I went to your wedding

[kuyabog]

^^in my case bro, ambot lang, hard to explain in words, pero, there comes a time in one's life when we can say with certainty, with finality, that a certain person is the real ONE there is.. and no one else.

modesty aside, I have been around the world, and there is just NO ONE else. murag jigsaw puzzle ba.. one and only one fits perfectly. I have met latinas, middle eastern, europeans, to name a few.. but this heart beats in perfect tune and harmony for just one.

unsa ra man na ang weddings.. they are man made ceremonies. Love is inherent with the creation of a soul, no rules written and imposed by mortals.. except Fate.

it is a time when asking the WHYs and the HOWs are alien and a mockery to the sacredness of what truly LOVE is. for in this kind of LOVE, there are no reasons that logic will understand, there could never be analysis to dissect and open up visible to mortal eyes.

[Scott Bernard]

Good luck lang bro, I know maka kita raka pohon ug better girl. Ayaw lang pag dali2x, ayaw pod pagpa dugay2x.

Naglibog lang pod ko, diba ikaw man tong naanay anak pero wala kay sure nga imoha to?

[vahnhelsing]

amigong vahn, sa tinuoray lang, katong panahona, ako nagtuo nga sya nahigugma nako, pero naa lang mga rason ngano ang laing lalaki ang iyang gipili nga pakaslan. mga bug-at kaayong rason, ug dili nako ikabutyag diri, alang sa kaayohan sa tanan hingtungdan..

higala, kining imong sugilanon naka tandog ug gamay ning pagbati. Nahilantaw ako sa akong kagahapon nga dugay ko nang boot ilubong. May hinigugma usab ako kaniadto nga gihalaran ug tiunay nga gugma apan nipakyas sa tanang damgo nga among gilalik sa pagminahalay. Wala ko damha nga makaako siya pagluib kanako. Bisan paman niining tanan hangtod ning hugna sa kinabuhi bilinhon pa siya alang kanako. Lisod hikalimtan ang gugmang tiunay apan napakyas. May mga higayon tinood nga boot ko usab kutloon ang kinabuhi apan nagpabilin gihapon nga gisangpit sa akong dughan ang iyahang pangalan inubanan sa paglaom nga ugma damlag mag abot pa ang among mga dalan ug mahatagan ug katumanan ang among mga damgo.
Inanay ko na gihatagang ang kaugalingon ug lugway nga basin may laing binuhat nga makalabaw pa kaniya, tood man karon may hinigugma akong naghatag kanako ug bili ug maoy rason ning pagpakabuhi.
Panahon ra jud ang mag-igo para mahikalimot kita sa sakit nga mga kagahapon.
Panghinaot nga maalim ang mga samad nga nahiagoman sa kapakyasan.

[kuyabog]

higala, kining imong sugilanon naka tandog ug gamay ning pagbati. Nahilantaw ako sa akong kagahapon nga dugay ko nang boot ilubong. May hinigugma usab ako kaniadto nga gihalaran ug tiunay nga gugma apan nipakyas sa tanang damgo nga among gilalik sa pagminahalay. Wala ko damha nga makaako siya pagluib kanako. Bisan paman niining tanan hangtod ning hugna sa kinabuhi bilinhon pa siya alang kanako. Lisod hikalimtan ang gugmang tiunay apan napakyas. May mga higayon tinood nga boot ko usab kutloon ang kinabuhi apan nagpabilin gihapon nga gisangpit sa akong dughan ang iyahang pangalan inubanan sa paglaom nga ugma damlag mag abot pa ang among mga dalan ug mahatagan ug katumanan ang among mga damgo.
Inanay ko na gihatagang ang kaugalingon ug lugway nga basin may laing binuhat nga makalabaw pa kaniya, tood man karon may hinigugma akong naghatag kanako ug bili ug maoy rason ning pagpakabuhi.
Panahon ra jud ang mag-igo para mahikalimot kita sa sakit nga mga kagahapon.
Panghinaot nga maalim ang mga samad nga nahiagoman sa kapakyasan.

ambot vahn, makalibog, maka buang, dili masabtan o lisod sabton.

Siya ra man gyud ug wala nay lain.. sa tinuod lang.

Good luck lang bro, I know maka kita raka pohon ug better girl. Ayaw lang pag dali2x, ayaw pod pagpa dugay2x.

Naglibog lang pod ko, diba ikaw man tong naanay anak pero wala kay sure nga imoha to?

Thank you bro Scott.. I will not be looking for someone else. I am sure I will be a better Kuya Bog.. and she will realize that soon enough.. there will be no other man who loves and adores her like I do.

[quirkychinita]

Reading almost the whole thread. Gi uhaw ko. Adto unta kos tea and symphony pero kapoi naug bhaus. . Aysaa. Uhaw aajud aau. Palit sako milk tea and mutubag ko ani kay akong isa ka ate murag similar ang story....

[kuyabog]

Reading almost the whole thread. Gi uhaw ko. Adto unta kos tea and symphony pero kapoi naug bhaus. . Aysaa. Uhaw aajud aau. Palit sako milk tea and mutubag ko ani kay akong isa ka ate murag similar ang story....

thanks for reading sis.. it seems like a great wall out here.. visible from the skies..even with eyes blurry with tears.

