Is he my son?

[kuyabog]

y now lng bro?..dpt non mo p gnwa yan..mxado n complicated ang lhat..i think if luv mo nmn un wife mo karon den go w/ d flow nlng..luv him as ur own son..d nmn porket d sau nanggaling d mo na pede ituring na anak..or maybe he is ur son nmn..wag kna mxado mgicp bro..

napakasakit kuya eddie..no i dont love my wyf!

[weng.bata]

naa man in ana mga 2 weeks before or 2 weeks after sa expected due date manganak....tsk3

[Crimson_Viper]

[iMallalone29]

napakasakit kuya eddie..no i dont love my wyf!

dugay na kau ko gnahan mureply ani na thread bah.. karon lang jud ko nagka higayon..

by the way.. since old thread na man ni.. 2011 pa gud.. unsa na man? kamusta? imuha jud ang baby or dili? Unsa na man inyo kahimtang sa imong wife ug sa bata? Kamusta na man ang itsura sa bata? Nausab ra kadugayn? hehe..

Ako lang masulti noh.. if ur still in doubt up until now.. Based sa imong story, nagpakasal ka sa imong wife out of RESPONSIBILTY and not because of love. And you mentioned that you never loved your wife. Alibi na man ang imong pagduda. Tungod kay dili nimo love imong wife, nangita na lang ka ug way para maka lingkawas sa imong pagka higot niya. Kahibaw ka, you have made 1 big mistake by using the child as a reason to marry the mother. Don't make the same mistake by using the child as a reason to be apart from her.

Based sa imong story, 8 months pa nigawas na ang baby. And ikaw pud nag-ingon na ikaw ang naka-una sa girl. Syempre wla na lain pwede maka testify ana kundi ikaw. Logically, if imong huna-hunaon, if 8 months pa nigawas ang bata, meaning a contact was made 1 month before you 2 made contact. But ikaw man kaya ang naka-una... So meaning, it could be na she gave birth ahead of time. Coz if there is any contact other than you, then meaning, 10 months unta nigawas ang baby from the date of your contact. Diha ka dapat magduda.

But if in any case na mu-reason out ka na dili lang mo once nag make ug contact, and naa'y possible nga nkainsert ang uban sa girl, well.. here's what I can tell you. Kaming mga girl, once we give out our virginity to that someone, that someone really means a lot to us. And there is only 1% chance na magpahilabot mi ug lain coz pilit kaayo mi ana na guy nga nakauna namo,. We will give up anything para lang anang tawhana nga nakauna namo. Unless na lang jud if grabe na kasakit ang gibuhat sa guy namo na mura na mi ug gibira paubos. It happens n most cases promise.. Kami man gud, mala fairytale ghapon mi.. as much as possible, we would love to keep our first to be our last. And correct me if I'm wrong.. parehas ra ang mga lalaki sa mga girls.. Most of you guys would also love to keep your 1st to be your last. Only that, pa all macho effect lang jud mo... pero deep inside, dili japon mo makalimot sa girl na nakapabunyag ninyo!

And besides, you mentioned you married her because of RESPONSIBILITY. Then be RESPONSIBLE enough to accept the fact that you are already in that situation. Be a RESPONSIBLE dad to your son. And as much as possible, be RESPONSIBLE enough to be a husband to your wife. And most of all.. be a RESPONSIBLE man.

You know what, because of all your doubts, you are breaking your wife's feelings into pieces. You are definitely tearing her apart. She brought your son for months and put her other foot in grave while giving birth to your son and all she got from you are doubts and excuses with a marriage full of alibis and trust issues. Just think of this sir.. your wife had trusted you with the only treasure she had but you never trusted her in return.. Bahala na lang unta to'g wlay love.. basta ni trust lang ka.. IT MEANT A LOT unta! You could have started a good relationship with trust. So what if she broke your trust?! At least you could slap an "I TRUSTED YOU" phrase on her face! Rather than not trusted her at all...

And you are doing the same thing to your son! Let me ask you if your son was you... Your dad doubted you to be his son.. Dili kaya ka mag build ug kalagot to both your mom and dad? Basin magwala pa ka.. And most of this cases.. leads to Indentity Crisis...

Well... imuha jud na tanan sir.. decision is yours but think of tanan pwede mahitabo when you make your decisions.. Don't be so wise.. rather, be smart. But once you make your decision, you have to make sure that you are ready!

DNA testing? Paternity test? gasto2 lang ka then ang resulta... imuha japon!

[starcatch]

lisoda sa situation ts nu?...but on my opinion seeing your side lisod mg.agwanta ug ing.ani if naa kay doubts ts close door meeting mo sa imong wife, like tinarong tanan bah if makayaba nimo nga mao nay rason nga inanay nga maguba ang inyong relasyon.. What if makabaw ka nga dili imoha?..biyaan nimo?what if imoha?malipay ka kay nasayop ka sa imng ghuna2?...if hapi ka karun ts then ang imong wife dili mn kaha kiaton nga babaye ipadayun ang inyong life oi..maimoha or madili pamilya namo...luoy ang bata..

[domzgnrlover86]

paita anang nagpakasal mu niya di imuha ang anak didto diay tos laki nga ka fling2x sa imung paris? inamawa nalang jud...

[cherrybabe21]

hala ts. for me lang noh, checkmate jud ka ani nga situation nga nagpakasal ka nga dli man diay nimo love imong wife. if nag pakasal lang ka tungod sa responsibility, then you can be a responsible father, supporting them holitiscaly bisan wala lang unta ka nagpakasal sa imu wifey. and why karon raman sad ka ga ihap ana ts. ni dive lang ka sa sapa nga wala ka kahibaw lawm ba or dli. in the first place nga pagkahibaw nimo nga buntis ba imong uyab, imu na unta gi sure if imuha ba jud na. ga kwenta na unta ka daan.

usa sad, it doenst mean nga abi 8 month ang baby, dli na imu kay dli pa iyang due. what if diay premature ang baby? check ang AGE OF GESTATION sa baby mu match ba sa inyo kung kanus.a ninyo g.himo ang bata.

and lastly, although mahal ang paternity test, ang lain option nimo kay through blood type.

[cassiopeia]

imo nlg gud na bro. luoy pud ang bata.

[vahnhelsing]

wa nalang nako hutda ug basa ang kutay apan nagpabilin nga may talinghaga.
murag wala natubag ni ts kun iyaha ba jud o dili...

mao ni lisod kun makasulod ta sa butang nga ginadili unya may sangputanan
sa kaulahian. Sangputanan nga dili kita makaantigo ug barog. Dili pod gyud lalim
ang kasinatian nimo kaniadto ts, hinaot lang nga anaay maayong linugdangan
kining tanan bisan pa nga dili hapsay ang dagan sa kinabuhi nimo ug sa imong
asawa (asawa pa ba kaha ron?).

[peewee_toot]

na ukay lagi ni...

any update TS?