Being Single Or Being Married?

[nolex]

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ayaw tawn tuo anang noy nolex..

...ako, mangutana sa ko sko friend kung nindot ba ang buhay married..

OT: kinsa man na imo friend? paila2x ko beh..

nahan ko magminyo when the right time comes.. when? i don't know..

[JawBreaker]

pagminyo gyud mo mga boys aron di mo mahimong agokoy.
and girls, pagminyo sad mo aron di mo mahimong timus.

[miramax]

Hi guys, 2bag ra ni sa comment ni Junmar...
Hi Junmar, here I started a new thread na huh!..
best friend nako ni sya...that's why i do care a lot.

ANYWAYS...here's the story again

Hi fellow istoryans, just tryn to get some piece of advice (but please, i need a serious one) wala lay binuang ba.
Speaking of being single, I'll give you a situation, then tell me ,if would you chooose to stay single or look for a partner.
Here it Is:
Single parent having two kids aged 7 & 9, both are boys. She's only 30 years of age, very independent , career woman, when it comes to personality, she's a plus +++ She's currently workin abroad, Iya kids naa sa iya Mama, iya problem is her mom is gettin old , about 60 years old na, She only got one sibling, who's already having his own family in abroad, She really love to be with her kids but she can't quit her job, coz that's their only bread & butter, She tried her luck joining into some dating site, but until now, she still can't find that someone, She's not into guwapo. What do you think she must do. Looy baya sya, unsaon na lang daw if mawala iya mom, wala ra ba sila lain relatives.

[junmar4]

Hi guys, 2bag ra ni sa comment ni Junmar...
Hi Junmar, here I started a new thread na huh!..
best friend nako ni sya...that's why i do care a lot.

ANYWAYS...here's the story again

Hi fellow istoryans, just tryn to get some piece of advice (but please, i need a serious one) wala lay binuang ba.
Speaking of being single, I'll give you a situation, then tell me ,if would you chooose to stay single or look for a partner.
Here it Is:
Single parent having two kids aged 7 & 9, both are boys. She's only 30 years of age, very independent , career woman, when it comes to personality, she's a plus +++ She's currently workin abroad, Iya kids naa sa iya Mama, iya problem is her mom is gettin old , about 60 years old na, She only got one sibling, who's already having his own family in abroad, She really love to be with her kids but she can't quit her job, coz that's their only bread & butter, She tried her luck joining into some dating site, but until now, she still can't find that someone, She's not into guwapo. What do you think she must do. Looy baya sya, unsaon na lang daw if mawala iya mom, wala ra ba sila lain relatives.

ako lagi gigamit... huhuhu... by the way, sa family matters unta ni.

^^^pra nako, dalhon na lang niya iya kids wui. If dili pwede, I'll be willing nga mahimong kapikas niya.

[miramax]

Junmar, sad uy!

Nalingaw ko sa imo tubag nga natouch, bitaw ayaw na lang na gud kutiha if asa na ma post Family matters or Love ba...basta concentrate na lang sa topic ako sya gi col karon & inform her about sa imo reply, ingon sya "thanks daw" it was just to sweet of you daw to say qoute na , ikaw na alng iya mahimo kapikas
by the way, di pala daw nya pwede dalhon kids kay wala pa sya enuf capacity to raise them alone sa abroad.

[Ms.Beau]

I dont quite get it. why, will a partner enable her to be with her kids? will she quit her job and depend on her husband? whats the plan?

if i were her, i will focus first on bringing my children to me or the other way around, and that calls for me to be financially capable. having a husband will not necessarily mean more finances and an easier life. now im not saying she should not get married, but just pointing out that she may already have the power to do what she needs to do.

[jofox]

bitaw sakto ka mis beau

[n`gel]

she wants a complete family, perhaps a husband nga bisan dili tinuod nga anak ya mga kids pero mo love and mo-ila nila like his own. and she's lonely. niabot na siguro sa punto sa ya life nga gusto na siya ma settle down.

and i understand the delimma of not being able to find somebody or lisud ang possibility nga makit-an ug somebody when working abroad. she just needs to open up her horizon, pa member sya mga organizations, this and that and there... para maka meet siya lain-laing taw. let her losen up and enjoy life. dapat happy siya inside, basta happy and blooming siya am sure dili magdugay naa gyuy makakaplag ana niya and everything will fall very easy. gudluck!

[miramax]

she wants a complete family, perhaps a husband nga bisan dili tinuod nga anak ya mga kids pero mo love and mo-ila nila like his own. and she's lonely. niabot na siguro sa punto sa ya life nga gusto na siya ma settle down.

and i understand the delimma of not being able to find somebody or lisud ang possibility nga makit-an ug somebody when working abroad. she just needs to open up her horizon, pa member sya mga organizations, this and that and there... para maka meet siya lain-laing taw. let her losen up and enjoy life. dapat happy siya inside, basta happy and blooming siya am sure dili magdugay naa gyuy makakaplag ana niya and everything will fall very easy. gudluck!

n'gEL

tHANKuE SO MUCH. grABEEEH! wasabi meh! yOU'RE TALKIN LIKE A FAIRY gODMOTHER. BUT REALLY, U GOT IT RIGHT, GIRL :mrgreen: mONEY IS EASY TO FIND BUT NOT A haPPPY HeART

[monrose29]

30? hmmm deli sya angay mag worry oi kay dako pa ka ayo sya og chance...

pero deli lang pod sya pataka og date kay na-a ra bay lalaki nga taking for granted ka ayo og tirada.. knowing nga abroad sya nindot og work,

ako lang ika tambag niya kong nag worry sya sa kids, pede man sya mo kuha og yaya for then meantime nga mag plano sya kong unsay iyang gusto sa iyang kids iya ba kuha-on deri sa pinas...

to be with some-one para lang sa iyang kids is not a valid reason mo samot pa ka complicated ang situation,

kong deli sya ganahan og yaya.. then mo do-ol sya sa iyang pinaka close nga relatives or close friend kong wala man gali close relatives,

kay lisud man gud ka ayo nah kong makig relasyon ka unya number one reason deli ang love..... unya kong makig relasyon ka deli ra ba gyud na malikayan na mahisgutan dayon na ang mga past... labi na ang 2 niya ka kids...

its a long process pa before nmo mahibaw-an kong tinud-anay ba gyud ng lakiha.. plus the obligation pa sa imong mga kids, very complicated gyud ka ayo..

deli lang ta mag dali2x para deli ta mabung-go unya kita ra gihapon mag basol at the end...

kumbaga slowly but surely.. we need to sacrifice a little bit kay ina ana gyud na ang kinabuhi, unya apilan pod og pag ampo og lig-onon ang dughan para sa mga trials, then after all mo abot ra na kong unsay ingay gusto mahitabo...


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noy_noah