Why Do We Hurt The Ones We Love?

[Ms.Beau]

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lack of insight, immaturity. we like to think we love the person but upon scrutiny our actions hurt that person.

[Zahara]

'Coz we hold them to a very high standard...and when they make a mistake...we lashed out...forgetting that they're human too. Im often like this sa akong hubby but im trying to change. If dali ra nako ma-forgive akong friends, why not him? When i love him more, di ba? It doesn't make sense. Taas ra man gud kaayo tag expectations nila.

[cuttie_angel]

mao na ang giingon na d jed perfect when you are inlove. there's always an ups and downs.

[happyfeet]

is it true that the person you love so much also tend to be the one you hurt most? or do u make always make the effort not to hurt that person at all costs?

coz in my part, there are times when i let out all my anger and frustrations to one person (to the point na hurtful na jud kaau ko) and realize later on that hey..this is someone whom i'm supposed to love!! is it because maybe i depend on the idea that because this person loves me, he'd still go on loving me no matter what i do. but that's bad for a relationship to always think that way, diba?

[staT|c-X]

wow.....Ü
ako agree ko ani.Ü

[grlnxtdor16]

ya this is so true.. i gues ingun ani ni coz the person you love is close to your heart. nya when things dont go too well, masakitan jud ka.

[xtian_hero]

true dyud.... kahit bestfriend nga pwede na rin eh... ana dyud na sya...

but if he/she loves you dearly, "maybe" he'll understand... nothings certain in this life...

[wolvzofdeath]

i guess... because we try posses them and we're afraid they might slip away

[fha]

8s part of the relationship...i think 8s not hurt per se, but on the fact that all relationships (serious that is) will go through this kind of ordeal...8s not hurt but a way of knowing the truest of person... :mrgreen:

[bingearl]

8s part of the relationship...i think 8s not hurt per se, but on the fact that all relationships (serious that is) will go through this kind of ordeal...8s not hurt but a way of knowing the truest of person... :mrgreen:

I agree