Wife is earning more than husband...

[rudjard]

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doesn't matter para nko whos earning big and hos earning nothing...

bsta family-focused ang objective sa inyong pagtrabaho and not to something/someonelse. kai at the end of the day si misis ramn ghapon mo gunit sa ATM.

follow up lng ani is, kahibaw lng mo budget both parties i think wala gyd problem. bt if someone is spending impulsively to material thngs and not looking at the budget lisud gyd.. away lng gyd ni pirme

[vladmire]

same here, doesnt really matter who's earn most in both party.

as long as budget wise ang wife or husband, payts na!

[mci_darling]

i think theres nothing wrong with it as long as u both have agreements.. kai for me ha..im earning more than my husband and were doing okay.. its a matter of understanding and staying humble and respect..

[she_babymo]

it doesn't matter who earns most, as long as both of you are responsible in taking care of the family, dili ky magsalig nlng sad ang lalaki...

[love2travel]

in a mature relationship, this shouldn't matter, we all pull are weight in different ways and are rewarded in various ways for our efforts... as long as wa lang sab nagyaka ala Juan Tamad ang either partner, then it's all good... after all once married, it's no longer a you and me but an "us" situation

[d`monyita]

I know of two people here who posted and answered na parehas ug situation ana. Mas malaki ang kita ng babae. Are they both happy with their respective spouses? Yes they are. Why? Because all four of them are mature enough to understand that when they got married... THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE. In other words...walang "pera mo-pera ko."

I would like to touch on the issue though of your husband helping his family. This is so typical pinoy. Palakihin ang anak para makatulong sa magulang inig-old nila. That is not what should be the case and I am sorry if I have to quote the bible here but it says that a good man leaves an inheritance for his children and his children's children. So we all work to provide for our family...and for ourselves when we grow old.

It is such crap (can i say that word?) to put pressure on the kids to provide for their parents in their old age...using the words... "kayo naman ngayon..."

I do not say naman na DO NOT help. I just do not want the perpetuation of this crooked thinking...and sad to say... I see it when I see parents making "bugaw" (or trying to put it politically correct..."matchmake") their young daughters to old foreigners hoping that they will receive dollars once their daughters marry. Hahayyyy. Or my friends talk about parents and in-laws always asking for money. Thank God wala sa family ko ganyan...both of my parents and their siblings...they do not ask their kids for dole outs...in fact...sometimes it is the other way around with some cousins har har. Kahit retired na ang uncle and auntie ko.

Ano konek nyan, threadstarter, sa situation mo? Well it is like this.... if you do not help...then your hubby will think dawo ka di ba? But remember this... ang priority sa imo bana is IKAW and vice versa. Kung life-and-death situation...give. Pero kung bail out ug mga utang...and whatever else is there....gawa ng tamad ang mga in-laws at walang mga trabaho.... mga palamunin....do not dole out. Ano ka...ATM?

Sabuta na yan ninyo mentras wala pa kayo anak. Dapat nga gisabot na yan ninyo BEFORE you got married.

[mmp]

yeah it doesnt really matter but sometimes di maiwasan, it will be brought up sa fight..

[toushiro]

that's okay basta naa japon labing labing.. okay ra jud..

[Hot Sizzle]

For me it doesn't matter as long as we love,happy and care 2 each other.....

[chenggay!!!]

nature jud na sa laki ang makafeel ug fulfillment when he is the one jud providing for the family( for this case, providing means xa ang dako ug income)..
but practical na man ta nowadays gud and it should be a teamwork effort. as long as both of u are doing ur best in earning to establish the family then it's cool. there shouldn't be any room for competition

gud luck!