it's really normal.. like me sa ako bf..sometimes it's me who initiate it first.. hehe.. wala lang.. it's a give and take relationship but you should not abuse it and you should respect your partner. because there are times like he's so tired or he's not feeling well or he's sick kay murag wala xay gana.. hehehe.. pero ako swerte au ako sa ako yayabs kay everytime i feel like doing it even though he's sOOoo tired iya japon ko pagbigyan.. ahehhe.. he loves me jud.. hahaay.. miss him!