Your BF/GF is cheating on you?

[benz_jie2002]

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well, for me give way sa girl kay gituyo bitaw ang naa uyab na stage para to choose the best na u feel in love most d ba!..

[KaTzKi]

as simple as "biyae na oi"!!!

easier said than done.. most ppl wud advise the other na better na biyaan, pero les be empathic.. how wud u feel if ikaw ang ORIGINAL gf/bf then u knoe na naa laen.. n mas lisud if love kayu nmu ang tao.. dli dyud sayun..

[elgie]

if that well happend 2 me......ngita sad ko lain para fair ba.....wht man can do kami sad dba fair....

[kai]

the thing is am the other girl..

i consider it na ither girl ko kay am the last na ninag abot sa iya lyf..

pero the thing lang is mas gitagaan ko nya priority..

we're on our 6 month na... cguro till now murag cream of the crop pa ko ba..

pero have to be prepared by the time na mapul an na cya

haya-haya gud ng lakiha? sugot lang ka 'cream of the crop' ?? as in daghan mo ga share not just 2? i say leave him alone oi. the excuse nga unsaon-man-nako-i-can't-leave-him-coz-i-love-him is just that, an excuse for stupidity. u said it yourself, bsan he makes u feel that it is u he's prioritizing there's still that gnawing thought nga he might just drop u if matagbaw sya. wake up girl! r u sure contented na ka ana ?

let me guess, he told its u he loves but d sya kabiya sa other girl coz he doesnt know how to tel her pa and not ready to hurt her? bsan pa tininuod ng iya na feel nimo, he still has to choose. he owes it to both of you (as in u and the other girl) .

no.. its not that na he doesnt know how to say it to the girl..

the girl already knows about me.. the thing lang is the girl is actually somkindda gud kept woman.. rich as in..

nakig buwag na ko nya.. in fact kadaghan na.. but the thing is.. he'll destroy heself..

dli cya mouli.. mag hubog cya.. he's in the state na man gud of leaving drugs na.. i know it jud coz i've seen a lot of chances in him na with regards to that..

he's mom is thankful though coz of the changes he showed since nagkakami na.. and am flattered everytime moingon cya na i changed for you and only you..

so everytime our argument leads to break up mao na iya buhaton.. and am afraid na mobalik cya sa iya bisyo.. so stuck jud ko nya.. he told me once na "don't leave me am not completely healed" what does that mean? if he'll be healed he'll go na?

[kai]

as simple as "biyae na oi"!!!

easier said than done.. most ppl wud advise the other na better na biyaan, pero les be empathic.. how wud u feel if ikaw ang ORIGINAL gf/bf then u knoe na naa laen.. n mas lisud if love kayu nmu ang tao.. dli dyud sayun..

lisod man gani on my part na am the other girl...

[**julliene**]

as simple as "biyae na oi"!!!

easier said than done.. most ppl wud advise the other na better na biyaan, pero les be empathic.. how wud u feel if ikaw ang ORIGINAL gf/bf then u knoe na naa laen.. n mas lisud if love kayu nmu ang tao.. dli dyud sayun..

YEP! easier said than done...but let's not be a martyr sad...If this will happen to me na akong girl naa lain maskin ako pa original then i will again say my line...stick to my "biyae na oi" quote...it's not my loss anyway...lisud buhaton but you have to face it na dili na sya nimo or pul an na sya nimo. I can start a new relationship though but thinking that you will waste many years of bonding when you let go is also a loss...ang masulti nim sa imong self is "SAYANG!".. wala ta ma hems ana...ayte

[**julliene**]

usa pasad d ay! ask pa d ay ko oi ngano iya na nabuhat...then if wala na ways marepair and relasyon then that will be the time mu let go nako...talk first pa d ay then biyaan if way ayo kastorya...hehehehe

[kai]

lisod jud na nga situation...

bcoz of love.. nagpakabuta bungol ka.. satisfy lang ka bisan duha mo sa iyang kinabuhi.. but if time comes nga ma mili na ang laki kong kinsa jud iyang gusto.. then both of you expecting.... nga ma oy mapili-an.. what if.. kong dili ikaw iyang pili-on... unsa man imong bati-on.... bisan aware paka sa sitwasyon.. duha mo.. imposible ka ayo nga di ka masakitan.. imo lang gi duwa2x-an ang imong ka ugalingon....

nasakitan man gani ko karon.. nasakitan ba gud ko? cguro ala kay ngano naa pa man ko till now..

actually d na ko na feel ug bisan unsa.. manhid na ko in short

[nikki]

ouch.. that's a slap in the face. if there's something you're missing, man, end the damn relationship. do things beneficial to yourself if you can and work on something to bide your time for this time to pass and meet other people.

[giver_bert]

on the other thought, why not ask yourself first why she's/he's doing it? maybe you are
indrectly attributal to scenario..

been there, but not like the traditional boy plunging into two different rivers, i was on the
loosing end. i was his first and i felt somehow secured knowing she's soo inlove with me,
didn't even deemly forthought our relationship will end up disastrously, and i have to
admit i was to be blamed for it. it's inherent to stick to him/her "initially" espcially if
you've somehow become dependent on the other party, letting go would somehow mean
denying part of your individuality. as for me, i tried to prolong the agony hoping that i
could still do something to save the relationship.. but as the song goes "I did my best,
but i guess my best wasn't good enough (char!). definitely it's love is one factor why
we stick to our partners, but then again things shouldn't be black nor white, we must at
times use our brains as well..