[quirkychinita]

I@kuyabog


what ur going through isnt easy. I read almost the whole thread.



and based on all ur responses. The wound hasnt healed yet... Still fresh...

I know u feel alive but not living. Dead but not departed cuz the one you love the most went galloping with another.


Every bride or groom has cold feet or gaduha duha mgpkasal imbis prepared na tanan.

Lookinh at some reason why she did that to you. Here's what i see.
-she doesnt wanna get married sa llki but she has to kay sayangan siya sa nagasto sa family sa groom and sa agreement between her and the grooms family. Di sya ganahan ug skandalo. Basig huna huna nia the runaway wedding kay pang julia roberts ra.
-maybe shes in the middle of falling out of love sa groom but found love in u but has no choice but to leave u and marry the groom kay hadlok magkagubot iyang clan,the groom's and yours.
- she was bored and wants to do everything she wants mintras single or bachelorette pa xa
-maybe she doesnt love the groom and tried seeking for love in u mintras naa pay chance
-i dunno if u cud handle this but maybe shes one of the few na nangitag masarap na bawal or panandaliang aaliw.... Even some women do that.
- maybe shes just plain crazy and unreasonable and shallow

when i was about 12 years old. My sister was crying in her wedding dress. I was the only one with her sa dressing room. She hugged me so tight and natingala lang ko nganung gikalit niyag punit ang lighter and naa syay gisunog na letter.
After five minutes gisugo ko niag kuha beer. And she fixrd her make up and sakay namig limo padung simbahan.... Dili kha murag ingana ang situation sa girl?

Anyway. Ur situations not easy. Faets sa tanan paet bisan kan un pa nato tanan ampalaya wala nay mas faet.

I bet shes wondering how u are kay bisag unsaun naa moy pinagsamahan. I bet shes trying to view ur fb page or basig cge xa labay saimung haus ky basig ma timingan ka.

Shes regretting what shes doing.

U can cry all u want for about six months....

Just dont do anything illegal.

All u can do for now is try living a happy life.

Distract urself. Like what i always say. A heart ache is like a drug addiction in rehab. Sakit ang withdrawal symptoms and u wanna go back to ur vice but u dont want to pero u want it but u cant and the same cycle. U hafta take it off ur system by distracting urself and avoid ur mind from getting blank. Dapat naa kay buhaton pirmi.


Try something u havent done before.

Talk to people. Smile.

If u have an fb acct. Post happy pictures. If ever makita to nia. Shed say na sayang kaau ka kay i left a man with positivity and contagious happiness.


Finish what u have started.

Enjoy being single.

If people invite u over. Join them. Be a yes man.

And find a will to survive. If u have parents or brothers or sisters even offspring. Make them ur reason why ur striving. Take care of them and do something to make them feel special and observe their reactions, like if u cook for them, savor the feeling na lamian sila saimung giluto. Small things like those....

Ah basta. I insist. Kaya na....

Ikaw pah!

Plus. Were here for u...

Good vibes!!!

[kuyabog]

^^a simple thank you is not enough.. but THANK YOU QC.. indeed you are wise beyond your years.

if i write my story, koreans will have a hard time developing a telenovela.. with merely 24 pages of a thread, you have seen a lot more. hey, ako na pud giuhaw.. naug sa ko hehe

[quirkychinita]

P.s.

Try forgetting her. Shes the past. Let her be. Shes married.

For now. Try gathering all the things she reminds you of as much as possible. Put everything in a box and either ibutang sa bodega or ilabay or burn it.

If ur haus reminds u of her. Try rearranging the furnitire or move to another haus.

Positivity. Nothing beats positivity.

Appreciate the smallest things that makes life beautiful. Like the fact that ang mga tau sa jip mudaqat saimung sukli ug ipasa sa kpnduktor sa 13c na nagpauso sa sss ug zzzzz in eery end of hizzz wordsss kadazzz storyazzzz. Ehehehezzzz!

Pagpatakod sa pagkapasitib! Ako. When i am happy. I cook pasta for a group and give it to my officemates bisan way occassion.

Find a companion. A dog for example..... Karon hamster akong kauban. Trained already to recognize his ne!!!!

Make a project... Maybe try learning how to swim. Play guitar. Or master the micheal jordan style of shooting.

Music. Studiea show that happy music soothes u up.... My medicine music? To da lep. To da lep. Evriting u own to da boz to da lep!!!?

Eat out with friends....


Surround ur self with people u love.


Take pictures of happy memories... Kung mudaghan xa. Everytime u luk at em ul find ur self smiling.

Watch cartoons.... I dunno! But spongebobs nonesense and homer simpsons stupidity relaxes my mind.... Pareha mi sa akong pagumangkon kada uli nako cdo. Magtapad tan aw kartoons and sigi mig katawaha ug sa dihang magbula bula sa sip on akong pagumangkon kay gisip on sgeg katawaha.



Laugh!


Live!!!!



Set uraelf dree.



Find a way! Fight for it. Life is too short to dwell on problems! Realize that a cancer patient is struggling to live. Realize that a patient in the e.r. Is desperate to have blood running in his veins. Realize that so many people in prison thinks that living outsyd the cell is heaven!


Ur lucky!!!

Savor it kuyabog!

[kuyabog]

^^can you forget how to ride a bike?

in a remote way, very remote perhaps but in some ways, true love is like that. it takes Alzheimer to really forget one who is part of you.