The One Who Got Away

[mastersun23]

tokidoki:

Sadly... there will always be one and only her. She has touched your soul in such a way that nobody can ever touch it the way she did ever again. And you'll never meet anybody just like her in your lifetime. You saw the beauty of her soul and that admiration and love came so very naturally out of you.

This game called life is a--mazing.. how chance crosses our paths with other people and what impact they do to our lives is so wonderful if we see... even pain... still beautifully.

I see relationships as testing grounds towards meeting the right person for everyone. When a relationship is broken we think that we've lost so much... we've lost the person we love and we've lost chance, time, our heart, our mind, our endeavours, our hopes. But why does God (coz i'm a Christian) let us be with people who're just gonna leave and hurt us? It is because her purpose for your life in your case is not to stay but to leave a memory, a lesson, a future to take you where you'd go. After every hurt, after every relationship, we learn lessons in love. It can cause us to fear to love again (which then eventually strengthens us), or it can cause us to become a better person so when the right person comes along... we've been through a lot and learned a lot.... and when the right person is finally with you... your maturity in love is not short but full.

She has such an impact in your life tokidoki... unfortunately you'll never find her in somebodyelse's eyes. She is her. But you will find somebody who can be greater than her or not... but one who you can truly love one day. You are a person who loves intellectual conversations and you require it from your partner... I do too... although I say I am a little flexible... any interesting conversation still ticks me.

And so... the feeling when we feel we've found our 'one true love' is wonderful... for the moment. Pero I tell you this, one day you will see that person greater than her or not. And if you can... choosing who to pursue next time... ready your requirements. For love is governed by principles. Don't stoop down yes I agree... just to have a gf.

Naa gyuy women like that... grabe kaayo ug impact ba... I myself find women like her very attractive and beautiful. A free and gentle flower... scarce pud mi (hehe). Just too bad when you know you've found the most beautiful flower in your life... you can't help when they leave. You just set them free.

Just too bad you didn't get to keep her... this and her shall forever be in your heart tokidoki. Di gyud na siya mawala and kasabot ko. She'll be one unreachable star sa imo life but you see her unendlessly. Bisan ma minyo naka. Basin in your part life napugos to iyang soul ug minyo nimo hehe and now... the present she went to find love away. You probably were a man who married a woman who didn't really love you but still smiled and kissed you because you yourself is beautiful.

[sexyjelly]

[Dorothea]

Everyone has had someone, at one point or another, who "got away".

And from time to time, our thoughts wander off and settle on that one person who got away. This is nothing more than an illusion though. We always tend to idealize, romantics that we are. And in this case, perception wins over reality.

We do tend to gloss over the unsavory things, and just focus on the perceived good things of our past. And this is why we continue to think they "got away", like it's some sort of tragedy. We've forgotten that they were meant to go away in the first place, to make room for something/someone better.

[tokidoki]

keep the ideas coming guys. for future readers to come.

ayaw lang nang pinaKSP nga comment preha atong last year. lol

[tokidoki]

up. bawal ang ksp mag comment didto.

[r0mm3L]

tokidoki

dibah naa may namulabog sa imohang blog saona? kinsa d i to? istoryan to?

[tokidoki]

naa kaayo. babae obviously nga nagbasol siguro nga wa katilaw nako. LOL

Duda ko makadawat napud ko ug "anonymous" message ani.

@mastersun23: pwede kana imo post didto nimo ibutang so everyone else can read it? thanks.

[tokidoki]

To anonymous: yep, i think many guys would cherish fond (sometimes naughty) memories of their past loves. I just like to vent it out on a blog. it makes it easier to move on.

[Dorothea]

Mr tokidoki: since you've written in a related post that this mystery girl has transitioned from "the-one-who-got-away" to "the-one-you-let-go", how about blogging about moving on, about your adventures (or misadventures) in the dating world? Mura'g male version ba ni Bridget Jones.

You are good with the written word. I am sure a lot of people will be interested in what you have to say, or write, in this case.

[tokidoki]

ahm, there's a second link in the post about what happened next.

it took place many years later. last year i think. the blog took place 4-5yrs ago.