HELP My Husband is a good man but I'm in love with someone else

[semahj]

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mas graveh jud ang girl..

[luisyntaneca]

don't break it for the benefit of ur childre, if there's any....

[iplayurgame24]

how do i start ba ha...
ummm...
honestly you cant blame those who criticize you here.. you should have known that before posting such thread..

you cant blame some of us if tawagon namo ug kabit ang isa ka guy. tungod sa imong gipangsulti na sad. ing ana man juy tan aw kasagaran sa mga tao diri. and pls ayaw lang sad pagkaplastic ang iba. let me state the facts.
*di ba nistay ka sa iyahang house tung nilayas ka?? when you could have been in a hotel di ba? pero niadto jud ka sa guy... and para nako ang kabit kay dili ra man tingali na sa kama lang.. youre married but youve been seeing this other guy?? and you let him proposed to you? and ingon pa jud ka na it broke your heart knowing that hes ready to marry you and that you rejected his proposal? kay inlove naka sa iyaha sad? tapos ingon pa jud ka na nalate ug abot si no. 2? and dont tell me na wala moy relationship ana?? murag kadudahan mang gud mrs.. di bah? ako mismo naglibog sa imoha.. promise.. (correct me nalang if naay nasayop sa akong gisulti bout sa imong mga gipang ingon...)

tapos muingon ka na you want to save your marriage but alot of things have been said here..

daghan ang nakatambag but it seems na daghan kaayo kag rason.. it seems na you have everything planned in your mind.. that you dont need some advices.. murag naghuwat ra ka ba na naay mouyon sa imong gustong ipaibut.. sorry but thats how i see your posts here...

[raizene]

@ nitwit

day basin ug biga biga ra na imoha na feel.......kaloy pod sa imoha bana....frankly if ako pay nabana nimu, gbiyaan na teka!

[piesmeralda]

How come nakauyab man ka outside sa imong marriage? In the first place, nilikay jud unta ka nga magkauyab mo sa other guy. It's a mistake to be in that situation, and the solution is to correct the mistake. Walay sala imong bana nga imo nang buhaton niya.

Nahitabo na sa akong friend, na-fall siya sa other guy, until nagpasabot ang other guy, pero wala jud siya mosakay sa sitwasyon. Ang iyang gibuhat, iyang gisultian iyang husband sa tanan, nga naa siyay feelings sa guy ug nagpadungog-dungog na ang guy nga ganahan niya. Nasakitan kuno iyang bana, pero ang iyang explanation, dili siya gusto mo-keep ug secret sa iyang bana, labi na kung gi-test na ang iyang love. Bilib sad ko sa iyang courage nisulti sa iyang husband kay wa man sad jud siyay sala kay wala man moabot sa point nga makasala na jud siya. Ang iyang idea, kung naay makahibalo sa iyang secret, labi na katong tao nga ma-apektuhan, dili mosamot kay magbantay na man siya nga dili siya makasala. Pareha ra sa explanation sa iro nga gihigtan, magwild, pero kung buhian, mokalma, basta sakto lang pagkabuhi.

Honesty ug respect lang jud iyang gipasulabi sa iyang sitwasyon sauna. I can't say nga wa na kay feelings sa imong husband, naa lang kay third party nga nitabon sa imong mata, nga dili motan-aw sa kaayo sa imong husband. If you have grounds for leaving your husband, do it the right way, but if none, you're unfair to leave him. Leave the other guy, heart to heart talk mo sa imong bana, start a new beginning. Maybe there are things you both missed to do together before, discuss it and find time for it.

[piesmeralda]

Kuwang lang jud xa ug time nnyong duha. Ako pa nimo, uli ka dri sa pinas, huwata xa nga mangita nimo dn mo apas nimo dri - in which maka spend xa time nimo for vacation. Ngita pa agi na ihatag iyang time nimo. Ayaw lang jud ug cheat.Enjoy ur vacation sa pinas and please be civil and respect your vows. Basta pa apasa xa.

Korek! Daghan bitaw siya ug kwarta, get busy with your relatives diri sa Pinas, pa-party pirme. Pero avoid lang jud playing fire. Hangtod siya mangita nimo.

[piesmeralda]

maam, why not try to ask him tonight "do you still love me?"
then if mo-ingon sya ug yes, i-ask na sab sya nga "why cant i feel & see it?" char! hehe

bitaw maam, try to talk to him, if he wont listen to u... continue talking, as if you are talking to your own self pero make sure madunggan ka niya. tell him everything kung na-unsa ka, tell him what you need... let him remember katong iya gibuhat sa imo when you were still boyfriend and girlfriend... ipakita niya or let him know unsa ang "before na hubby nimo" and "ang karon na hubby nimo"...

most important is... pray

Nice one! Mura sad ug mamarayg ka nga napabayaan na ka. Make him feel nga u need lovin'.

[piesmeralda]

im half-chinese. im sure my husband doesnt have any woman or mistress.his too busy attending his business, he cant even get a vacation due to hectic schedules. having no time at each other made us drift apart. its not about money, its not about lust, its about having no time.

i get up in the morning and my husband's gone. i get home and his still not there. we rarely talk, ive felt unwanted, neglected.

Basin ug nangita sa imong linuto-an, kay molakaw na lang siya nga way pamahaw kay tulog pa ka. Of course, if you prepare for him before he leaves for work, you will have time to talk on the breakfast table. I'm sure, both of you wouldn't like bad mornings to start with an arguement, talk about how sweet you were before.

[YM24]

nganung na ngita man ka og lain??buotan man kaha imong bana??

[nitwit]

how do i start ba ha...
ummm...
honestly you cant blame those who criticize you here.. you should have known that before posting such thread..

you cant blame some of us if tawagon namo ug kabit ang isa ka guy. tungod sa imong gipangsulti na sad. ing ana man juy tan aw kasagaran sa mga tao diri. and pls ayaw lang sad pagkaplastic ang iba. let me state the facts.
*di ba nistay ka sa iyahang house tung nilayas ka?? when you could have been in a hotel di ba? pero niadto jud ka sa guy... and para nako ang kabit kay dili ra man tingali na sa kama lang.. youre married but youve been seeing this other guy?? and you let him proposed to you? and ingon pa jud ka na it broke your heart knowing that hes ready to marry you and that you rejected his proposal? kay inlove naka sa iyaha sad? tapos ingon pa jud ka na nalate ug abot si no. 2? and dont tell me na wala moy relationship ana?? murag kadudahan mang gud mrs.. di bah? ako mismo naglibog sa imoha.. promise.. (correct me nalang if naay nasayop sa akong gisulti bout sa imong mga gipang ingon...)

tapos muingon ka na you want to save your marriage but alot of things have been said here..

daghan ang nakatambag but it seems na daghan kaayo kag rason.. it seems na you have everything planned in your mind.. that you dont need some advices.. murag naghuwat ra ka ba na naay mouyon sa imong gustong ipaibut.. sorry but thats how i see your posts here...

when i left the house sir, i stayed at the park the whole night. and at the morning i went to his place but he was heading off to work, so i had the whole day for my place.i left that afternoon cause my hubby ring me saying that he is gonna call the cops to find me. and i didnt want us to get to that point cause its gonna be so embarassing. ok ra sir,me as well couldnt understand what really has happened.


UPDATE: hubby suggested that were gonna get married in cebu this july.is this a good sign?or what? were already married here. he said he wants all my friends and families to come. do you think we need one?