Divorce, Legal Separation, Annulment: What is your stand?

[d`monyita]

hahayyyyy... kapuya ani oi... ang topic marriage pero insults man nuon ang tirada... hehehehehe. cge lang... sabton na lang naton ang mga tao....

why the long post? clarification i guess lol. paikot-ikot man kasi ikaw rey. lahat tuloy nalilito sa iyo. tsaka below the belt ka manginsulto noh? is that how you are when provoked?

if you have a balanced marriage then dili na siya burden but if you have a problematic marriage then that is very burden.  if marriage is not burden then why not marry your sperm donor instead?

LET ME REFRESH YOUR MEMORY... ikaw itong nagsabi that marriage is your burden given by God.

at least nag chacha with a partner unlike yours na tinakasan nang partner, hehehe.....very simple to understand, no solution then what would be your choice.  your lawyer beloved could be the answer to your request na paki-expound nang sentence koh.  the two of us are having a great conversation here huwag ka nang hingi ng tulong sa iba!

Sir, assuming ka naman na ako ang tinakasan. hahahahahaha.  I dont have to consult my lawyer when dealing with the likes of you.  I dont have to consult the law when I question YOUR LOGIC.  I did not ask for help with my words.... and I have a stinking feeling that you were the one asking for help...

Because we are in the Philippines and not in your loving U.S.A. setting.  Don't americanize the topic madam! Be vigilant in our laws here! it is you are the flame and not marriage.  you say marriage is the flame and not you?  goshhhhh.....kailangan ko nang tubig dito....

Manong, naandito lang ako sa yutang akong gitawhan.  What do you mean do not americanize the topic?  Eh ENGLISH po ang topic title... that is kinda hard NOT to Americanize, wouldnt you agree? hehehehehe

Sir, vigilant po ako sa laws of the land... and if you look back on my posts... I have always says that marriage is sacred.   And that married folks should work on their problems to the best of their ability.

And what do you mean by "it is you are the flame and not marriage. you say marriage is the flame and not you?"  baka po you mean... "it is you who is to BLAME...."  oh...and aside from trying to correct your english... let me po try to correct your idea that i am the one to blame.

kung hindi ka pa ignorante then you should have married your sperm donor instead miss marriage expert.

Sir, it is you, not I, who has a problematic marriage...

It is not God who planned to you being single, but you against his plan. buhay ka pa inday!  now you say marriage with you sperm donor miss expert is a stupid decision.  does he knew this?  what a presumptuous you are!

Sir, I believe that God's plan is for me to marry.  But the choice kasi is left on MY hands as to WHO to marry... and it is a decision that I can make only ONCE.  Now... why would I waste my precious gift of marriage with someone irresponsible?

To my notion about women staying single, tanungin mo nalang yung vendors outside your shop.  they have great answers to your question. :mrgreen:

They are fine with my singleness, sir... so why dont u tell all of us here what is your notions ba?  

there it is! you want to control your sperm donor's earnings.  you want 100% of it because its what your beloved lawyer advices.  pambihira ka inday, meron ka pang lawyer adviser(bigat mo chong!). 

You are not thinking straight.  I didnt say I wanted to control ANY of the earnings... just that he become a responsible father.  

and why would i not consult a lawyer? would you not consult a lawyer when you are doing something radical? he was verbally abusive.  there were things he said that i wanted to consult on.  my son's life is concerned... i have to be very very careful gyud noh.  mao gani wala nagpumilit magminyo po.  think about it... had we married THEN... wouldnt we be undergoing annulment now? hehehehehe

Other reason could be that you want your sperm donor to be a female like you.  when you say sit then he should sit.  BIGAT MO PARIN DAY!

Sir... IS THAT HOW YOU SEE FEMALES?  sit and they sit? obey like a dog? toinks! If he was any iota of the PERSON i am then it would not have gone to this point.
 

tingnan mo naman sabi mo expert ka dito then nasa uyab2x pa kayo then separate na agad.  idealistic ka inday!  baka gusto mo magbasa about marriage yung sperm donor moh.  then bakit ka bumigay sa kanaya inday?  you should not have given him your precious "YES".  ilang buwan lang ba kayo nagkarelasyon then bigay agad, very intelligent decision......tsk,tsk,tsk...

