ni mga alamag sa mga ing-ana.. mga bata pa tawn hiskul pa..

..ok nman sad ko karon sis.. naka-realize lang pud ko sa akong sayop ug nganung nahigpit ug kalit akong parents, hehe.. obsessive compulsive gud ko nga pagkataw.. if ma-wili ko anang butanga d jud na nako undangan hangtod d ko mapul-an sama aning istorya.net, hehe.. then d na jud bitaw maayo nga subra-an ra pud, hehe..

..pero mao japon ni akong concern sis oi.. d ko kadali2x ug laag karon kay d ko pwd pa buntagan, heheh.. ..ako nlang jud nathink nga solution ani kay mangita ug trabaho sa cebu ug mag-boarding hauz.. hehe.. maynta pud sugtan, toinx!.. hai...

[Soul_Captive]

@motownkid
Saba dha, tolits!Dukol ka ron

@CL
Aw pangita sa daan trabaho then pananghid daun..Di na guro na kabalibad ky sayang pod ang job dba..Btaw, that's your chance to prove your maturity to them..Go for it!

[marshie]

hmm..ana judng mga prents dai..lisud sabton.. pero behnd those things,naa na mga reasons.. lisud lang jud sabton para sa ato kay syempre were always thinking of goodthings outsde sa house..leisures and so on.. i know how it feels kay ako sis,cge mention nako about na ako dad cge yawyaw,cge buot sa iya maskin she's married na..kind of somebdy is trying to choke you.iya ingon nako,mao gani ng minyo siya aron maka buot nasd siya sa iyagusto.pero same ra japon.even me,im earning,i have a good job,living my own and far away fom them,cge lang jpon siya call and writng sms tellng me na mao na ako buhaton..phew! pero,sabot lang ta ani..kay para ramn na sa atoa.. for now,d pata kasbot..pero as soon as we will have our own family soon.. makasabot rata..

[PUGAK]

well naa pman ka sa puder sa parents nmo then live b their rules..pra imo rman pu nathen kng nahan ka mag lahe na..aw lahe na..