Love Triangles, Third Parties, Three's a Crowd Merged

[xtian_hero]

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something to learn for being the 3rd party, and for those who are the victims of those 3rd parties...

a letter from her GF (very scandalous), she hacked her BF's log in ... this is how it goes...

I am on your computer
I am mad as HELL
I already caught you both
(NAME OF THE 3RD PARTY [complete pa yan] )
Sitting on the lobby
how dare you hug her in front of me!
I found the receipt as well
where you F***** her
Cebu Northwinds Hotel
on the same day you HURT me the most
You simply threw out two and a half years
A beautiful relationship we shared
and you cant deny that
YOU THREW IT ALL AWAY
just for a girl that you only knew
I'm sorry
I CAN NEVER FORGIVE YOU.

- your girlfriend -

when i read this letter... my heart was shattered and crumpled w/ hate... the girl i knew once was delicate, now was damaged by a mere old bad breath and chain smoker guy, just by using his charmed voice... now the guy's going to be so humiliated because all of us knew already about this... I'm just worried about the girl... i wish shes doing fine...

[ronz_rodz]

sos, nakatry nako ani... mayna lng nga nahunong pud... it's not barely a third party pero libog jud ang utok... i mean, nagdungan man gud nga niabot... so later on.. nakarealize pud nga sayop so give up jud ang usa.. kung kinsa wala pa ka try... ayaw nlng mo pagenter.. unless.. kung playgirl or playboy mo.. and dili mo seryos...

[stacey sue]

bagO raming nagbuwag sa akong uyab.. then may ex is trying to comfort me, giuban ko niya sa iyang mga laag2.. then wa sya mausab nako, sweet japon cya then i fell in luv to him at the second time. but the problem is naa cyay uyab, i tried asking him about us but he just told me that di mi pwede coz naa lagi cya uyab. Ouch huh.. until now cge japon mig commu ug lakaw2, for him im just a friend but i want more than friendship. i want to kick his girlfriends butt out of our life. huhuhu..

[diem]

[color=navy]@stacysue, just want to clarify something if you would be so kind to answer it could help us understand things better.

How long were you and your ex-boyfriend broken up before your other ex-boyfriend started to comfort you?

[joshbonz]

the colloquial word 'kabit' only applies for me when you're in the sanctity of marriage, I didn't know that this term also applies to a gf/bf relationship..

Anyway, I think what you're looking for right now is a solace of comfort, especially that you came from a breakup.. (major breakup?), You're ex is what I call a friend, but just wary about it.. what is past is past.. don't look back on to the past because it will only add injury to your pain heart..

Your self pitying right now I know, the last thing a person needs, is for other's to pity them.. your Ex, is already a past in your life.. don't try to dwell on the past things that you and him have shared.. It's HISTORY already..

You should also respect him that he has a gf already and Im sure he truly loves that girl.. You might be regretting now, on why you've ever let him go in the first place.. But if you find sincerity in looking for the happiness of your ex.. then I would advise you to just stay away " nalang" and no more..

Don't savor the time and linger on the situation of you and him going out still.. It would only add again to your anguish and misery of wanting him more...

Lay low, stay away and find comfort and solace from other people, Never dwell more on your ex bf.. Im sure you will agree that the thorn can't be picked out unless you decide to pick it out for yourself..

All in due time when you decide to meet other people outside of your bf, only then you can discover and cherish the very nature of meeting a new someone.. "that love is sweeter the second time around..."


Cheerup!

[xtian_hero]

@stacey sue

you know, people do fall in love easily once there depressed esp when someone so sweet and kind enough to at least comfort you and offered at least his time and effort just to expose you and let you know that you don't have to stick to your bed crying... he showed you that life doesn't end there... think about it...

all you can do at least is respect his decision, and just be thankful that you have a very nice and concern friend...

[chad_tukes]

no, your ex isn't selfish, i kinda wanted to thank him for what he's doing if i were a close friend of him. no, seriously.

and stacey, no you're not a "kabit" because you are not married. you are a victim of love that's unfortunately being caught up in a love triangle that is, well, very easy to get out of.

it doesn't take lots of maturity for you to realize your limitations. girl, this guy has a girlfriend. solution? leave him alone.

you have to start building a social network of friends. friends can help you go through this healing process. i know breaking up with someone isn't a joke especially when it's a major one. the problem is when you start slipping into your ex's and his gf's lives--that's where you have to know your limitation as well as what the consequences might be.

and oh, don't kick his gf's butt; she might be the first one to kick yours.


chad

[fha]

you're not a kabit...try lang sad to examine what you really feel for him...basig what you're feeling now means only that you need someone to comfort you cause of the fact that you're facing and undergoing the break-up scenario...dba? feeling comforted is not something that you can categorize as love..i dont know lang ha...i just dont want you ending up being hurt (again)...examine lang sa gud and then decide... :mrgreen:

[Shofu]

Galibog ko, y manpud of all ppol anha manka sa imung x magpa comfort? Ug nganu manpud ur xbf is comforting you alone when he can always bring his current gf during ur laag
I remembr our sch councellor said nga dile jud advisable nga adto sa opposite *** dagan f naa probs esp matters regarding sa heart kay tendency ma develop.

[black_vixen]

@thread starter, mmmm, dli man ka matawag nga kabit hehehe. dili mana married imong ex.
mmmm, pero imo nlang buhaton is, RESPECT him. and, why hope to someone nga nanay nka.capture
na sa iyang gugma. mas mau pa, dli nlang ka mag.expect nga magka.balik mo. why not ask him sa iyang
pag.treat nya nimo? unsa man iya reason why naa pay sweetness xa gpa.kita nimo? ask things nga mka.clear
sa imong view, pra dli ka tantong masakitan.