Sir, my son is 3 years old.  Ikaw ba... kay bilis mong maghimong istorya noh?  Wa gani ka kaila... ASSUMING kaau ka. hehehehehe

Init ra kaau imong comments sir... WALA ra ba gyud basis ang imong ideas.... tapos pini-personal mo pa... para kang girl kung mangaway... hahahahaha. tama ka nga when you said.. "gossshhhh" you need water.

So let me end by quoting you.... (and this is for you, diosa of the previous posts)....

"what a presumptuous you are!" (RegPhilPatOff--- Rey04)

[Ms.Beau]

murag naa juy miscommunication and misunderstanding

[d`monyita]

hehehe maybe stick to the language of the land? yan... hands down talo ako. lol

[Ms.Beau]

@rey04

i respect your views on marriage it being noble and worthy of all saving measures. of course it is. wala man siguroy ni object ana diri. people here in favor of divorce or annulment are just citing the exceptions---cases of abuse. ako gani gina-repeat man nako nga LAST RESORT ra jud ning annulment.

now please check on your reasoning. you are going way off the argument na by hitting below the belt. you are the one being presumptuous by making unfavorable conclusions about mother dee. you don't really know her life story, do you? daghan man kaayu ka ug conclusions nga walay basehan.

i believe you can express your views on this subject without resorting to character assassination. please do that. let's all do that.

[jugs_06]

it is you are the flame and not marriage. you say marriage is the flame and not you?



pag basa nko sa post ni rey, i truly understand his point and his stand on divorce and marriage.. i mean, sakto man pud xa in a sense.. pero kani lang nga line niya ang wala kau ko kasabot.. it would help if he can expound more on this..

[evs]

wooohhh.....what happened here, nawa ra gani ko kadyot....hehe....

@ rey, i don't think miss D americanized this topic, that is her stand indeed and we all should respect that just like i respect your views in marriage. our law of the land in the PH already have annulment which is even worse than divorce since marriage is declared null and void. if you would say law of the church, then i'm with you but not law of the land.

[Streetcar]

hehehe, you guys are all too interestingly funny. Ma imagine nako ni si Rey04 sa iyang reaction dire coming from women. Just hush baby hush. Anyhow, di ba. if it ain't broken dont fix it. if its broken and unrepairable throw it away! ngano mag-antos man ka sa plantsa nga guba dili na moinit bisan iduot pa nimo

Magaling talaga si Mother Dee mag rebuttal statements as in itemized deductions Rey04, heheh just making this thread lighter. Peace in your hearts, love all year through, merry christmas to you!

[bongjo]

blessed are the peacemakers....

[cholokoy]

@Streetcar:

Dai, dong whatever, your "ngano mag-antos man ka sa plantsa nga guba dili na moinit bisan iduot pa nimo" really made my day. Hahahaha...ilabay kay dili na moinit bisan iduot. Hahahaha (hingal kinatawa) Basta ako di na kinahanglang iduot aron moinit, hahaha.

[rey04]

hahayyyyy... kapuya ani oi... ang topic marriage pero insults man nuon ang tirada... hehehehehe. cge lang... sabton na lang naton ang mga tao....

why the long post? clarification i guess lol. paikot-ikot man kasi ikaw rey. lahat tuloy nalilito sa iyo. tsaka below the belt ka manginsulto noh? is that how you are when provoked?

aw kapoy diay? you are the ones who first provoked my personal views turning it against my personality and then you say that i hit you below the belt. pls check your first replies to my posts di ba below the belt na, madugay maigo akong itlog ani! hehehehe.....

kapoy bitaw ning lalis miss beautiful basin ma "in lab " ko nimo madugay sige ug lalis, hehehe