Is it ok na imong gf/ASAWA naka suway na og one night stand?

[klavel]

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c'mon, what's the big deal with one night stands

if i were a girl ill ask this question:

ok ra ba sa inyo kung inyo uyab naka sulod ug hubohubo??

..now, how's that sound??

i asked the query once to my bf (mga 1 month pa mi) and he said "yes"..i was surprised by this bec. my impression was that he couldn't possibly be going to those places...that FACT until now means nothing to me but a small act of his curiousity...i was even glad that he told me with all honesty and the more I love him for that..now we're hitting 7th month in our relationship and I'm loving him everyday, no every second of my life...ehehee

[Onins]

Thats nice klavel

@fingolfin, dont you think its kind of not apt to juxtapose the two questions? Coz theres a collosal difference between someone going inside a girlie bar and someone getting laid and then wake up the morning after as if nothing happened.

Or maybe I missed your point? hehehe

[fingolfin]

@onins, hehehe. ok, let me rephrase that.....

to all the girls out there:

is it ok, if your present bf had at one point in his life, had solicited ***

that's near enough, isnt it.

[psyche_08]

and people would always say "laki mana siya, ok ra"

talk about fair... tsk tsk tsk... they always make it an issue when it comes to women.

[Boy Banned]

@onins, hehehe. ok, let me rephrase that.....

to all the girls out there:

is it ok, if your present bf had at one point in his life, had solicited ***

that's near enough, isnt it.

May I ask you a question.

Is it okay for you if your sister or daughter is known to be a one night stander?

Can you stand as a brother or a father to hear that your sister or daughter has this reputation?

Can you still say its fair for my daughter and sister to act that way because boys are doing that also?

[fingolfin]

Is it okay for you if your sister or daughter is known to be a one night stander?

... to answer you honestly, i dont give a damn. Its her life not mine. She is big enough to know what's right and wrong. And oh, i have a son, when he's in the right age, ill teach him everything he needs to survive, including situations like one night stand.

Can you still say its fair for my daughter and sister to act that way because boys are doing that also?

.. the problem here is why is it a big deal when women endulge into casual ***?? In a one night stand, both man and woman are involved. but why is it that only the women who comes out dirty?? Hypocrisy perhaps??

[Boy Banned]

I disagree. There can be no one night stand *** if the woman will not accede. There can be no buyers if there is no sellers. Now you are asking why is it only women who are castigated in doing one nioght stand. To respnd to your question we must go back to the title of this topic. Its all about a girl doing one night stand. If you want to have another topic about the boy I could equally condemn the boy too.

Im so sorry about your answer in you first question. You dont give a damn. How about your duty as a parent to lead your children to the right path? Are you saying that you are already relinquishing that duty? How can your daughter know what is right and wrong if you will not guide her?

You just dont teach him how to survive but you should teach him how to survive fairly and honestly and not to step someones feet in doing so.

[jumps_zilla]

you're right fingolfin, why should it be a big deal? Â*both sexes can get involved in casual ***. Â*i think it's chauvinistic to put a woman down if she has casual ***. what bout the guy? didn't he have casual *** too? why should it be different for guys? i'm an open-minded person so casual ***/ one night stand does not bother me. Â*if a person engages in this, one has to be careful.

like i said in my previous post, if i'm in love with my girlfriend, it does not matter to me what her past is.

peace out

[Boy Banned]

Its not being chauvinistic to reprimand the woman. Its about teaching what is righ and what is wrong.

Well, I guess our youths of today have a different kind of mindset and different sets of mores. Its a precarious stage of life because the youth usually is vulnerable to exploitative and twisted ideas.

[fingolfin]

.. you dont get it do you. Responsible parenting isnt all about teaching your child the do's and dont's of life. But to teach him the reality that's out there. That life sucks. That life aint fair. I don't want my child to be brought up with an idealistic concept of the world, or a fairy tale world so to speak. I want him to know the whole truth. I know my style is harsh but that's me. If you respect it, fine, if not. i dont give a damn.

Im so sorry about your answer in you first question. You dont give a damn. How about your duty as a parent to lead your children to the right path? Are you saying that you are already relinquishing that duty? How can your daughter know what is right and wrong if you will not guide her?

.. where have i mentioned that i wont guide my son?? I'll give him guidance all the way. But this i'll do: ill teach him NOT to be a hypocrite